have notice several reviews lately where the reviewer mention that the provider rubs her split/clit with the tip of his cock before petting on the condom.  would you allow a provider to do this ?

Some guys seek it out...others have no interest.

because I am not interested in BBFS with the provider, so why even tempt yourself with it...  

When a hottie starts grinding on me like a cat in heat and purring in my ear...     I know it's not the smartest thing to do but In the heat of battle, I have to admit to it happening.  

If I am going to do that, I would just go ahead and have full on bbfs. I mean fkin duh...you catch shit on CONTACT people, not after the shit is in you. Last time I checked "bodily fluids" came FROM the tip of a weenie, and from ALL OVER a vagina, but I digress.


I do bbbj and cim...that's my limit, because catching HIV through oral sex is nearly impossible. Others can do what they want, and they know the risks.



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One time..
I call it heavy petting....
I was surprised it happened. I am a guy, so obviously I went with it. But I just used the shaft.
There was no way I was putting the tip anywhere!
Is that really that dangerous?
You don't go that close to the...  You know..

Im curious, where does DATY fall in the risk spectrum for each participant?

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So I hope that all the gals you've reviewed....and those you haven't are now alerted to your indiscretions.

privates to privates.  I think most guys mark that but I've never had a provider offer it.

I'm not interested in that whatsoever...there's enough risk to seeing hookers to begin with.

If you whore mongers want bbfs, just ask for it and there might be a slightly higher cost.

Oh paleeeeze, many of mongers will pay extra for that shit, and many hookers willing to take that coin. He is getting her more business lol.

Your d(ck probably looks like a fkin supreme pizza with extra cheese, considering all the places you have put it.

Typically it is the "receptive" partner who is most at risk - the mouth mouth oral sex, the vagina and anus for penetrative sex, etc.

Is it really that dangerous?  Only an individual can decide that for themselves.  Personally, I'll do without either of those..

the reality is that you've already been exposed to both.  even with condoms.   the vast majority of us have, long before we became providers.  the statistics don't lie.

I'm sure I'm exposed to the flu every year, yet I only catch it every five or six years.  It could be the suppliments I use keep to keep my immune system in high gear, or a variety of other factors.  Whatever the reason, I'll keep doing what I'm doing.  Same as with condoms and minimizing contact.

"Typically it is the "receptive" partner who is most at risk - the mouth mouth oral sex, the vagina and anus for penetrative sex, etc."

The one possible typical exception is DATY. Is DATY consider penetrative sex???