I see a large number of women of different types, both in terms of their physical appearance and also in terms of their practices.  I seldom see the same gal more than once in a 10 week period.

I find that this keeps me very much interested in the hobby.

Also, meet gals with whom you have genuine affinity, or chemistry if you will.  Spend time in conversation and/or social events like a dinner or even go to movie or cultural event if your pocketbook can afford the time.  


There are many more dimension to this hobby than just the sex.

If you have tried all that and still suffer ennui then just take a vacation from it until the mood strikes you as right to reenter.

How many of you have experienced it or are going through it.
What insights can you share?
That goes for both guys & dolls...

For my 2 cents: nowadays more often than not, great sex is just not enough.
Satisfying momentarily but culminates with a left-over unsatiated hunger for more.
Despite multiple orgasms; making girls squirt like porn stars; & memorable positions & role-playing ... something is still missing.

Perhaps it's just the fall weather

Maybe its something you had to get out of your system, and now you've done it.  It used to drive me nuts to see pretty women and know that I wasn't going to have sex with any of them, ever.  Now, knowing that I can scratch that itch if I need to, I am living a much less neurotic life.  And those pretty women?  I can now relate to them as persons, rather than obsessing over the sex I wasn't having.

Just as it is in the Civvie world.  But once you find one that you click with, it's a lot of fun.  I've come close to stopping but I like the variety

to change up what you are doing. Anything can become, well, boring. Change your pace and style a bit.

hapened to me last year and it's approaching now. Sometimes it's the money. Sometimes it's lack of women you want to see in your price range. It can actually get boring. Then take a few months off and the itch magically returns. Although I did have a fellow monger tell me he was doing a 3some with 2 very top providers as a farewell from the hobby. He did it about a year ago and, poof, he was gone.

yes it can happen, I travel a lot for my business. I usually see a provider on a business trip, and there's always some scheduling issues to deal with around my business, but when Im getting "hobby fatigue" I just pass and it makes my business life a little easier.    

I am definitely suffering from hobby fatigue, and have been for about a year.  I have always been selective about the ladies that I see, attractive usually Asian, VIP price range, and have usually been quite satisfied.  Maybe its my age, 60's, but I am losing the desire to see new providers.  I have one favorite whom I greatly miss when she is back home.  I am always up for her when she is in town.  Other ladies, not so much.

Be to research a new and amazing, possibly different kind of provider?  

Just a thought...

pm me if you don't mind...thx

-- Modified on 11/18/2013 5:57:12 PM

hey decadentxy,

I have been on a break for little over a month, been hobbying since I was 19-20 years old, I am 39 now.

When I first hobbied it was to try different girls and service, no chemistry with girl, just hi, donation, shower, sex msog and leave. As I got older in my 20s, I too wanted to get girl off and try rpg; however in my 30s maybe I got older or something cause I was still see girls in the 20s. I wanted more in chemistry. I would bring gifts/food, do outcall to shows, or even outcall for same girl for starbucks. I got burned out in 2007, so stopped for a bit. Then 2008 started again. but this time I was also asking when is your birthday, if the date was while they were still here working, I would outcall them for the date to celebrate it with them, get room, spa for them, show, dinner and maybe a gift they wanted. It feels nice to make someone happy.

I am on a break again this time cause I connected with one girl who stopped "working" to do her schooling and has asked me to stop as well. Funny part of this is we have gone out on dates when she is not in class and we have not had sex yet.

Worst part about all the above is I should be doing this with my wife but idk.

aloted