I've always liked sloppy slurpy deep throat and usually pick providers who have a reputation for doing this.

Some years ago I met with this Eastern European provider who had this technique of licking the small head.  Licking and licking like a cat starving for milk.  At first I was irritated that she did not accommodate my request for deepthroat.  About 10 minutes later I was clenching the mattress, on the edge of shooting my load.  This continued for several minutes as she did not stop until I finally spilled.  This was the most intense pleasure I have ever had.  It was also a near death experience for me as I felt I could have had a heart attack at any time due to increased blood pressure...or whatever happens to a man on the edge orgasm.   I am not a doctor.  Maybe some medical expert can explain what I mean here.

This woman went back to her country and has not returned as far as I know.  I would love to see her again, or someone with her same tongue technique.

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Back when I first started, I didn't care much for heavy tattoos, especially if certain vital areas were covered.  But there was a provider I saw for a couple of years almost a decade ago that had the most extensive body art that I had seen to date, and given her artistic nature (she was degreed in fine arts from UCLA, and one of the most intellectual ladies I've ever known), it was apropos.  What was once a turn-off became a turn-on, or neutral at worst.   Now, if she has interesting body art, it's a topic for conversation, and most ladies with tats are more than happy to explain their rationale.  

which seems to be a lot of ladies favorite. I'm tall and sometime the positioning is awkward until I met this young, free-spirited young lady who would get all fours, spread herself open for me at just the right height, and just the perfect angle, with the perfect view of her utterly perfect amazing ass and pussy. From that position I was in heaven when I was fucking her. I looked forward for her to come over for that sole reason. And although I've enjoyed the position occasionally since then, no one has ever been able to match her positioning, enjoyment, and backward thrusting onto my cock, as I could stay motionless and she could drive me up a wall. She always smoked a joint in her car before she came in. And she was stunning.

Same challenge when doing anal. Suggestions, ladies?

I know you asked for hobbyists, but this question just opened the flood gates in my memory bank, and I had to join the conversation. I have had several of these moments throughout my life, and now career. I was a late bloomer when it came to sex/sexuality, and stated out very conservative, as many of us do. While I was always very liberal in my view points about others rights, I had never thought about experimenting with someone of the same sex myself. That was until I was at a bachelor party. I've always been 'one of the guys' in my athletic circles, so I was invited along as the only woman in the group. There were strippers of course, and when they did their show, one of them grabbed me, and sat me in the circle on a chair and straddled me, (at this point my face is fire engine red), and she proceeds to make out with me. I loved it!! And while I still prefer the company of men over women, I do enjoy the occasional experience with other women.  

The earlier thread about uncut vs cut, is another one of those. Growing up in the US, all I had seen was cut, and hadn't even considered any alternative, until I was with my Chinese boyfriend for the first time. I was a little bit scared...like, "what is wrong with it. Why does it look like that"?! Now I LOVE uncut penises.  

As for 69, I'm still looking for someone to convert me on that. I think it's mostly that I am quite petite, and most men are so much taller than me, that it's just really awkward to find the right angles. I'm still always willing to try, and sometimes the awkwardness its self is turns into great fun.  

Moral of the story for me I guess, is that I like to stay open to new ideas, and continue to push my comfort zone. Thanks for a great question to get the brain going this morning!

here is a review I wrote on Kitty Rains.......has to be one of the best providers anywhere.  Had never been with someone who squirted before........was completely surprised by my reaction........of course if she was not immaculate in every way...........then I could never have............

Well read on if you dare;

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1723159

...my experiences prior to the hobby had been with women similar to me (except several who were older) -- same education, mostly same age, 5'3" to 5'7", athletic, white or Hispanic, natural breasts, etc.  

My hobbying -- well, that's another story -- hooray for African-American and Asian women, 6-footers and those that are vertically challenged, the occasional BBW, 38FFF's, and especially, thank the lucky stars for 22-30 year-olds who like to spend time with us old farts!!!

....like a love for tribadism, which was something that I felt 'meh' about until a particularly talented stripper used me as her own experimental open canvas and showed me how it really should be done.

I now also consider blondes when deciding on a playmate. In the past if she wasn't a brunette I never looked any further. I have a very hot blond provider to thank for that

i usually lays my money down, lay back and let the lady do her number on me.

but i've been seeing a lady who has been doing tons of different role play with me.  one session was particularly mind blowing, when she dressed as a nurse, and did her stuff on my body while speaking in a very clinical, technical tone.  the difference between the dry dialogue and the things she was doing with her hands and breasts and mouth was incredibly erotic.

after the session when i said how exciting it was to have incredible sex while hearing the clinical, dry discussion.  she told me it was her fantasy to have someone in control using her for sex while being very dry and clinical about it.

so the next session i asked for the nurse again.  but i brought an old lab coat from my costume wardrobe and surprised her as the doctor, demanding that she as the nurse go through remedial training before being allowed to attend to patients.

i then took control of the entire session, doing to her what she did to me previously:  ravaging her body while discussing in a very staid, medical teaching voice, what i was doing.  she got incredibly wet (my fingers can attest to her beginning dryness and i saw the juices literally drip out of her onto me) and she reach an o for the first time in our meetings (heretofor she had never concentrated on herself, always on me).

it was first time i was specifically the dominant, controlling the whole agenda, pace and activity.  i actually enjoyed it a great deal, and she did, too.

I never much liked the idea of rimming a woman. However, I was recently doing a 69 with a provider who moved her flexible little body so that my tongue slipped away from her pussy and clit and presented her cute little anus to it. She was the most squeaky clean provider I have every been with (and insists on the same for clients), so I went for it. Since then, I have done it with her several times and enjoyed it as part of our oral play. I am not sure that I would do it with someone else, but  it will be a regular part of my sex with her.

I have my preferences, but I can appreciate most women, they are all unique. Just remember the dynamics of the relationship, it's transactional