I have had several people reach out asking the same & why wouldn't we just advertise make me an offer?

Let's make a deal!  

If I am touring I invested $ to be there why wouldn't I want to give a discount for last minute bookings? I plan in advance. My time would already be taken. I don't travel to sit in a hotel room hoping to get a date.

I don't operate, like that, but maybe someone else does.

I don't even want to offer discounts because what I provide is priceless.

If a provider is advertising a certain rate, that means that's what they charge for their time. If they're not getting any bookings and desperately need the money, they'll lower their rates or find another way to pay their bills. What makes you think it's appropriate to negotiate when you could just go find someone else in your price range? This is not a pawn shop.

"For reference you can get a Blonde Ex porn star who will blow your mind for $ 500 per hour in my area if you schedule in advance."

So it sounds like you have it pretty good. Why are you worried about higher priced providers when you supposedly have tons of amazing options in your price range? This incessant need some of you have to humble providers who know what the fuck they're worth is ridiculous. Just see who you can afford. You are not the target for $1-2k an hour providers.

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Interesting....

1.  Why start out communications on a sour note.  She is either going to get pissed and either ignore you or tell you to get lost.  If I put myself in her shoes I would simply ghost and block.  
2.  It’s insulting.  Period.  
3. Even in the unlikely event that she does negotiate her rates the odds are against you that it will not be a good to great session.  

Honestly, I can’t think of a worse way to approach a provider.  Hell, I’m even hesitant to ask providers I’ve seen a few times to grandfather me in when they raise their rates.  If they offer it that’s great, if not I’ll just roll with it and look elsewhere without any sour grapes between us.  

You want the 45 day dry aged ribeye but only want to pay the Denny’s flank steak rate.

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I’m aware some clients are in a better position to book high end or extended sessions, meanwhile others have a budget. In either case I’m always flattered a gentleman wants to spend his hard earned money on me. Can you negotiate? Sure (I’m already foreseeing the comments giving you the ok), but should you? NO!! Just bc you can, doesn’t mean you should. Why not save up and reach out later? A provider may even lower their rate, or post a discounted session to fill a tour or last min cancellation. Which IS acceptable vs unwarranted haggling.

Understand we don’t have to bend our rates or policies to accommodate everyone.. in fact some of us out-price certain clientele on purpose. This is for safety and scheduling purposes. Most of us don’t want to be accessible to everyone, and that’s ok. I know I prefer it that way, and so my clients.  

With that said, if you respect sex workers you’ll pay their rate without any games. There is a lot of nuance behind our rates. Survival sex workers may be open to negotiating (but I have my own opinions that I won’t get into), but rule of thumb is don’t waste your time or theirs if you can help it.

I think there’s a big difference between negotiating and trying to get champagne service on a tap water budget.
Do I ever make little exceptions? Sure. For established favorites who are easy, respectful, fun, and drama free, absolutely. That kind of chemistry is worth something to me too.
Have I ever entertained a creative trade or a unique situation? Yes, back in the good old days, when the offer actually made sense and wasn’t just “I want everything you offer, but cheaper.”
But asking a new lady to provide the full experience for less just because you asked nicely? That’s not really negotiation. That’s bargain hunting in the wrong boutique.
I’m never offended by someone choosing what fits their budget. I just think the sweetest answer is usually to book the lady whose rate already feels comfortable, and let the higher priced ladies be adored by the gentlemen they were meant for.

Remember that the person that you are negotiating with is about to give you a service that you want them to be in a good mood for.  If you negotiate with them and get a good price, they may not be that interested in spending time with you.  

For this reason, I won't see a provider that doesn't have clearly marked rates.    

I won't even ask a provider that I have seen in the past if they will give me their old rate.

Either pay what they are asking or move on to someone you can afford.  Negotiating is a lose if you win situation.  

Tacky

There’s a lot of other things I could say but I’m gonna leave it at. It’s just tacky.

I refrained from calling a pornstar I’d see because of her high asking price. One week night, I thought I’d call her to see what her actual rate was as sometimes they may lower their rate on a slow night, if they like your picture, and you’re respectful on the call.  

So happy that I did because she said she’d see me, and we had an incredible session together. She asked me why I haven’t called before, and I told her it was to be respectful of her requested price, and she said I should always just call and ask.  

Just a little from my experience…

I feel like haggling is gonna increase the odds that the session ends up being a dud. I'd rather pay the quoted rate (if I can afford it) and have a good time than haggle her down and deal with her giving an uninspired performance.

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