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Udo 281 reads
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I have had so much free sex when I was younger since I was very athleltic and had a good personality.

There was always the opportunity to have sex with "loose" women that felt that the only way of attracting a man's attention was to provide sexual favors. Me and my buddies would "tag team" these girls and pull a train on her. We all got what we wanted. The guys got their rocks off while the girl got the attention of the guys while their dicks were still hard.

My nephews do the same with slutty woman and some things never change.

Sorry about the realism here.

WondersOfTheWrld1090 reads

So i've noticed on some boards that members want a list of those who bbfs to cross them off their list. I get that people are grossed out by the offering,but i wonder if this extends only to this hobby or next do you think peoppe will want to know whos bbfs-ing their husband (who may be cheating and bbfs-ing with the nanny) or bbfs-ing civies on the weeknd?
It seems people are only passionate about bbfs in the industry...what about outside of it? What's the difference to u to not see ladies who bbfs clients but bbfs outside partners?
I jus thought it was contradictory and wanted to hear ur thoughts.

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Scrump_Master461 reads

95 percent of those who want a list is so they know who to run to and not stay away from
what they say on a board is different than how they feel inside or how they act
theres even a yahoo group for it started by a former mod
its everywhere

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WondersOfTheWrld313 reads

and why there would be no need for a list of ladies who dangerously bb freely in their civie life. why would they care if they're not going to bb them here, so only a list of those bb-ing here is what they would want.
thx for sharing. It makes sense now why there's the contradiction.

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bendovernc432 reads

that the person we are with is having it with someone. You hit the nail on the head girl. MANY mongers and providers are also swingers and in open relationships, have sugar daddies, etc. and MANY don't use protection...of course, some do though.

WE are responsible for protecting ourselves, because assuming someone else is going to always be honest, is very naive.

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Dr Who revived300 reads

As in the opposite of "professional hobbyists"....or as I prefer to call them...whoremongers  :D

Yeah...always assume that your favorite hooker or john is fucking someone BBFS.  Not each other per se (although that seems to happen with regularity in some circles)...but their SO's and BF/GF.

Heck...even those johnnie boys that are seeing other wordly hookers  :D   And we know they are really clients  LOL    And would never put their favorite hooker at risk!  SMH

Posted By: bendovernc
that the person we are with is having it with someone. You hit the nail on the head girl. MANY mongers and providers are also swingers and in open relationships, have sugar daddies, etc. and MANY don't use protection...of course, some do though.

WE are responsible for protecting ourselves, because assuming someone else is going to always be honest, is very naive.

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crazyshit356 reads

It's better left to be discussed behind the scenes via PM or email, not on a public board.

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Dr Who revived351 reads

Priapus
Ridgetucky tour
See an old hooker friend of mine 20 years later
Getting off on reviews  LOL
Derogatory words
Gimme strength

And this is only regular Jeopardy.

I can hardly wait till we get to Double Jeopardy!

So any other questions on "stupid discussions".

"Ill take derogatory words for 200 Alex"  LOL   Answer:  "What is a hooker"

Posted By: crazyshit
It's better left to be discussed behind the scenes via PM or email, not on a public board.

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sethric56249 reads

I can't believe she's left this 1 alone. The rampant stupidity on this board is been amazing lately.  frustrating at A near epic level. And I know wonders is 1 of her favorites

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Dr Who revived243 reads

PM if you need more explanation  LOL

Posted By: sethric56
I can't believe she's left this 1 alone. The rampant stupidity on this board is been amazing lately.  frustrating at A near epic level. And I know wonders is 1 of her favorites

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CubbieFan2210 reads

Hi CPA,

Since you are a fan of Jeopardy, I'm surprised you've got the wording wrong! The answer is not in the form of a question (?)!! That's called the correct response to the answer!! Let's play Final Jeopardy!

The category is, ( Ding*) "The Hobby"! The answer is...(Ding*) these are certain men who resort to calling women in this profession by derogatory names because they are mad @  women  in general.You have thirty seconds, good luck!!! (Cue the music)

The correct response is... What Are Woman Haters? BWAAAAH

That, my friend is how you play Jeopardy

* The sound effect made before the category & answer are given!!

