It is truly amazing when the chemistry is there.  I have found that it is not the norm, but rather the exception.  My last provider (see review) was one of those chemistry things.  When I am with here, the world fades away, she is the only thing I know, and I feel like I am the world to her.  Now I'll leave it up to you...It is either some really good acting, or sparks fly.  I lean to the sparks myself.  I've had both and know the diff.  Good providers are hard to find.

I have never

had sex without intimacy. In order for me to have sex there must be some level of intimacy between the provider and myself. I usually bring a deck of cards to the session so if there is no intimacy we spend the time playing strip poker.

and it has happened to me... when I first returned to the hobby after a 10 year hiatus due to marriage... I picked a lady from Eros... who had reviews... but she was - for that evening - my SECOND choice... went in... she was absolutely what I want in looks... and just plain sexy... fun - intelligent... and we just seemed to connect so very well.... after the session she suggested a longer session the "next time"

Well, the next time, we got into a bit of a discussion.... and I realized that her banter - was indeed just that - banter... it was not what or how she said it, just that she said it... still carry her memory with me... 5-6 years later.... and as you point out, i go with Plan a or plan b--- or perhaps "Plan 9"