Guys-  DO you like a women to take charge at home?  Example, your wife or SO initiates sex at home.    Ladies- Do you like a man to say "Lets make love babe" and take you to the bed ?  Or do you like to Initiate sex at home?  (assuming you have an SO, for the sake of this question lets pretend you have one  :

Go douche !  

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have to take charge because some men are douchbags.

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Thats why I'm here
C'mon man. I can't create a make believe SO, then tell you what turns me on about her.
That's some crazy people talk.

I can say that a power exchange type of date is awesome though.
Switching between Sub, and Dom is pretty deep mentally. Especially if you have to fight her for dominance.
You learn things about yourself you never knew. I learned I'm a bit of a pussy.
I let a girl beat me up. Hey! I twisted my knee trying to give her a suplex. After that I was done for!

So I guess if I like my women at home the same way I like them here...
It would be a switch scenario. A tigress, and a kitten. Because I strive to be a Hound, and a pup.
I don't cross those worlds though. So that answer is irrelevant.
In reality. Every man's wife is the boss. It is just a matter of whether he knows it or not

She best take charge of that particular portion of our life. I get wrapped up in conference calls frequently. Sex isn't paramount for me any longer

Sorry about your knee

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Incall Only. LOL

Give and take.

My last really serious SO, before all this happened, ALWAYS wanted to be dominant. He wouldn't let me do ANYTHING, and sex was always WHEN he wanted it, WHENEVER he wanted it. I never got the chance to get worked up and jump him. When I finally did, I kept initiating it during movies... IDK why, but I get really turned on while watching movies... but he bitched about it. His loss... until one day I just seduced the hell outta' him. He denied, but I kept seducing him and said, "You're gonna' miss out if you don't let me do this."

Within a couple minutes I was f***ing the s*** outta' him. I dominated him on top, then grabbed him, pulled him on the floor and was dominating him from underneath. Very strong guy, but he let me win that time.

So. By the end of the 'sex-ca-pade', out of breath, he said, "OMG, that was the best sex I have EVER had. You can do that any time you want. All of a sudden it was like you became possessed and turned into a totally different person.'

If I want it, let me do it. Something takes over me and I just go freakin' nuts.

Just a bit of background, he was my first 'lover' if you would call it that, after 10 years of celibacy. (two years ago). He constantly told me how horrible my bedroom skills were, etc. etc. Probably because he never even let me move in bed. But he finally let me take control when I was actually not like "Oh, god. If I say 'in a little while baby' I'm going to hear him whine all night," and got to see a woman naturally ready to go...

Initiation from the opposite sex all the time makes me feel like a machine.

btw, after I ditched that dude, yeah, kinda' raised my number a bit from a measly three lolol.

LOL, that's funny!

I like a dominant female in every sense of the word  For men, I like smooth, slight teasing aggressive initiation, but then I am in control.