I'm not paying you for sex... I'm paying you to leave.
When our fun is over, let's go our separate ways. If I wanted an unlimited relationship, I would find a GF or SB. This is only about sex so spending an unlimited amount of time together means we need to connect on another level. There is little guarantee of that so I'll pass. This hobby give me the freedom to see a wide variety of ladies for a short period of time. I prefer that.-- Modified on 3/30/2016 12:57:50 PM
In your opinion what is a reasonable rate for one month of unlimited gfe services. When you want or need to be satisfied she is at your disposal. This includes unlimited date nights (sex, dinner, movie_ I have the special firestick with movies still in the theater's). Overnight dates are doable as well. The only thing I don't do is Greek.
Everyone has a different idea of what "reasonable" rates are in the hobby. That's why I decided to post rather than ask my usual suspects. I figure somewhere in the middle of everyone's personal opinion lies "reasonable". Thanks and happy hump day.
Okay, but how much time would you be investing with this person?
If you'll be around them 1x a week, I'm probably say 2500- 3500 In case there's an overnight in there.
If 2-3x a week, definitely ask around 5,000.
Though, I don't know your rates, I personally prefer the P4P, like just pay as you go, Small discounts here & there.
Figurig out a monthly rate has a lot of variables, Where I would ask for 5k to begin with.
So, yea. 5k-7.5
5k-7k a month if it's unlimited availability. He's a sugar daddy.
It depends on his budget. You need to figure out what you think he can afford and maximize that number. Are you going to be working hard to please him or is this just a guy who just wants to cuddle listen to you talk where it's straight sex which would be easy money? A client who you value should pay less than someone you despise.
Those are my thoughts.
What I can afford you might not accept but someone else would.
Smile
Zak
Everyone has a different idea of what "reasonable" rates are in the hobby. That's why I decided to post rather than ask my usual suspects. I figure somewhere in the middle of everyone's personal opinion lies "reasonable". Thanks and happy hump day.
I wouldn't want this arrangement so my number doesn't matter. Where someone might take 1,000 from me knowing they might see me four times in a month for under an hour they might want 8,000 from you for three dinners a month who they don't enjoy spending time with.
It should be based on the client and the relationship you have with them.
Zak
I'm not very familiar with the whole SB/SD deal...but does this prevent you from seeing other clients?
If that's the case then, at least for a working provider, your average monthly income should be the fee...or at least a good percentage of it, anyway...
Tell fancy hooker have two very efficient and effective holes for John to enjoy no greek on hooker menu 😂
...my SB had a monthly allowance of $2K, not including her apartment and car payment.
I would have loved to continue that arrangement but after about a years time she got too possessive and we had to end it. So now I look for love in different ways 
And thanks for the inclusion, Erin! 
"Women Do Not Have to Pay"
Looks like Rule Number Two is still in operation:
"too possessive"
..with the premise being no strings attached.
But even then it sometimes gets messy and feelings get hurt. I guess the possessive thing is unavoidable for the most part.
Not only do you have the lesbian stereotypes to have to deal with, but now you are getting hit with the same stereotypes us guys have to put up with, very high on the list is "We HAVE to pay to get laid" lol
As for the OP, I think just about everyone is misreading the OP, she did not say "once a week for at month" nor did she put any limit on the amount of sex, conversation, companionship, etc.
My answer to her would be, if I am to take her question literally, since she is going to have to be "on call" 24/7 it will be almost impossible to see many, if any other clients that month, depending on the guy's appetite of course. I think you should take whatever your typical months income is, lets say $10,000 just as a place to start and then add or subtract a premium based on how much you like this guy's company. If you really like him, it will hardly seem like work. OTOH, if you can barely tolerate him, a full month of him might seem like a thousand days.
Speaking strictly for myself, IF I were ever to enter into such an arrangement, "Unlimited" to me would mean sex "at least" two to three times a day each and every day so we are talking about fucking 75-100 times during at least the first month.
I did something like this many, many years ago, I hired an ex hooker to work for me in a legit job, with a "bonus" for every time we had sex, we fucked about twice a day,virtual every day for months, I finally had to fire her from the legit job, but we saw each other on and off for several more years.
BTW Erin, Lopaw isn't the only woman monger on here, so you could have put "ladies..."but it was still kind of cute. On a more serious note, I think you should charge this SD whatever your monthly average is. Maybe more, if he's going to take up more of your time than all your regular clients combined.
Your offer seems like a FT SB and of course compensation should be way higher. Our agreement was PT.Two overnights a month plus 2-3 trips a year ( 3 days/2 overnights). Besides the cash he gave me a CC to pay the expenses and some of my personal stuff like Gym membership, phone bill, clothes, shoes etc. He loved to buy me laptops, ipads, cell phones -He wanted me to have the most recent Apple stuff- Yes, he is a NERD lol - My compensation for overnights was $2,500 extra $2500 per trip. When out of town I had a lot free time while he was working so I was able to go shopping and do the tourist stuff (of course using his CC) It was a lot of fun. I did it for 4 years and I still see him once in a while when he is in town but no longer available for trips.
Have fun and good luck!!
-- Modified on 3/30/2016 11:38:26 AM
maybe 1.5 times your average monthly income plus ALL expenses when together...
Everyone has a different idea of what "reasonable" rates are in the hobby. That's why I decided to post rather than ask my usual suspects. I figure somewhere in the middle of everyone's personal opinion lies "reasonable". Thanks and happy hump day.
Semi exclusive...I am very low volume so I can easily make it work. This is for someone I see when he is in town. Obviously he is in town frequently. He asked me what something like this would run him. Personally I have never been in the situation. I told him I would commit to one month only and I had to have Sundays to myself. He asked me to give him a number and I haven't gotten back to him yet. Thanks for everyone's input.
She had a monthly arrangement AND the client gave her an extra $10k a month to be TOTALLY exclusive ... no fucking or nonsexual dating at all. She took the $10k and honored his request.
Everyone has a different idea of what "reasonable" rates are in the hobby. That's why I decided to post rather than ask my usual suspects. I figure somewhere in the middle of everyone's personal opinion lies "reasonable". Thanks and happy hump day.
I'm not paying you for sex... I'm paying you to leave.
When our fun is over, let's go our separate ways. If I wanted an unlimited relationship, I would find a GF or SB. This is only about sex so spending an unlimited amount of time together means we need to connect on another level. There is little guarantee of that so I'll pass. This hobby give me the freedom to see a wide variety of ladies for a short period of time. I prefer that.
-- Modified on 3/30/2016 12:57:50 PM
So make him make an offer - he would
You then have firm feeling -
tell him
"yes"
or tell him
"No"
With regards to this posting I can recall old Russian joke-
There is a pretty girl seats in restaurant and next to her next table- a wealthy man.
He become interested in girl and talks to her -
"Girl, please, show me you decollete , I will pay you 400,"
She did
" Girl lift a bit your skirt so I can see your knees- I will pay you 500"
She did
Girl please spread your legs so i can see your panties,
I will pay you 1000"
She did - he become very aroused and asks her -
"Girl, how much it would be to have you?"
Answer was - as usual - 250.
so
Let him make an offer.. You know what I mean?
Then yours would be "yes" or "no"
Woman was that way and woman would be that way - final decision is hers. But she can not push it on men.