My apologies if this has been covered before.  Is this website any good?  Has anybody had any success with it?  I browsed and saw a lot of unappealing photos, but there were a couple of very attractive women.  Is this a scam?  

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As a single male, you will probably get very frustrated with AFFand most of the other swinger sites. Single males are not held in very high regard in the 'lifestyle'. And if you are going to try one of these sites, AFF should be your last choice. It is the most pricey, the least user friendly and in general the nastiest one out there (and I don't mean 'nasty' in a good way). Try Lifestyle Lounge it is a much more classy, high end sex site. They do not allow crotch shots as the main photo, most of the people on the site are REALLY attractive, there seem to be more 'real' single females, and for whatever reason single males seem to get much more respect(and play) on that site. SDC is also a good choice, very interactive and user friendly but single guys still have that negative stereotype. ALT.com, AFFs sister site has lots more singles who play, but you might be careful what you ask for on that one. LOL.
You might consider looking into one of the 'sugar daddy' sites. There are lots of them out there now under slightly different variations of the name. They are singles only sites that tend to be somewhat of a cross between the hobby and dating on match.com.

As a MWM, I belonged to AFF for awhile.  We actually did get a group of people to attending bi-weekly "meet & greets" in the Fredericksburg area.  Some people were able to hook up....others didn't.  It takes a lot of patience and the male/female ratio is really not favorable (for males).  It really helps if you are a paying member, in the sense that it enables you to communicate with other members.  It's also a lot like dating....chicks aren't going to be falling all over you when you post a pic of your c**k and state your intentions, crudely.  The ladies can be very selective...again, due to the ratio....and they are.  So, while it is not for everyone, it can be fruitful....but, so can cruizing the local bars....and you spend just as much money there.

NOT a good site I can guarantee you most likely will not meet anyone very awesome on there unless you are hung like a horse and have pecs like arnold schwarzenegger when he was 25. Although I did meet my last gf on there...

It is for real. I have used it and have had success with some over nighters, lol. The only thing I had to pay for was the room and dinner. It does take a lot of time to weed out the fake/bs ads. Don't be surprised if you run into provider ads on that site. I have recieved many request for doubles, have not tried that out yet.

I have paid twice, several years apart.  Benefits that were supposed to be available did not always work and support usually ignored requests for help.  Save your money.

I had and have been a member of AFF on and off for several years. I am slightly above average looking almost 40 married 6" cock. so I think i am basically a normal man. I have met 6 couples during that time and have had great sex with them, most of them I met with on many many occaisons. I also met 3 married women on there. One of them we had a one year fuckfest and had women join us who we met on AFF. Its all about being a paid member, and being very very very patient. Remember there are close to 100 men for every women or couple seeking men. It sometimes takes me over 6 months to finally hook up with someone new but its worth it.

Prior to my current adult career, I dated exclusively through AFF.  My last 2 BF's were found through it as well!  It was my experience that there were more men and less "real" women.  I constantly was told by the gentlemen that they had not met with hardly anyone while I was enjoying more dates than I could imagine.  

I believe that there are many working girls on that site as well.  I loved it but alas I too had to kiss a few frogs as they let anyone on that site.

I met one real woman who was very nice but whose life was beset with problems; the kind that money can't help unfortunately. She was cheating on her husband and he found out she was giving it away and threatened to kill her. A few other nibbles but in the end, lots of people who want something for nothing.

met one lady who told me she was a Harvard Law grad - and in fact was on the Harvard Law Review... when we met, she was living over a garage, and was seriously trying to impress... told of villas in Italy and her law practice... yea - right, as she could not string together enough words to make a sentence...

Another I made a date with, called at the last minute and informed me that she was afraid to leave her house?  the rest... chat but no meet....

To my way of thinking AFF is composed of married folk who live vicariously thought the site... they are men (who don't have the guts to hobby) and women who are less than desirable - sorry but that is just my experience.

I've not heard anything very good about AFF... and I researched this as best I could. Of all of the sites out there that compare to this one, AFF seemed to be portrayed as the "scammiest"... giving some of the others a bad name in the process. I've tried a couple of others with varying degrees of success. I would say in general... take advantage of free trials some sites offer, and don't invest in long-term membership deals until you've seen what happens with a shorter term deal. Came across this site that offers a directory to adult dating... you might check it out to see the alternatives to AFF.

I think you nailed it buddy; hard to imagine someone pretending to be a lawyer and can't string a sentence together. It's like lady who swears she not married anymore but can't stay out after 10 (no kids, just a jealous hubby who been kicking her ass for 10 years). No bad looking if you don't count the lack of dental work and a little xtra weight. We never got to the kissing/fucking stage. Met for coffee and decided to bail after 45 minutes of whining about a guy to be named later crap... Gave her a second chance and she cleaned up nicely, but too much baggage... I never called again and didn't take her calls.

I had very good luck with AFF. My first attempt with without a decent photo and I did not get many replies. After I added photos. I got more contacts, but I played it cool and did not ruch anything. I hooked up with one sweet lady in Houston. Everytime we met it got better and better. She then invited me to a "party." My mind was blown with group sex, than after a week I started to think that things where getting too crazy and that next time i would be hanging in a basement somewhere. I also met one other lady and we met for dinner and we later hooked up.

I ended my membership when I started dating. You can tell the "bullshit ads" they have a photo that is way too hot to be real. These are scams.

My man and I (see posts above!) joined and met some very sexy, friendly, and compatible couples....but I think 'couple' is the key.