Most ATFs contain some combination of additives that improve lubricating qualities, such as anti-wear additives, rust and corrosion inhibitors, detergents, dispersants and surfactants (which protect and clean metal surfaces); kinematic viscosity and viscosity index improvers and modifiers, seal swell additives and agents (which extend the rotational speed range and temperature range of the additives' application); anti-foam additives and anti-oxidation compounds to inhibit oxidation and "boil-off"[4] (which extends the life of the additives' application); cold-good lubrication qualities, anti wear and friction additives, detergents, and...
Oh wait. You weren't talking aobut automatic transmission fluid were you?  Sorry

What qualities or skills makes your ATF your ATF?  How long did it take to find her?  My screening method seems to be taking me down the variety path.  I'm not complaining but would like to find that go to lady

One guy's 7 is another guy's 9.....

You're the only one who knows what you like.

Just don't be one of those guys who fall in love with their ATF. And if you do want to fall for an ATF, the line is over there to the left, behind the fool with the shirt that reads, "She O's everytime I Daty her"

Good luck in your search, hope you find yourself a good fuck toy.

Lots of guys mention doing overnights and very extended sessions with their ATFs.  You know, they book those long sessions because an hour just doesn't do it.  Now, a four-hour session or an overnight doesn't mean endless fucking time during the session.  Most of the time, it involves a meal or two, some activities or events you visit together in public or share together, and then intimacy in between all of that.

You don't spend $4000 on an overnight with just anyone because even in an overnight, I think you would be dreaming to be able to orgasm five times.  In a 24-hour period, I would imagine a reasonable amount of sex is three sessions, and perhaps two of those sessions being multiple pops.  So let's say that you can do two pops each session, and each session is two hours.  So you spend six hours in bed, eight hours sleeping, and the other 10 hours just doing things and talking.

If you take a random hot girl out for this, you might find that it's excessive because 10 hours means you are conversing and finding about her life.

To me, an ATF just has some certain qualities that make you want to spend time with her, above and beyond the sex.

My ATF is working in another city shortly, at the same time I will be there on business.  We have incredibly electric sex, but frequently when we meet up, we spend 12 hours or more together, and she charges some ridiculously low rate (I can't disclose the rate, but it's laughably low, really, and really more symbolic of my respect for my time with her than anything else).  She turns on my mind and my intellect as much as my cock, you know.

So all I can say is...keep looking for the girls who you find physically attractive.  Hopefully you find someone that you just connect with.

Sorry I can't give you a list of "how to," but if you see enough girls, you are bound to find one that just rocks your world in so many ways.

Because ChicagoCPA and I traded a bunch of emails back and forth last night, and realized that we are more the same than we initially thought.

Yeah, who knows whether the girl is faking or real in her experience?  Here's why I would say otherwise.  You can draw whatever conclusions you want, but I think objectively there is something to suggest that maybe I'm not totally delusional.  

I saw a girl recently who is a $500/hour GFE provider.  She was on a board in NY, and I PM'd her after seeing her reviews and her pics on her site.  We corresponded via email several times over the next hour or two, and then talked on the phone, realizing that there was a mutual connection.  By that, I mean we got a good enough vibe about each other over the phone that we decided to try a different kinda session.  I told her that due to the economy, I have been mostly sticking to $200/hour bodyrub girls in NYC as of late, with the occasional GFE provider.

I told her I loved to DATY, and honestly if she were to cut out everything else in her session other than that, and then offer just a nude FBSM with DATY privileges, I could swing the $200 rate for an hour so we could meet and see if there was a good-enough connection to see her in the future for a $500 GFE session.  We both seemed cool with that, and so she came over to my place later that night.

DATY only turned into BBBJ, then BBBJ turned into FS/GFE.  And the price stayed the same.  Which could have been a once-in-a-lifetime thing, right?  Well, the same girl agreed to see me going forward for the same $200/hour rate for GFE.  And that session that supposed to be an hour turned into almost three.  And the second session with her was even longer.

I asked her recently why she gave me that session rate, and she said..."Because you were good down there, but also really because we hit it off."

So...it really does happen.  In fact, CPA and I were talking back and forth via email last night as she was running late to my place.  

But, yes, I can totally see how my posts might have come across as unbelievable.

I mean, I don't think anyone is really gonna do this, but if you really need to find out for yourself whether I'm good or not (I can't imagine why ANYONE would feel a need to prove this or disprove this), you can always PM the girls who I have reviewed and see if they actually respond to such a crazy question.

goes out of her way to make our date happen.
u forget it's a service with her.
i forgot what a bbbj-cim experience was like, til i met her.

usually when you least expect it.

Hi CS,

My current ATF has all the attributes  of what you discussed in your post!! I sincerely hope to win the lottery one day, so I can have a long weekend w/ her in Vegas!!

So many claim that they will be your ATF...or is it ATM?

Seriously, to think you'll know by reading a review is naive.  And even if you find a gal that you really connect with today, she will change, and you will change over time.  

Some fellas like to just do the "one and dones"...while others find one or two they enjoy being with over and over.  Sounds like so far you've just not found a lady that you want to see again.

Keep on seeing different ladies, experience the scenes, and maybe eventually one will hit your buttons the right way that you want to see her more than once or twice.  Or not...and that's what makes this little corner of nirvana what it is.  There's someone out there for everyone.

I mean, I can appreciate that you are going to like some more than others, as we do too, but some guys around here talk about their ATF as if they are married...it's a bit creepy lol.

Your my ATF, ya wanna get married??
Is that "Creepy"??

Then you clear the calendar.

And for me, an ATF means that I've spent a lot of time with her either off the clock, or that she has given me an obviously heavily discounted rate that it's really not about the money as much as it is about she wanting to spend the time with me.

Yeah, you can argue it's all about the benjis at the end of the day, and I can't argue with your experiences and experience in this activity of ours.

I could give you an example over PM of this, but I don't think you care.  

And you shouldn't.  

I continue to enjoy your posts, London.

Excellent response! Not all will get your response, in fact some may see it as crazy. But as for the guys that do trips and overnight, I don't think it could have been put any better.