I have no interest in drinking on dates. I have, with one particular provider, shared a bottle of Prosecco to start things off with, but other than that it's a non-issue for me. I'm not much of a drinker to begin with. I probably wouldn't turn down a glass of wine to start off an extended appointment with, but that's about it.

 
I've never seen any provider websites with those types of pictures. While it wouldn't necessarily be a turn-off, I wouldn't seek out the "party type" of woman.

Over the years, I've had to stop seeing at least 4 gals on account of problems (some serious like facing LE) with them drinking too much.

 
I'm not a tea-totaler, and don't expect most gals I meet to be, but they should at least be functional.

That's not something that even comes up. And I couldn't care less if she drinks or drugs.
 
I was offered to stay after closing at an AMP to share some wine with the masseuse, but declined because I was new to P4P and I was a fool. Some time later, I was offered a specialty (I think Chinese) liqueur at one of my favorites, but it was late and I opted to just get some sleep... with her.
 
That's it. In hundreds of visits, those two occasions were the only two where it even came up.

who start drinking before I get there.  It's rude and unprofessional.  

I have no issue with a lady who enjoys a libation--if I've offered it or if we're out for some pubic social time.  A glass of wine or Prosecco is no problem.

But, I've had a couple of ladies show up loaded to the gills.  One was so fucked up she forgot even to bring condoms and wanted to go to the hotel gift shop to buy some.That was a shitty date.
I had another couple who proceeded to drink--from a bottle they'd "thoughtfully" brought along-- after they arrived and until they could barely get out a cogent sentence. In one case, the lady who was the other partner in the duo had to drive her home.
And I had one who, when I discouraged lighting up a joint while I was there, said unlovingly how regretful it was--specifically for her--that she couldn't partake prior to our session.

I don't drink much these days--one glass of wine or one beer is a night out for me--and I don't hang around with people who do.  And a lady who seems to "Need" to get hammered either has a problem with drinking ,or a problem with P4P that she's self-medicating for, or some other crap I don't want to deal with.  Drink all you want--just not around me and on my time.

BTW, I've dated at least one woman who seemed to HAVE to have not one but two or three stiff drinks every time she came over.  That lasted a few dates and then done.  When I went on Bumble, I purposely avoided all the women who had multiple pictures of themselves drinking and partying.  I recall a few who had a drink in EVERY picture.  Not my scene.

I literally had a provider pass out while giving me a blowjob in the 69 position. I don't know if it was drugs or alcohol (I didn't smell anything on her breath) but she was gone.  I had to slide out from under her.  She kind of came around when I flipped her over, so I started to do missionary, but she conked out again. So I left.  She had a wad of money just sitting on the bathroom sink.  Anyhow, I threw the blanket over her and took off.  She apologized by text a little later.
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So yeah, being inebriated doesn't make for a fun session.

I love to start with a couple of drinks and get to know each other.  
Once we had a lot fun and after all the fun we had a few more in my suite.  
Then it became real funny we hoth got liquored up and we started to fool around while drinking
And the end was she slept over gave me fantastic blowjob in the morning and we said our goodbye S  
Never ever was charged a other penny  
I see her every time when in Vegas  
What a blast that lady

But I have zero interest in seeing addicts or drunks. I have enjoyed a little wine with a lunch but the lady I was seeing then only had a taste. I liked that she view the situation as a professional situation where she not only needed to be top of game for me but also for others she would see later that  day.

Thanks Queen Bia!  

You are a great person and add a lot to this column. We are lucky to have you!!  

I do not drink at all, but usually bring a bottle of Prosecco, or whatever she requests, if it puts her in the mood. I do not mean sloppy drunk!! If I want to impress, I'll bring a quality wine glass for her to keep.  

Funny story: I was out with a beautiful porn star with whom I had developed a friendship. One time. she requested Champagne, which she quaffed with reckless abandon. When I came up for air, after 1/2 hour of intense DATY, she was beet-red!! I thought to call 911, but she said she was fine. (She was!)

 
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Hmm, trying to understand why you would ask such an absurd question. Is it a cry help for you or your sister. Otherwise you are just clearly very bored and looking for questions completely out of context to make small talk. I'll bet there's lots of AA meetings in San Diego, where you can meet like minded people and you can ask them if they prefer their lovers drunk or sober And now:
QB a question for you. I have this one provider I really like but sometimes when I come through the door she kicks me in the balls. As expected I fall to the floor writhing in pain for about ten minutes while she laughs so hard she cries. Besides that she's really cool and we always have an amazing time together. Should I kick her?
Signed, Painfully confused.
Do you ever do that to your clients?  

Gosh thank goodness for the Fuck Board to get all the most meaningful information.
I mean what would my life be like without you and Dr. CDL, MD, PHD in Philosophy, sexual ethics, and the leading expert on bull shit.  
Reading some of these posts is like watching bad TV where in order to set up a punch line one character (straight man) says something absolutely moronic so the other character can land the joke. Fortunately the IQ of excessive TV watchers are dumber than the stupid straight man and no one notices.  
USA USA USA!!!

A drink or two is fine, but drunk is not OK with me. I grew up around some family members who were violent drunks, and that trauma is forever ingrained in me to this day.

I’m considering a provider who is 20.  One drawback is that we won’t be able to have a drink first.  

Hello Team,

I arranged a meet with a beautiful provider. We started with a drink at an upscale bar nearby.

She was absolutely stunning, such that conversation stopped when she walked in.

Cut to the chase: She went to the ladies room and shot-up with opioids, then walked back to me in the bar. I knew something was wrong. Then she collapsed, going into a full overdose. She almost died, because the ambulance was delayed in traffic.

I carry Narcan now.  

This could have been a real disaster for both of us!

Frequently, I'll read reviews where the reviewer indicates wine or champagne or "drinks" were shared with a companion during a date.   I've never seen a companion who arrived drunk or anything (even though I knew one who used to get buzzed, at least, if not drunk before appts) but I wonder:  how does one *prevent* getting drunk if she has multiple appts, all or most of whom bring some kind of alcohol to the date?

I would never bring alcohol to a meeting.  First because I am cheap, but second because it sets up a social pressure for the other person to drink. My ex-step-parents were both recovering alcoholics so banished visibility or discussion of alcohol in their presence. But only because I knew their issue. Never know who is on the wagon. So I avoid the risk.

Often bring a bottle of wine to share or leave behind. Would put envelope in the bag with wine so as not to forget .  
If provider’s profile on 411’says water often bring  a small fruit tray.  
If wine used to bring and hand over and say open “if you want to share if not save for later or gift.” On more than one occasion was asked about where is donation as leaving and had to dig in the bag or if the wine consumed dig the envelope and bag from recycling.  
Upon resurrecting the envelope from the bag or wherever the mood lightens considerably.