I think that our definitions of gender and sexuality are confused in our culture, anyhow. I think that when we start experimenting with things, we end up finding out more about ourselves than we expected.
I always considered myself what I called a "Penthouse Bisexual." What that meant, to me, was that (like the girls in Penthouse) I was only hot for women when men were around. I played with girls because it made men hot. I never considered that the girls made me hot when I did this; I attributed it solely to the male presence.
Then, in college, I fell in love with my best friend -- who happened to be female. I was freaking out. I sought counseling. Raised in Colorado (gays call Colorado the "hate state"), being a "lez" or a "homo" was just wrong. It took a few sessions for me to realize that all these years, I really was bisexual... not just "Penthouse Bisexual," but really, honestly, "born that way" bisexual. I had always liked girls; loved looking at my dad's Playboys; had dirty dreams about boys and girls during my teenage years.
But I had supressed the whole concept, because it was socially unacceptable. I had allowed myself the "Penthouse Bisexuality" because doing it for guys made it okay.
I believe that there are more men who are bisexual than we think. They call themselves "straight" while they go visit TS girls, or see escorts who use strap-ons on them, etc. etc. Lots of men fantasize about being with another man, and will confess that truth to an escort, but never, never, never to another man or their spouse or their therapist or anyone else. Escorts hear all of the secrets.
I don't think men are less predisposed to bisexuality; I think society makes it far less acceptable.
Taking a poll here. I am not talking about those "born" with the feelings, and never had any desire for the opposite sex. I am referring to those who love sex mostly with the opposite sex but could (or have been) enticed to a sensual encounter.
Here's my reasoning. Both men and women love women' bodys. Smooth, soft. Everyone knows that women stare, examine, evalutate whatever you want to call it, more at a very attractive woman that enters a room than men do. In addition, women know that men love to see 2 women together, and being more of a pleaser type than men (generally), they are more apt to experiment in this way. The thought of a girl touching a girl, is not repulsive, but a guy actually touching the arm of another guy, or feeling the stubble of the beard, is sicking to most guys. I know there's alot of generalities here, but thats my view, what do you think?
Part II: Do you think you could ever entice your spouse to a 3-some, and what would it take?
From that, and my own observations (I observe this very closely. . . it's purely scientific) I think sexual orientation is not as deeply imprinted in women's brains as in men's. Some women might fake bisexuality for professional reasons, but the very fact that so many of them can do it so easily-- says something.
I couldn't bring myself to touch a guy sexually. I couldn't even make it look like I was enjoying it. I think most straight guys are like that and can only perceive sex between males as some sort of attack, where one is masochistically consenting to rape.
Whereas given more permissive sexual environments, like stripping and like the hobby, many more women will indulge bisexual fun.
I think that our definitions of gender and sexuality are confused in our culture, anyhow. I think that when we start experimenting with things, we end up finding out more about ourselves than we expected.
I always considered myself what I called a "Penthouse Bisexual." What that meant, to me, was that (like the girls in Penthouse) I was only hot for women when men were around. I played with girls because it made men hot. I never considered that the girls made me hot when I did this; I attributed it solely to the male presence.
Then, in college, I fell in love with my best friend -- who happened to be female. I was freaking out. I sought counseling. Raised in Colorado (gays call Colorado the "hate state"), being a "lez" or a "homo" was just wrong. It took a few sessions for me to realize that all these years, I really was bisexual... not just "Penthouse Bisexual," but really, honestly, "born that way" bisexual. I had always liked girls; loved looking at my dad's Playboys; had dirty dreams about boys and girls during my teenage years.
But I had supressed the whole concept, because it was socially unacceptable. I had allowed myself the "Penthouse Bisexuality" because doing it for guys made it okay.
I believe that there are more men who are bisexual than we think. They call themselves "straight" while they go visit TS girls, or see escorts who use strap-ons on them, etc. etc. Lots of men fantasize about being with another man, and will confess that truth to an escort, but never, never, never to another man or their spouse or their therapist or anyone else. Escorts hear all of the secrets.
I don't think men are less predisposed to bisexuality; I think society makes it far less acceptable.
I totally agree about the escorts being far superior to any other forum for baring one's true self. In this context prostitution as a whole can be seen in a totally different light from what general society views it as. I only discovered this myslef when I first saw an escort. Before that I was ignorant of the powerful services escorts have to offer...
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