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Priapus
Ridgetucky tour
See an old hooker friend of mine 20 years later
Getting off on reviews  LOL
Derogatory words
Gimme strength

And this is only regular Jeopardy.

I can hardly wait till we get to Double Jeopardy!

So any other questions on "stupid discussions".

"Ill take derogatory words for 200 Alex"  LOL   Answer:  "What is a hooker"

Posted By: crazyshit
It's better left to be discussed behind the scenes via PM or email, not on a public board.
Related Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3lLYOGDsts#t=00m30s

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Dr Who revived210 reads

"The answer we were looking for is....Professional Hobbyists".

Johnnie boy...what nice parting gifts do we have for Cubbie today?

Oh...a signed Brian Urlacher jersey.  And some fine cookware.

Thanks for playing...and good luck on the rehab.

Posted By: CubbieFan2
Hi CPA,

Since you are a fan of Jeopardy, I'm surprised you've got the wording wrong! The answer is not in the form of a question (?)!! That's called the correct response to the answer!! Let's play Final Jeopardy!

The category is, ( Ding*) "The Hobby"! The answer is...(Ding*) these are certain men who resort to calling women in this profession by derogatory names because they are mad @  women  in general.You have thirty seconds, good luck!!! (Cue the music)

The correct response is... What Are Woman Haters? BWAAAAH

That, my friend is how you play Jeopardy

* The sound effect made before the category & answer are given!!

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Priapus
Ridgetucky tour
See an old hooker friend of mine 20 years later
Getting off on reviews  LOL
Derogatory words
Gimme strength

And this is only regular Jeopardy.

I can hardly wait till we get to Double Jeopardy!

So any other questions on "stupid discussions".

"Ill take derogatory words for 200 Alex"  LOL   Answer:  "What is a hooker"

Posted By: crazyshit
It's better left to be discussed behind the scenes via PM or email, not on a public board.
-- Modified on 1/14/2013 8:20:51 PM

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CubbieFan2195 reads

Hi CPA,

.. for 2nd & 3rd place, respectively!! Then I can make more appts; w these fine ladies of TER!! :D

Posted By: ChgoCPA
"The answer we were looking for is....Professional Hobbyists".

Johnnie boy...what nice parting gifts do we have for Cubbie today?

Oh...a signed Brian Urlacher jersey.  And some fine cookware.

Thanks for playing...and good luck on the rehab.
Posted By: CubbieFan2
Hi CPA,

Since you are a fan of Jeopardy, I'm surprised you've got the wording wrong! The answer is not in the form of a question (?)!! That's called the correct response to the answer!! Let's play Final Jeopardy!

The category is, ( Ding*) "The Hobby"! The answer is...(Ding*) these are certain men who resort to calling women in this profession by derogatory names because they are mad @  women  in general.You have thirty seconds, good luck!!! (Cue the music)

The correct response is... What Are Woman Haters? BWAAAAH

That, my friend is how you play Jeopardy

* The sound effect made before the category & answer are given!!

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Priapus
Ridgetucky tour
See an old hooker friend of mine 20 years later
Getting off on reviews  LOL
Derogatory words
Gimme strength

And this is only regular Jeopardy.

I can hardly wait till we get to Double Jeopardy!

So any other questions on "stupid discussions".

"Ill take derogatory words for 200 Alex"  LOL   Answer:  "What is a hooker"

Posted By: crazyshit
It's better left to be discussed behind the scenes via PM or email, not on a public board.
-- Modified on 1/14/2013 8:20:51 PM

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Dr Who revived219 reads

So even the losers get paid?

Only in America  LOL

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CubbieFan2187 reads

Hi CPA,

Serves him right!!  He pissed off the fans!!  :o)

Posted By: ChgoCPA
So even the losers get paid?

Only in America  LOL

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crazyshit169 reads

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WondersOfTheWrld240 reads

ladies who bb in their personal lives.

the only part i disagree w/ is backchanneling this info, b/c it could start unfounded rumors. it should stay btw client and provider if they do it.

i'm not condoning any behavior, just pointing out the list idea some people want or say it's everyone's biznss to knw, I disagree.
so yep, you're right it's stupid.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=209127&boardID=2&page=1#209127

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crazyshit239 reads

Most people don't just give up info to anyone who PMs or emails them.  There is a sort of inner circle who backchannels to each other.  In a sense, these are guys who you trust to give you information that is reliable and accurate.

