Hi I am an escort, but ever since i can remember, my sex partners (personal life) have always told me that I can be very dominant in bed.  I've always thought that by me being a taurus, that I'm just naturally a leader, always wanting to tell people what to do and how to do it.  But as I got older (I'm 23), I started to realize that I am attacted to a darker side, not saying that being a dom is anything bad.  But I find myself in the village looking at all the latex, pvc, whips, strap-ons, etc.  I wear all black everyday, from my fingernails, to clothes, to undies, to toenails, and once in a while I might throw in some red.  I find when I use a strap-on to, as i say, "buss a client's ass" to be be very exciting, any type of pain to a client is a turn-on for me.  My question.  I know being a dom involves more than just pain, it involves a lot of mental work.  That part just doesn't seem to be in me, I am more of a passive person.  Is there anyway that this can be taught, or would it be more natural.  If it can be taught, is there any pros out there that can teach me? I will be more than happy to pay.