Which do you love more, giving or receiving oral? What was the hottest and longest session you remember either giving or receiving?  

Well I’m a longer duration guy I like to receive but for me it needs to be a sloppy and loud blowjob or else I just can’t cum just by stimulation alone ( I know I sound like I’m lying, but I’m jealous of you guys gettin off in just minutes 😩)  but I prefer to please the woman first as that kind of gets me off, just the real moans, body reactions is actually my huge turn on, I can kind of tell if she is faking it by intercourse which is a huge TURN OFF, I don’t just eat but I caress, kiss the whole body starting from the inner thighs workin my way up to the ears softly kissing and whispering, that To me I think of as giving, not just DATY but investing my energy into her pleasure

When the juice is sweet, and I can get her off in just a few minutes, that is a great thrill.

That's like asking me if I like redheads more than blondes... or brunettes more than raven haired beauties... they are all great in their own way and each a pleasure to be savored... I see no need to rank them.

......... when one woman is sitting on my face, yum,  and the other one is BBBJ. So good!
I do enjoy giving  long and slow oral pleasure to a woman. No time limits. Pleasure shouldn't have limits.  
I once had a wonderful session with a salacious pixie who edged me for a good 90 minutes with her mouth and hands. It was wonderful.

I  love giving DATY. I kind of pride myself on my talent in this sex act category and have won numerous awards for it. Okay......that last part's not true but I've had many partners in and out of hobby life tell me that if such awards were given I'd win top honors. Nothing turns me on more than making her come with my mouth.

We can all sit here and say as providers we just LOVE giving more because it sounds alot better lol..Let's be honest it all depends. I love giving when my play partner is clean, receptive and appreciative and doesn't just lay there like a log. In that case I rather just smother you and sit on your face. I love receiving bc I don't get tons of oral stimulation so if someone wants to I am more than for it. Mutually oral sessions are the best to me. I think I love oral more than sex, depending on who it is. Lol.  

and it also reminds me that I too am conflicted on this issue. I think the only honest way for me to answer it is to say the hotter the woman, the more likely it is that I would rather give than to receive, knowing full well that I am going to get a reward for a job well done, said reward coming in the form of a wet juicy pussy and a very revved up woman for my pleasure when we get to the main course.

... without mutual DATY would be lacking and disappointing.

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I've had plenty of very nice BJs, but I can't think of more than a few that rank as "hottest or longest." On the other hand, I can quickly recall in vivid detail at least twice as many great DATY sessions. Here's the Cliff's Notes version of just a few:

Especially if you are with a lsdy that is multiorgasmic. The smile on their face when we are done is priceless.

I think I need to do more research before I can form a coherent opinion.

That's the beauty of choosing whom we see and how we play -- we get to do what we want (assuming a willing and, hopefully, enthusiastic partner).

...when meeting a date who is also very insistent on the focus of the date being on me for the bulk of our playtime (even though he/she is the one paying). It's a nice problem to have though lol.

Hugs and Kisses

I have given for over an hour many times.  One time I got a cramp in my tongue!!!!  Gotten for 45 minutes from an outstanding lady.

Unfortunately, only one 'well-known' NYC provider has been able to elevate me to a state of sensorial ecstasy with her masterful oral skills (but still no finish - in fact, have never been able to finish this way).  

Sounds like someone I must meet. Sounds like she can suck a tennis ball through a straw or the chrome off a trailer hitch. My kind of girl.  
Care to share?

Certainly! Are you based in NYC? And are you into Korean providers?  

"I'm starting to get some feeling back in my jaw now."
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I am one who use to enjoy Daty. But in my experience while I like it, those receiving where less interested. Might be my technique. Seeing how so many guys are happy to write a review where they know giving daty got the the provider off, BS. If they told you the truth it would shatter your fragile ego.

... I don't have favorites for everything.  

and receiving is my favorite.

My favorite is always giving. Just the fact that I can do that and make them at a all time high is what get's me going. I would agree to what you had said it's very rewarding to me as well. Just total sexual pleasure.

If I was with you, and only had the option of giving or receiving, I would be down on you in a flash.

As long as he is open to me giving him directions on how to make me cum and I can cum! Feeling him grow hard in my mouth and hearing the noises as he enjoys it then completes is very hot and arousing. Also feeling a tongue go over my nether regions and the sensations that they create.... Oh I love them both, truly I do!!!

...i love giving...there's nothing i crave more that the sliding of my tongue in a tight/wet pussy    

Nothing better than an enthusiastic giver

OMG... Your picture you posted has properly distracted me.  We have similar taste in women. Can we enjoy her together?

Wow! How dreamy to have a fantasy pixie who generously gives. You have been a good boy to receive such a treat.

Thanks for painting those sexy encounters for me. It's hard not to a bit hot after imagining all this.

I Love to Please!

I love to please but when i am on the clock and it's my dime please, please me.

I enjoy a good BBBJ, but there is nothing like going down on a sweet tasting pussy and working my magic till I feel her come.  Yes, many providers will fake it. If I feel that I am not doing it for her, I will stop and let her do the work.
But if she is enjoying it, I will know.  You can't easily fake the spasms and especially that special wetness that I can taste when a woman is coming under my mouth.
I love the way, when it is over, she will usually just pull my on top and be horny and too sensitive to touch at the same time.

Who wouldn’t enjoy a little reciprocity?

I absolutely love a good BBBJ, who doesn't?  But I also love to DATY.  I like to be able to concenrate on the sights smells and sounds of pleasure.  If I am getting my dick sucked at the same time I can't perfom as well I think.