So if you are gonna talk about this, it should be shared among people who are believable.

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The Invisible Man396 reads

BBFS is a hobby related term.  It means fucking someone for money without a condom.  

It does not mean having sex without a condom.  That's simply called barebacking, or fucking without a condom, or a million other possibilities.

You don't have BBFS with your wife.  You have sex with her.

Your wife doesn't have BBFS with her boyfriend, unless he's paying for it.  :-)

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WondersOfTheWrld221 reads

Posted By: The Invisible Man
BBFS is a hobby related term.  It means fucking someone for money without a condom.  

It does not mean having sex without a condom.  That's simply called barebacking, or fucking without a condom, or a million other possibilities.

You don't have BBFS with your wife.  You have sex with her.

Your wife doesn't have BBFS with her boyfriend, unless he's paying for it.  :-)

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The Invisible Man320 reads

Concern about STD's is directly related to how sexually active you think your partner is.  Obviously, most of the time a civilian is much less active than a professional.  While professionals may be much more cautious (ie using condoms and getting tested regularly) we still tend to be less concerned about a civilian who would probably have many fewer partners than an escort.  Obviously, there are plenty of civilians out there with extremely active sex lives, but generally speaking, they don't compare in volume to members of this community.

As a general observation, just about everyone wants to fuck without a condom and they want the person whom they are fucking to only do that with them.  This is true inside and outside the hobby or the industry as you call it.  

But we all know that's a ridiculous pipe dream in the hobby, so most people settle for wearing condoms and that's that.

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Udo294 reads

What kind of a freak would marry a woman and fuck her while wearing a condom? This sounds just crazy in my opinion. If you suspect she is cheating, you should not marry her or you should file for divorce. Simple answer.

I have had many long-term civie relationships and have never used a condom with them. I have only used condoms with civies that were one night stands or have known them to be sluts and fucked the whole baseball team of my friends upfront.

I have some friends in Mexico that are in their 40s and claim to have never used a condom in their life since they do not want to lose any pleasure during sex.

Condoms are not the norm in a relationship!

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Udo267 reads

You are a strange person to have that kind of relationship where a couple uses a condom.

Even the providers admit to having bbfs with their boyfriends.

You are freaky!

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WondersOfTheWrld224 reads

so i get what you're saying.


and yea i'm freaky in some ways ;)

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swingsbothways296 reads

Did you actually just refer to any woman as a slut???  

You who has admitted to sleeping with women around the world without condoms because your doctor friend says it's ok?  

I've never worked as a provider but have certainly never been shy about indulging my erotic side. And I am willing to bet that the majority of MEN on this board have still had many more partners than I have.  Including yourself.

So why is it that a woman with a healthy sex life is a "slut"?  Because none of us will give it to you for free.  You will always have to pay for it.

And guess what?  Someone had to finish last in med-school.  I guess that dip-shit of a friend of yours falls in that category.  

Piss off.  

Posted By: Udo
What kind of a freak would marry a woman and fuck her while wearing a condom? This sounds just crazy in my opinion. If you suspect she is cheating, you should not marry her or you should file for divorce. Simple answer.

I have had many long-term civie relationships and have never used a condom with them. I have only used condoms with civies that were one night stands or have known them to be sluts and fucked the whole baseball team of my friends upfront.

I have some friends in Mexico that are in their 40s and claim to have never used a condom in their life since they do not want to lose any pleasure during sex.

Condoms are not the norm in a relationship!

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Udo282 reads

I have had so much free sex when I was younger since I was very athleltic and had a good personality.

There was always the opportunity to have sex with "loose" women that felt that the only way of attracting a man's attention was to provide sexual favors. Me and my buddies would "tag team" these girls and pull a train on her. We all got what we wanted. The guys got their rocks off while the girl got the attention of the guys while their dicks were still hard.

My nephews do the same with slutty woman and some things never change.

Sorry about the realism here.

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swingsbothways276 reads

You, your friends and family members are no better than the women you have slept with.  That's what's annoying about your post.  You putting yourself in an exalted position above ANY woman.    

