Hi i Isabelle im  29 and  I  have  tried escorting b4 and it  was not  really  good because im plus size   but now  I  really want to get back into escorting because I  love meeting new people     but I just don't fell 100% comfortable   sleeping with someone  I just meet   because I'm not really sure how to just have sex with out  the risk of falling for that person  I'm married and happy   been married for over 9 years  and he was my first ( if u know what i  mean        I  would like to have guys just hang out with me and have fun  for the night  /day with  no expectation of going to bed with me     is there such a thing as a non sexual escort ????

If you dont want to offer sex, why not just offer massages?

Or if you are into domination - you can do BDSM - a true BDSM session has nothing to do with sex.  I am a BBW myself and I get calls all the time from guys wanting me to dominate them.

Cooking, Cleaning, and Cuddling

Do you think your Husband would get jealous, if he found out you were providing Wifely duties for another Man?

how do you do BSDM   and if I ofter massage don't  I  have to touch a guy " down there "    I'm really looking for guys that  are lonely and  dont want to be alone for the evening  like  going out for dinner or if they dont want to go to a movie alone  I'm all for that

i don't think my husband would get  jealous   of me being the wife experience for a another man as long as there no  romantic thing involved    I like the idea of the wife experience  that  could be a new thing  lol   im a good cook  I  know how to make the best Mexican food!!!!

It's a nice theory, but, really, I'm not sure how much business exists for this purpose.

Unless you are really, really stunning...good luck.

Not trying to be mean, just realistic.

where (usually) attractive women would be provided to someone such as a visiting business man who was either single or whose wife could not accompany him to business/social events so that the guy could partake of the social festivites without feeling like a sore thumb.

I sort of doubt that exists anymore (and I wonder if it truly ever existed.)

I do recall attending a convention of my industry some 20 years ago and the people at the head table were introduced.  My ears perked up when one gentlemen's consort was introduced as his escort rather than wife.

There was also a posting on here about two months ago of a woman who offered a non-sexual cuddling service for about $100/hr.

As for massage, there are plenty of legit massage places with no touching "down there", as you put it; but in nearly all states you need a license for it.  Some places make it a felony to practice massage without a license.

I'm not saying that there isn't a market for what you are suggesting, but I think it is a very limited one.

You are expected to be a trophy they prance around with him in front of business associates, go to dinners, parties, etc. Much like Julia Roberts did in Pretty Woman, but without the sex aspect. You are going to have a hard time finding these types of guys on a fk board. My advice is go to Massage School which is less than 18 months, and get certified. From that legit business, you can meet clients who might be willing to be a type of Sugar Daddy with only non-sexual activities. Sugar Daddy sites are another possibility, but again...most expect sex.

Here...almost impossible. Guys are looking for sex, even though some claim they want that emotional connection lol. They want it ALL here.  

If touching a guy's weenie freaks you out, BDSM certainly will. It is a lot of hardcore punishment type crap, and yea the guy is usually naked and gets off at some point regardless of whether or not you touch him.




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Seems to me you would be better off getting a legit job if you dont want to do anything sexual.

I can't imagine a guy wanting to pay for more than just the cost of the date if there's nothing else happening.

im not sure maby $50   for what ever time he needs me   not per hour

But it would depend on the price. I'm not paying 300 or more per hour for that! Also she would have to be hot! I wouldn't pay a bbw for companionship.

london is correct..there is a very limited market for non-sexual escorts..usually they are elderly gentlemen with oodles of cash who either cant have sex or dont want to have sex..they simply want some eye candy to show off for the evening..they are very hard to find..you will not find them here because these boards contain mostly horn dogs..

its kind of sad that men only  want female escort for just sex  when there alot more  then just a sexual aspect    in all of us  I would love to hire a male escort just to have a good time my husband is the indoor type of man and he dont get out much I'm  the out door type of girl I love being outdoor I would hire a male escort in a heart beat  just to do stuff like the beach  rock climbing  dinner   stuff my husband don't like to do with out sex  not looking a for a GFE just a good friend  and at  the end of the night  he leaves

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If it existed, it would be a much lower rate...  unless you were arm candy...   but don't want to anything sexual?  I just don't think it's going to pay...   guys will feel like they're being scammed & it could even be dangerous for you.  
Escorting is not for everyone.  If it's not for you, no harm, no foul & you've made a good decision based on your likes & dislikes.  
Many escorts devolupe a separate "Escort Personality"  occasionally, totally fiction!!  Which they take off when they leave work.  It is hard to keep it all straight in your head.  Guys fall for their providers pretty regularly...  and sometimes the other way around.  

