One thing that I see some providers make a big mistake is bringing drama into the session. There are all types of things they to do. Remember the best thing to do is to enjoy the session. Leave the drama for your other provider friends. Not all guys are looking to see how many providers they can fuck. Many want to find a few to have repeat visits with.

Also treat each customer like a king. Never under estimate what your kindness can do. A client could turn into a sugar daddy willing to buy you car or take you on a trip for a week.


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If your with the right provider, you will be the center of her universe during your time together, with her making it as enjoyable as possible. If she is not doing this you've made the wrong decision = (  In some rear instances you may have caught her on a bad day, I dont tink the average provider would purposely make the meeting unpleasant.

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Sometimes girls need someone to vent to.. they just dont do it the correct manner.
You should hear the crapola we hear from drama kings !! LOL!.. Im feelin ya for sure !

sheer! I love your......
Shoes !!!

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Each man should be treated like a king, as long as he is clean, courteous and respectful.

Hugs,
ciara

Depends what you mean by drama.  I was recently telling clients about the poor service I was receiving in the hotel I was staying in.  I guess it's possible some thought it was drama but I think they thought, like me, it was all quite entertaining!

I'm saying this only to illustrate I treat a client like a friend and will chat and flirt with them.  I can't be an actress and put on a fake persona.  I do like to think I treat them very well and make them feel great at the same time.

I don't think it's acceptable to vent to clients about personal problems, especially boyfriend problems.  I know some girls do with clients they know well but I think a client comes to me for some R&R, not to hear a list of woes.

Thank you
King Followme

. . . 'cos I was not brought up as a prince.

I love you (((((EARTHQUAKE)))))

Drama kings and queens-

These are the people that start talking about the business, the other girls, the other hobbyists, etc...

You are lucky in London.. you dont have to deal with that crap..maybe  for punterlink or stuff like that though.. i dont know...but we hear so much

I actually have a rule when local avid hobbyists come to my home..  that there is NO gossip, i just dont wanna hear it !!!

Well then i hear it from other girls.. and im like..'Damn, i should just let these guys talk my ear off from now on '

I miss alot !!! Shit ! hahahah

Thanks Ciara!!  I stand there in all my...
Glory and you compliment my shoes ; )~

there is one provider that I am thankful that she does bring drama in - cause it keeps the distance - otherwise I could easily get lost in her....!   a bit 'o drama is not a bad thing.

Drama is also how you define it.  I go back to the opening scene from "Monster's Ball" where the son has an encounter with an escort... it is the coldest dryest encounter ever.  I have had one of those....  and some that were close... they are never good.  On the other hand, I have been with pornstars and we have shared the politics of parent teacher conferences, other providers and I have spoken with the difficulties of financing an education, others what to do with an SO who is not what ya want... and more.  Is this Drama?  to some it probably is - to me - it is the stuff of life.  Am I offended - no.  Am I interested - yes.  What does turn me off - someone going on about themselves in a way that tells me that they are lying.  or trying to impress me.  

There is also the concept of just the art of conversation.... If I am having a session with a lady, I personally do not wish to have a discorse about prebiotic biology, its ramifications with respect to the possiblity of life on other worlds or the possibility of a sentinent being who created the universe and time, or the latest finding that superstring theory may not account for the potential of the critical amount of matter to contract the universe.... or the issue of how one's religious beliefs may be counter productive to a viable foreign policy position by the U.S.  (okey, maybe this last one I would talk about!)

I would rather hear a provider tell me something of herself.... how she comes to her views on the above.... and why.... That is much more interesting.  Drama?! well, if there isn't a bit of drama in the OMG moments..... then you must be doing it wrong.

Drama - Once a provider had a car accident on her way to see me.  The session was perfect - there was nothing that she could have done better.... and then she told me about the accident.   I found it odd that she went through the session... and somewhat less that real.  but then again, I have had a car accident on the way to work, managed to get the police report in, have the car towed and rent a car AND get to work only 5 min late...  so I guess it is possible to compartmentalize that much.... but it is odd... still to me

In short I like meeting the ladies.... and not a facade.

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Cmon ! You know Ciara's humor and charm by now !
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I was gonna say brazilian lookin` ass ! LOL!