I read a post on the California/Pasadena board at wsgforum.com where this guy was talking about how some other guy went to see a provider who this other guy knew charged $ for 1/2 hour FS, but who doesn't ask for the money up front.  So he "does" her, then offers her 60, even though he's got the $.  She counters with 80 and that's what he gives her.  Then the poster says he's gonna try that next time, like it's a great idea instead of a sleazy trick.

I wanted to throw up.  I guess "ROB" can stand for "Rip-Off Bastard" too.

Pathetic...that guy and his handle should go on the data base as a rip off. If you cannot afford your hobby then save until you can. as it is a provider that will offer you half hour rates is hard to come by and his disrespect is disgusting. until us providers start sticking together and making these sleazy ripoff artists stand accountable for there actions then this crap will continue. If it gets to a point gentlemen where this is no longer profitable enought to justify the risks you will only have those that can do nothing else available to you...if a client short you or haggles after the fact he should be repoerted to a place where e=other providers can see it...fair is fair after all.

Well, I can see he is doing exactly what we don't like our providers to do.When one does not deliver what one has promised. Dishonesty on either side of the relationship takes away from the pleasure we can all have.

He will get his one day. He will run into someone a little slimier, a littler smarter, and a little more dishonest than he is. And when he does, the universal scales will tip just a tiny bit more into balance.

Too bad he will probably meet Smith & Wesson or Mr. Gorilla driver.

Stupid acts invite a beating.

Seems that he is negotiating a discount after the fact and not just refusing to pay.  If the girl refuses to come down, she will get what she first agreed upon.  It happens all the time in business and while it is an irritation, it is a normal fact of life.

I reread the first message, and while it is not quite as bad as when I first read it (apparently they never discussed/agreed on a price up front), he knew what she charged and took advantage of her knowing she would have little leverage afterward.

If she had insisted on the $150 (or whatever it was) he doesnt sound like he was planning on giving it to her. She has little leverage after the fact and guys taking advantage of girls like this creates those situations we all dislike. Where as soon as we get in the door, the lady immediately demands they money. Its guys like that who make the ladies suspicious of all of us.

A gentleman wouldnt have done something like that.

a guy I saw in Vegas not long ago. He booked an hour and wanted to have a drink first. I love a bit of "social" interraction first. We had what I thought was a very pleasent time, and when I picked up my card and went to freshen up he was half short on the hour donation. When I called him on it he said "Well honey, you were great BUT BBW's never rate more than $1/2 an hour in my book. What ya gonna do about it?"

I had to go because there really wasn't anything I could do. But the funny thing is...he actually had the nerve to use me as a reference. I hope he continues to do so, because with a reference like mine he won't see any action for a loooooong time.

Sorry if that sounds mean, but damn.

xoxo
~L~

Whats mean about it?

People looking for a reference are looking for accurate ones. You are just being accurate.

Amazing that he is stupid enough to use use you as a reference after cheating you. When someone calls, let him have it.

Decent guys have no solidarity with assholes who lie and cheat and give us all a bad name. They are the client equivalent of rip offs and we will disassociate ourselves with them just as quickly as good providers will disssociate themselves with rip off providers. Decent people (on either side of the providing equation) have nothing in common with rip offs and feel no sympathy for them.

Incidents like this are pathetic and dangerous.

All, the more reason IMHO to legalize this industry. Therfore, when things like this happen, the providor has legal recourse.

Is the "providors only" board up yet?

If so I think that would be the perfect arena for providors to post the names of those who ripped them off. Thus giving others the opportunity to refuse service in the future/

Sorry you got ripped off