so I'm happily married, yet resort to the companionship of other ladies.  Don't get me wrong, I love my wife but there is something about a woman yet discovered!  I find myself going to the grocery store thinking, wow, what's beneath those yoga pants! Am I a sex addict?...maybe.  All I know is I love seeing a new pussy for the first time!  

Him: I'm goin' out to find me some new pussy!  
Her: If you had two more inches of dick you'd find some new pussy right here!
I was just thinking about that....lol.

You also wondered what color panties the waitress at Olive Garden was wearing and whether they were cotton or silk.

...you can't resist the charms of a beautiful young woman? I guess that just proves your human. BTW, this is what's beneath those yoga pants.

join the fucking crowd..

... when caught cheting on his wife he said “ Who are you gonna believe. Me or your lying eyes”.

Freaking awesome joke! Thank you!!!!!

I have standing orders to make sure Her Cock is looked after properly. Who am I to argue?
Cheating would be to not fuck others.

Back when I had my first wife, I always would say something like:   "Gotta go screw the neighbor lady now."

I've done two monogamous  marriages. Now, I'm not doing that again. I sure am enjoying being straight up about playing with other women when I'm in a relationship. If it causes a problem, the relationship isn't working and I'm out.
That's for now, I could change my mind in the future...........................    or not.

In my honest and true opinion, humans aren't meant to be monogamous. There's maybe a handful of people I've ever met who can "truthfully" say they only have eyes for their partners. We're sexual beings, whether or not we always want to admit it to ourselves. While I don't BELIEVE in cheating, I do understand it and understand that everyone has different needs, wants, and cravings that sometimes their partners can't provide. Coming from a woman of divorced parents - who stayed together for 8 years longer than they should have, simply because of having a child, I can say that being in a monogamous (my mom came out as bisexual, wanted to experiment, dad got mad, mom cheated, divorce, etc.) relationship is definitely not for everyone. My fiancee knows and respects the business that I do, and in all honesty it helps our relationship. He's free to do as he pleases (within reason), and I do this, which I enjoy. We both have different things we want to do that sometimes the other person doesn't, or sometimes he's in the mood and I'm not, or vise versa. I feel like the divorce rate or just relationships in general would be better if open relationships were more accepted. Shit. Your husband wants new pussy? Ok. Join him! Make it more fun. Hahaha.

That I would be perfect for a polyandry type marriage. I totally agree with that! I could definitely love more than one man, at the same time and I dont think I'd be happy with the same one cock forever.   I dont consider it cheating to fuck multiple people. We are all only human.  New sexual experiences are a thrill!!! It's just the natural thing to do IMO.  
XOXO  
TL

I had posted this recently on another thread...out of the roughly 5,000 species of mammals only 3-5 percent form lifetime pair bonds.

.... the most important thing is to be honest with myself and my partners.
Monogamy is great for some and not so for others. And can be different at different ages.  
What was appropriate at one age, doesn't have to be appropriate at another.  
Being able to be open to love, with acceptance of the other or others,  takes a whole lot of an open mind with acceptance and communication.  

I was engaged once back in my early 30s. I started "working" in the late 90s. I'm still working today at 38. I simply love variety. I can't control myself.

I mean, I thoughly enjoy variety as well. Keeps it fresh and exciting. I don't believe your a sex addict you just like variety. Nothing wrong with that.

I think this lady has a great take on the subject. Esther Perel.... link below.

Women are just as susceptible to cheating as men.  Quite by accident, I recently encountered a Netherlands porn site on which there are videos of a guy in a pawn shop convincing women to have sex with him for extra money.  About half of the women who agreed to this were married and while they seemed reluctant at first, they were really into the sex.  They were not just going through the motions to get the extra cash.  They often began with some trepidation but once things got started, they LOVED it.  Makes me wonder how many relatively ordinary women will have sex with a complete stranger under the right circumstances.    

Those are. ALL fake videos. So are the casting couch ones and the taxi cab ones. Same for the Bang Bus video. Sorry ...

Just because you love your wife doesn't mean you are physically and sexually attracted to her.  When I was younger and in a relationship I would forgot other women existed.  But, it's because I was sexually attracted to my girlfriend(s).  You can love your wife as a spouse or the mother of your kids.  It doesn't mean you are sexually attractive to her anymore.

I'd have to disagree.  Those white panties aren't underneath the yoga pants.  She's commando under those yoga pants