have any of you guys been caught by your wife, girlfriend or anyone while hobbying? I mean no matter how careful you are theres still always a slight chance.  I was almost caught by my wife when she dropped in at my work place for a surprise visit.

yes, my ex fiancee went through my emails and I got caught.  However, I broke up with her cause I got so pissed off at her invading my privacy.  I haven't looked back since.

....there is no Girlfriend or wife, so the only people, who could catch me are friends, family (not really, as they live 5000 miles away) or coworkers and there the risk is relatively low.

But I would like to hear your story, how did she nearly catch you at work? Did you get a lady to visit you at work or were you just surfing the sites, when she walked in? Now that is a story I would like to hear.

My hobbying is done 150 miles away, so no friends, family, to catch me.

virtually everyone I know is aware of my hobbying. So there is nothing to really be caught at.

I do my hobbying at INCALLS.  Caught in the act is impossible...  make sure the d*mn door is locked.
Now it is possiblke to have your security breached, black book discovered, computer hacked, phone found, etc.  Make sure it doesn't.
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My administrative assistant and some of the female office staff used to like to check me out when I came back from my two or three our long lunches on Fridays... I swear those women could smell sex on me across the room. They got a kick out of it actually... but now, I am in a relationship again, this time with a very traditional woman. When I'm in DC I'm able to hobby freely, but at home, I am now faced with having to maintain a secret life again..... I'd forgotten how uncomfortable it was....

Guys always have a cover when playing away from home.  Playing golf, going to a sporting event, shopping, business trip.  You should be able to coverup with an excuse for an hour or 2.  Have a reason for being away from home.  One of the ladies I see has hours on Sunday mornings.  No one expects to be hobbying on Sunday mornings.....

caught...

it turns out, there was no hobbying that biz trip.  

Now I'm more carefull to throw away recipets.

Actually I think I hobby more often than I have lunch.

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What I mean is yours and mine computers.  We go online, we check out TER, we visit cityvibe or other sites and always the possiblity of a trail.

We all eventually make mistakes, leave a window open, or info that is sent to a provider. Think of your self as being involved as an undercover agent, leading a double life - that is what we do (except lucky GaGambler) eventually the odds will catch up to many of us - not all but some.

Be careful.

It was almost made for a show it was funny it was difficult for me to keep a serious face and feel bad. He wont play in is back yard anymore. He went out to play cards a girl he contacted on eros call him back she met him there and they played cards and he was really drunk so he got a hotel room and then headed home in the wee hours of the morning. He got out of his car not noticing the condom was still on his cock and as it deflated (sorry for the details yuck!!) it slipped through is pant leg and on the floor of his garage. His wife found it and he only had 3 hours of sleep! lol and she stated she was going to check the DNA on it so he confessed to a blowjob in the parking lot! lol Im sorry to laugh but he should of stayed at the hotel until he had all his marbles back in his head and took a shower and checked himself out!!! that is the most costly condom!!!!

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Years ago, I left my car door slightly open with  the interior light on before visiting a provider. When I came out, two blue uniformed gentlemen met me at my car and asked if it was mine. Well, I had a gun on the floor board that I had just picked up for repair. They found it and since it was a not so nice neighborhood, they questioned me and had me take everything out of my pockets. Then they asked the provider what my name was. They also had called my then-wife to ask if she knew why my car was in that parking lot! Well, I gave them a bullshit story; she gave them a bullshit story; but they knew why I was visiting. They let me go because they had no evidence and I didn't have any drugs on me. I was lucky and swore off the hobby..yet I'm still here! Just a little bit more careful.

I brought a bag with a towel and soap on a visit to a provider, but had to rush out and couldn't take a shower. I had gotten home before my then-wife, took a quick shower and when I walked into the kitchen, there was a used condom on the floor! We had used several during my visit and one of them got stuck to the bottom of my bag and dropped off as I made my way through the kitchen. I disposed of it before it could be discovered. Now I pat myself down for contraband. Cigarette smoke and other unusual scents on your skin and clothing are also giveaways.