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drbas 106 Reviews 1145 reads
posted
1 / 20
What if you found out your friend or girlfriend was a provider?

Just curious what people reactions would be if they found out a platonic friend of theirs was providing?

Do you think your friendship or attitude would change around them? Would you hint about knowing about their other life? Let them know you hobby as well? Try to see them as hobbyist?

And what if you found out a girlfriend you were seeing turns out to be a provider?  Would you confront them, leave them, support them, tell them how you use to hobby before them or ignore the whole thing?  

I ask because through mutual friends I became friends with a beautiful, young woman(mid-20's) on facebook, we went out a couple of times, but I got friendzoned. Then by looking at her facebook page, I realized she travels to really nice places, has expensive tastes, but is still pretty much a student without a high paying job. Plus she puts up pictures of her with guys who are above 50(Im 35).  Im thinking she must be a provider.  Sure enough I did a search and found her ads.  I still see her once in a while, and its a little weird for me knowing her other life.  Im tempted to see her on the clock, and see what happens.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 832 reads
posted
2 / 20
Not one bit...I fully support the profession..

It would be a tad bit surprising, but it won't change my attitude towards her...

I am talking about friend here. Not GF.

-- Modified on 6/13/2013 8:26:19 PM

escalade1964 65 Reviews 647 reads
posted
3 / 20
Just hope its not

My daughters friend

cspatz 68 Reviews 808 reads
posted
4 / 20
See her on the clock ....

f she lets you that is. She may not once you know.

Dr Who revived 602 reads
posted
5 / 20
I'd run from this nutcase you're describing

Unless YOU want to be the next johnnie boy posted on her hooker sites for the world to see.

Find some nice hookers that understand what discretion is about.  

If she was a nice looking gal that understood how to play this game...I wouldn't have an issue with it.  And I most certainly wouldn't out her and embarrass her as you're preparing to do.  You've already stalked her enough by seeking out her ads...which I find quizzical since I assume she was using a stage name for her hooker exploits.  Come to think of it, it sounds like you two make a lovely pair   LOL

Just another reason why social media and P4P don't mix.
Posted By: drbas
Just curious what people reactions would be if they found out a platonic friend of theirs was providing?  
   
 Do you think your friendship or attitude would change around them? Would you hint about knowing about their other life? Let them know you hobby as well? Try to see them as hobbyist?  
   
 And what if you found out a girlfriend you were seeing turns out to be a provider?  Would you confront them, leave them, support them, tell them how you use to hobby before them or ignore the whole thing?  
   
 I ask because through mutual friends I became friends with a beautiful, young woman(mid-20's) on facebook, we went out a couple of times, but I got friendzoned. Then by looking at her facebook page, I realized she travels to really nice places, has expensive tastes, but is still pretty much a student without a high paying job. Plus she puts up pictures of her with guys who are above 50(Im 35).  Im thinking she must be a provider.  Sure enough I did a search and found her ads.  I still see her once in a while, and its a little weird for me knowing her other life.  Im tempted to see her on the clock, and see what happens.

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 890 reads
posted
6 / 20
One of my 'real life' friends once found me on Eros....

first he called my hobby phone (it's before I went email only) and I didn't answer because I recognized the number but couldn't place it in my head.  2 minutes later he called my 'real' phone and I realized that I was caught.  I didn't pick up the phone because I needed time to collect my thoughts.  I show my face in my photos so there is/was no plausible deniability.  The next day he stopped by my real job and all he said was "so I guess you are wondering what I was doing on that website [Eros], huh?"  LOL  I won't see him as Natasha, but I did refer him to another local girl, and I told him that he could use me as a reference as long as he didn't disclose my real name to her.

London will say that this is a good example of why girls shouldn't show their face.  If I had more to lose (if I had a boss, or kids at home, or family nearby, or a SO who didn't know) I would agree.  Luckily none of those situations apply to me

AnotherPerspective 759 reads
posted
7 / 20
You were too too nice

She's accustomed  to those older guys treating her like a perfect  
princess .  
If you only knew before the first date she was looking for a change .

  Friendzoned  LMAO never heard that word before .  
    There's a fine  line between manhood and magina .
  You don't have to be mean or obscene for her to want you .
 Confidence without arrogance attract more women than money.  
   If you come off as a suck up , you'll blow your BJ .  
 Better luck next time .  :-D

  If I found out a GF was a provider I would quit calling her at work  .
  Other than that ,nothing would change .
 I wouldn't tell her I knew unless her performance with me was less  
   than her reviews .  :-D
 
 J/K about reading her reviews . It could be frustrating  if she's French kissing other  
guys  and not me .  
 

 
Posted By: drbas
Just curious what people reactions would be if they found out a platonic friend of theirs was providing?  
   
 Do you think your friendship or attitude would change around them? Would you hint about knowing about their other life? Let them know you hobby as well? Try to see them as hobbyist?  
   
 And what if you found out a girlfriend you were seeing turns out to be a provider?  Would you confront them, leave them, support them, tell them how you use to hobby before them or ignore the whole thing?  
   
