And when they are so special how does one show restraint and moderation in ones daily pleasures due to $$$$. Advice for not getting emotionaly attached as well?
Diver

Attachment to desire is the root of suffering.

My interpretation is not getting rid of desire, but enjoying it.  Just don't get attached.  Just like surfing, great ride if you can keep the balance.

Seems like you already know the answers to your questions, but here they are anyway.
- Don't get too emotionally attached. No matter how much she may appear to like you, she is working and you are a customer. She is not really your friend and is only spending time with you because you pay her.
- Try this: spend half your normal amount the next few times you see her. Does she spend the same amount of time with you, or does she promise to be "back in a minute" and then disappear for an hour?
- Don't spend more than you can afford. Are all your credit cards paid off? Duh!


filmat11

As far as the attachment thing, don't ever see the same escort twicein a row. See a few escorts, get an idea of what you really like. Remember this is P2P, she wants you to have a great time. It's all part of the fantasy. As far as the budget, never use a credit card, and stash the cash when you can, don't use the ATM, only hobby when your stash allows you to. Most newbies go thru what you've described. Good luck

My advice above applies to dancers/strippers.  That's a profession that encourages her to extract the maximum amount of money from you in the minimum amount of time and with minimum effort.  This is not to knock dancers - I've had some great times in clubs all over the world - but that's the way it tends to go.

In contrast, with an escort, I feel you have a much more honest and up-front arrangement.  Reputable escorts are going to give you the time you paid for, and many actually want to get to know you a bit.

But as before, don't get too attached.  She is not looking for a boyfriend and you can't afford to be her sugar daddy.


filmat11

1) ask honest questions - Does she have a BF?  Is she a student or does she have a "day job"? What does she like to do for hobbies?

these will all give you clues as to how honest she will be with you... and how available she may be....

2) After you've seen her a few times, see if she would share her phone #.... if so, use it to see when she is available at the club.

3) After seeing her a few times this way, ask if she is available outside the club....

4) tip appropriately - for services other than the lap dance...

you already are emotionally attached - aren't ya?!