A lot of guys don't seem to understand this, and think that most providers were the hot, sexy, popular girls in high school.  

Guys, they were more likely to be the quiet girl in the corner.

Knowing this will help you to interact better with them, because they won't feel obliged to put on such an act.  Makes it all a little more real.

Is this analysis the result of a scientific poll or survey - I doubt it.  my .02

The one everyone picked in school, because simply I wanted to be me, NOT follow them.

I have told many gents I was the geek in school.

It took sometime for me to blossom into something else. (Slutty biker babe-lol)

It worked..back in school I couldn't get any dates (hell not even to the prom).

Just be true to yourself!!! I am me and guess what, I don't give a rats *ss about what people think of me.

Quite honestly, I just laugh when people point and stare...I just go right up to them and say..."Is there something I can help ya with." It just throws them for a loop!

But to answer you post.. I am just an everyday person. Really, down to earth, but I love to be wild..can't help it...its just me.

Kisses, Shaye

I am for sure! LOL
In fact, on my web page, I describe myself as a cross between a hippy and a computer geek. HTML and Peace! LOL

*smiles*
Jan

some, perhaps most, GFEs (including PSEs) are technophiles. they hack their own websites, shoot their own digital stills, travel with laptops/palms, etc.

but most downplay that "geek" image because they think it's not "sexy"

go figure.


did i say it's all about the technology?  

----Now I'm anxiously awaiting my next highschool reunion. The next old classmate that I see that blossomed out of her geekness - I'm gonna bend her over. (well atleast mentally)

In my experience, there is very little difference between the "types" of people providers are and the "types" you meet in the general population.   Some are nerds, some are the popular types, some are the quiet types.  I will never cease to be amazed...and with the way the business has opened up with the internet, it's even more varied.

My experience so far with TER providers has definitely been varied...five women, four distinctly different "types".

Maybe women on the street have a more common MO and "type", but the Net allows for a much broader demographic.

Gotta love it.

There are always late bloomers whose sexuallity doesn't really blossom until later, that doesn't really make them nerds, though.

I love these type of women because they're typically more grounded than those who were hotties in school, yet they are just as beautiful and wonderful to be with now.  

The difference is deep down, they still don't feel beautiful since they never got that reinforcement when they were growing up.  That's why it falls upon we men to make them feel that way now.  It's a tough job, but the rewards can be great.  

10 years later and I still look like a cheerleader

tough job - it sure is a fun job!  Oh Yeah!

IT'S AN ADVENTUREEEE..PURRRRRRRR

Mel