I never judge any man or woman by their sexual numbers.  I do judge based on stupid behavior. Like BBFS.  Now who does that around here?

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SinCitySinner187 reads

needs to be ignored. His only purpose is to get everyone riled up.

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Poppa_Woody220 reads

So what you're telling us now is that you're old, a couch potato, and you personality has gone to shit!

Aren't you supposed to be getting married soon?

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Posted By: Udo
I have had so much free sex when I was younger since I was very athleltic and had a good personality.

LMAO (about the personality part)

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WondersOfTheWrld267 reads

during a time period and would have more. Even though I was slutty, I've had more sex partners (clients) as a sex provider. So you're right about the increase in partners.

Possibility of monogamy? That's funny. Not one person I know hasn't cheated at least once on their partner. this is for the male and female friends I know, family, etc. We can only hope our partner is monogamous, or the men here can only hope the husband of the provider he's booking isn't doing everything in sight w/o a condom. I've had friends who have gotten STDs from their "monogamous" relationships or their husband got the mistress pregnant. priceless

I get your reasons as the difference. I just think it's interesting that some people think it's a right to this community to inform them with a list, but not a list of those who bb(sex) outside of here.

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Dr Who revived247 reads

Amazing that your reviews are even at the 7/7 level.

You seem to be dumber than a box of rocks!

Posted By: WondersOfTheWrld
during a time period and would have more. Even though I was slutty, I've had more sex partners (clients) as a sex provider. So you're right about the increase in partners.

Possibility of monogamy? That's funny. Not one person I know hasn't cheated at least once on their partner. this is for the male and female friends I know, family, etc. We can only hope our partner is monogamous, or the men here can only hope the husband of the provider he's booking isn't doing everything in sight w/o a condom. I've had friends who have gotten STDs from their "monogamous" relationships or their husband got the mistress pregnant. priceless

I get your reasons as the difference. I just think it's interesting that some people think it's a right to this community to inform them with a list, but not a list of those who bb(sex) outside of here.
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HangingwithBears301 reads

There's no difference between client and civvie BBFS dangers but there is a difference as long as she's BBFS with ONLY one partner. The way I see it, the more someone is doing this, the more likely they're going to pass along an STD. The reason BBFS is an outcast in the hobby is because of the sheer number of clients a girl sees as opposed to her one SO. Unlike the porn industry, there's no way of keeping track of who's being tested and how often but even in the porn industry, it's dangerous between tests. It's no less scary with guys who go looking for BBFS providers.

We all do this knowing we're not completely safe but the odds of getting an STD are greatly reduced if we're playing safe. Providers openly offering BBFS are dangerous as are johns actively seeking it. All I care about is which providers to avoid.

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WondersOfTheWrld230 reads

people are going to ask for a list of ladies who bb here, then shouldn't there be a list for those who bb in general?

it's supposed to sound stupid to make a point that asking for a list of those who bb clients is ridiculous also.

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HangingwithBears239 reads

Providers offering BB are generally easily to identify but we have no way of knowing what they're doing in their private lives. If I know a provider is bare-backing clients, I'm pretty sure she's doing it in her civvie life as well, meaning she's having a LOT of bareback sex with a bunch of guys who don't get tested regularly if at all. I'll take another guess that safety girls are also safe in their private lives. I have a hard time believing that a provider would never bareback a client but yet would bareback guys she picks up at bars. If she's really a safety girl in the hobby, she cares enough about her health that she's not playing dangerous in her private life either. By the same argument, a provider who doesn't care about her health in the hobby is crazy enough to not care about her health in her private life and is a real danger to the rest of us.

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WondersOfTheWrld228 reads

They use condoms with clients b/c they think they're more likely to catch an STD with a client, but in their personal lives they don't use condoms w/ their boyfriends. I know one lady who has a new boyfriend like every other month I swear, and she doesn't use condoms b/c she's in a "relationship". She uses condoms with clients tho.

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WondersOfTheWrld242 reads

the ladies who bb clients, but to see them. B/c if they were really interested in public health and avoiding ladies who bb, they would want to know all the ladies who bb here or in civie life.
makes sense, so thx for the discussion.

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