 I ask because through mutual friends I became friends with a beautiful, young woman(mid-20's) on facebook, we went out a couple of times, but I got friendzoned. Then by looking at her facebook page, I realized she travels to really nice places, has expensive tastes, but is still pretty much a student without a high paying job. Plus she puts up pictures of her with guys who are above 50(Im 35).  Im thinking she must be a provider.  Sure enough I did a search and found her ads.  I still see her once in a while, and its a little weird for me knowing her other life.  Im tempted to see her on the clock, and see what happens.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 639 reads
posted
8 / 20
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justanillusion 698 reads
posted
9 / 20
yep to that![eom]


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scoed 8 Reviews 891 reads
posted
10 / 20
Found out my wife returned to providing.

Still with her. Guess I wouldn't care if a friend was doing it and I made my peace with my wifes choice. One thing I would suggest is you don't try to book her. It is kind of creepy.

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 665 reads
posted
11 / 20
Natasha I remember revisting this topic a while ago.

Dear Natasha:
I remember asking you this question a while ago and the conundrums you would have with showing your face in the pictures. With respect to this, I know that when you elected to show your face there were certain consequences and ramifications that came with this decision. Finally it caught up with you and for a minute you where at a fork in the road about how you wanted to discuss this issue. Now I am wondering how social are you and have you decided to get out in front of this now since your lovely countenance can be identified on major sites?
I guess the next question is do you live in a large enough place to where you wouldn't be recognized as frequently or would you have more friends who might have a propensity to shop on such sites? Either way my love you are at a crossroads in life about how you would choose to persue this. Best of luck on your sensitive professional and personal decisions.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 666 reads
posted
12 / 20
Being she told me I was her first, I would beat that ass! E.


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hotplants 563 reads
posted
13 / 20
So... you know a woman that you think is a provider. And?

So?

If she wants to tell you she will. If she doesn't she won't.  

I have a strong suspicion that a woman I dated a coupla times is really a secret rodeo clown. She's never said so. But, I checked out her FB page, and there she was, underneath a bull in every square state. When we see each other I always feel like we're talking around the whole clown thing.  

Awkward.  

But, it's never changed my opinion of her. I am tempted to dress up like a bull myself and run out into the rodeo arena just to see if she will come out and tackle me....lol...

WTF. Seriously, let it go.

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 568 reads
posted
14 / 20
Don’t know about peoples reaction but mine would be absolutely nothing

It is their life and their choice. Must we spend time figuring out what others do or think on a particular anything? Thoughts are as many as the leaves in a forest, endless.

single47 560 reads
posted
15 / 20
hit it

Go for it. Tell her you know and you want to hit it.

inicky46 61 Reviews 465 reads
posted
16 / 20
I think rodeo clowns are hot.

Is this her?  Can we do an FMF?

airmantroy 28 Reviews 421 reads
posted
17 / 20
Re: You weren't friendzoned

summer, I beg to differ...I know a provider who actually uses some of her "provider" pictures on her social media page, and with a little detective work via tineye everything can be found....

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 479 reads
posted
18 / 20
I live in Charlotte, a city of ~2 million people in the metro...

I didn't grow up in NC, and I have no family here, other than my (fully grown and independent) daughter who lives in a different NC city which I only tour on request (and rarely at that).  I would rather she not find out about Natasha, but if she did, the world wouldn't end and she would still love me.  I tend to not tour the state where the rest of my family lives, and again, I would rather they not find out about Natasha, but if they did, I don't think they would be all that surprised, and they would definitely continue to accept me.  My parents were (are?) swingers and I am sure my father has hobbyed around the world; I have discussed the hobby with him "in theory" and he thinks it should be legal.  He would just give me the "as long as you're being careful" line.

I do have friends here, but I will admit to keeping them at arms length because of Natasha.  I wish I didn't have to, but I do.  Having said that, I think I would do so even if I didn't show my face because answering questions about where I'm going and what I'm doing and how I earn my money just gets too complicated, and I'm not a good liar.  In fact, I'm a really terrible liar.

My BF is not a hobbyist but he does know about Natasha, and he does not like it.  Because of this, Natasha will soon disappear.  I'm getting ready to start a new phase of life:  I'll soon be moving to a new city, going back to grad school, re-opening my old 'real' business and getting married.  When that happens, I will 'scrub away' as many pics as I can on the internet and the rest I will not worry about.  Life goes on.

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 699 reads
posted
19 / 20
If my GF turned out to be a provider I would dump her ass!

Not because she is does what she does.
Because she would have had to lie to me in order to keep that a secret.
Honesty in a relationship to me is everything.

If she were my friend.. I would have to know her very well to say anything.
Remember.. You are telling her you know what is probably the biggest secret she has in her life.

Although from what you post.. She isn't very concerned with being outed if she has a FB page with her real name, and pics of her with clients.. Sounds pretty stupid to me

scoed 8 Reviews 547 reads
posted
20 / 20
I have.

But I do not care if people figure out I hobby.

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