..quit providing or graduate to BBBJ?

Rate for it.  The market will always correct.

I respect these girls who don't sell out for extra money like many of us do though...they are safer as a whole, and I don't care what anyone wants to say about the risk being there. Condoms are 99 percent effective when used properly", says it all for me.

The reason married men don't really care about the risk is because it's NOT on you when "getting" a bbbj. It is so very rare to contract something on the receiving end, so the risk is more on us. I don't think anyone should try and ruin the business of these girls, and I find it sad that so many do just that by posting stupid comments on their reviews on boards that allow it.

These women also have goals, children to feed, etc. and believe it or not there is a huge market for guys who only want cbj. I know a girl in Upstate NYC who charges 4 an hour, and ALL she does is cbj and covered daty, fs. I am sure she is the exception and not the rule, but it just goes to show that it depends on the person sometimes and not just the act.

But I know many women who only do CBJ and while yes, you are right, in that you won't see them advertising for long, it is many times, not because they can't get buisness, but because  they obtain so much business with so many regulars with men who appreciate a health conscious woman who values herself and doesn't believe that the risk outweigh the monetary gain that they are able to work off of just regulars, which again, lowers another risk, that risk being with more exposure and LE and seem to be doing surprisingly well with little money spent on advertising.

Just another view of the hobby that sometimes gets overlooked.

Each lady who is in this business makes choices about what she is comfortable doing, and what she is not comfortable doing.  There may be many different reasons for a given choice, but it is her choice.

We clients have choice as well.  If nibbling on the left ear lobe is a "must have", and Suzy Mattress Thrasher does not offer that, move on.  Simple as that.

However, to decry or dis a lady for her choices is patently unfair.  She may adjust her choices to the market place sure, but it is still her choice.  She sets the menu, we choose off the menu.

I am actually very glad to  read this thread. In my area STD rates are really high and I have come of age in a time where condoms are the norm. I have wrestled with bbbj vs. cbj since I became sure I was entering this business. And I KNOW I prefer cbj. I would enjoy the act of giving head sooo much more knowing I'm decreasing the risk of my throat possibly becoming infected. If I give a bbbj and catch something there is a strong possibility that the next guy fucking my throat can catch it. Granted my POV is based on my life experiences working in healthcare and seeing very attractive healthy looking young people receive HIV diagnosis. And seeing some skanky chicks I've grown up with and I KNEW where positive going around hoing anyway (without disclosing there status). But I pray to the provider gods lol that I can still build a successful biz offering safety only service. Plus its also kinda effed up that guys are demanding this when the real risk is on the provider. If it was more likely that guys equally shared the risk of bbbj this would barely be a topic of discussion. Also it makes me laugh that GFE= bbbj anyway. Maybe I'm weird but in my civvie life being my "boyfriend" (a term I find amusing at 30) was never a guarantee that I'd suck your dick or do half the freeky things I'd offer as a provider lmao. Sorry so wordy, just wanted to partake and glad to have somewher to discuss thing related to being a provider.

Covered anything,

SUCKS!!!