I think you should find another line of work which you are comfortable with.

gets hit on...does not mean a guy is going to pay her not to fk him especially when she is married. What you are asking guys to pay you for, is what they can do with any random girl for free. The premise is and always will be, to get in her pants. Why would anyone pay knowing that's not going to happen?  These guys also expect public companions to surpass GFE escorts in beauty, education, and be well versed in their profession.

No one is going to pay someone who knows nothing about the corporte world, to be his companion for such functions. You have to be at the very TOP of the food chain to even get these types of dates, or you won't get anything but cheap BP cruisers thinking they are getting laid for taking you to Jack in the Box.

Again, it's a very small market so give it a shot. Be prepared to deal with low ballers, perverts,  and cheap hagglers who will no doubt still want to fk you and get offended when you don't. Even making the swtich from a gfe to a massage provider is hard.

Guys will always try to push the envelope if you are advertising on the net. The only way to avoid this, is to be a legal LMT where there are regulations. You will still get guys hitting on you, but few will be stupid enough to flat out ask for sex in exchange for money knowing they can be arrested right there on the spot.

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It's not like escorting is your only choice. There are tons of other jobs that that are great for 'people' people. Food service, hospitality, sales, to name a few, but really anything in which an outgoing personality could be an asset.

I personally have only once had a session that didn't include sex (he forgot to take his viagra). LOL.

A  guy just  Message me a link  its a  place called rent a friend going to try it out   it might be what im looking for

...that I attend the opera with several times a season.  I love the opera, he can never find a date, and we have a fabulous time!  

  His car picks me up, we attend the opera, enjoy a late dinner, and his car drops me off at my place.  No sex.  He gives me my full gift for our time, and it is a win win.  It is rare, but it does happen.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Let's see...

You tried escorting before but it didn't go very well because you are overweight but now that you have been married for 9 years you would like to try it again only you don't want to offer sex though maybe you could do BDSM if you knew what that was?

I'm surprised at the number of people who actually thought you might be serious.

Posted By: sexyisabelle

   Hi i Isabelle im  29 and  I  have  tried escorting b4 and it  was not  really  good because im plus size   but now  I  really want to get back into escorting because I  love meeting new people     but I just don't fell 100% comfortable   sleeping with someone  I just meet   because I'm not really sure how to just have sex with out  the risk of falling for that person  I'm married and happy   been married for over 9 years  and he was my first ( if u know what i  mean        I  would like to have guys just hang out with me and have fun  for the night  /day with  no expectation of going to bed with me     is there such a thing as a non sexual escort ????

I just did a quick check of the US Census site. In New York State, for example, there are 2.7 million single men between the ages of 35 - 54. So it seems there may be a market for such a service. The problem is reaching the target without your marketing expense exceeding revenue. Rather than just companionship, you may wish to consider more of a companion/concierge type service where you are offering a pre-planned "packaged" evening of say drinks, dinner and dancing where you take care of all the arrangements. That's just one example.  This value-added service would allow you to charge a higher price point and for the guys, make getting a complete night on the town as simple as ordering a pizza. Rather than relying on paid advertising, get creative with press releases playing up the different human interest angles of the story. Local papers eat up innovative dating type stories. Will it work? Who knows. But if it's your dream, think outside the box (no pun intended) and give it a try.

You could go on what's your price or try a dating site .
If you're not comfortable with guys expectation of sex after a date then you should probably not hobby.
Its very hard to find clients that will pay to hang out on this site. If you can manage then good for you.

I did that long time ago for a while, like someone mentioned here "social escort" and there is a market for that believe it or not, donation it was a lot less but it was a nice experience

well you  said there not really a market for that but I  think   you might  be a little wrong  I  just had 2 guys wanted to hire me as a  non sexual escort so we will see I'll make sure they write a review for other men to see

NO, there is not a wide market for this or we would ALL be getting paid NOT to fk these guys. Guys in a chat room on a fk board want to hire you? Of course they do! For fifty bucks, they are thinking your "no sex" means, "maybe she will do it for me." I know a few ladies who do this, and they are still making 10k a month doing so. They are mistresses, not hourly hookers.

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well I dont deal with BS   if the ask me for sex I'll get up and leave   the date will end there    I don't play games ether they like it or they don't   my rule stands I will wont  bend them  and the men I  talk to are fine with it