To be honest I did get board with the screening, the emailing and other associated work that goes into setting up an appointment. After doing this for a while I realized that I liked the connection I had formed with a few of my regular gals and wasn't really getting much satisfaction on the "new girl every week" plan that I had been pursuing. The sex is never boring but the experience is more enjoyable for me when there is a bit of familiarity with the lady.  A new experience or two each year suits me fine.  The rest of the time I stick with my two long-time regulars.

I am just wondering if any of you guys get bored with the hobby, because there is no challenge to get the mouse so to speak. Or, is the thought of a new mouse what keeps it fun and exciting for you?

Does anyone ever just get tired of being screened, emailing, and of course...paying? Is variety truly the spice of life?

For me, I would get bored with the same person in RL, but that does not mean I would get bored with the sex per se. I would kill to be a guy for just one day....I would love to know just how it feels to have my d*ck sucked, and how it would feel to enter a vagina for the first time.

Just like most things in life it does get old after awhile. I'm more into the GFE and I've met some wonderful ladies but in the end the cold hard truth is that if there wasn't the money it certainly wouldn't happen.  So yes you can have some incredible sex with ladies you probably couldn't touch in the civvie world but after awhile you kind of have an empty feeling when it's all said and done. I know several hobbyist that have expressed that. You take time off or see providers less frequently and the edge returns.

From all the posts I've read, it seems some have come and gone and cum back again.  So obviously, it either got old or they got tired of paying or something else happened to cause them to walk away....and subsequently get back in the game.   I'm sure some have quit never to return.  

I also think I could come up with a rather lengthy list of posters who might actually shrivel up and die if they weren't able to continue hobbying.  Obviously, it doesn't get old for them.  LOL.  But you do read some of these reviews and you can just tell that some guys jones for a sex fix just like someone would for heroin.  

Probably guys on both ends of the spectrum and everywhere in between.  

I lose the feel for it when I hobby "too much." Proly a lot of guys would read that and say, "How the fk can you hobby TOO much?" When one date rolls into the next, when you dont remember which girl told you what story, when you forget the girls name your with or mix it up with the girl from 2 nights ago. etc. yeah, thats happened to me...but no its never boring but it loses its excitement if I dont space out the dates. I find every 2 weeks is just about perfect. I relish the last date for a week and I look forward to the next one for a week. And there are so many mice crawling all over the place, that also keeps it fresh and fun.

If you ever grow a dick I will suck it for you at no charge.

wine, musical instruments, and sexy bald men (hint, hint).

But it not getting boring for me, that's for sure.  I see a panoply of women, and I add to it all the time.

I have the inverse (or is it converse, or reverse, whatever) fantasy of as you have.  I think everyone is curious what it is like for the other.

London,
It does.  Let me say that in HS, a priest of all people, said you will get bored sex.
WTF!!! as A HS Male in an all male catholic school I was confounded.
LMAO recalling the sex ed class.. Never believed him one bit.  til not long ago...sex got boring and ....then discovered hobbying.
even in the Hobby  with different ladies.... hot or not, traditional sex got boring, variety or not.
Though strange is a welcome change, The Same old Same old, (slam bam thank you ma'am) was boring.
Now I need to get my rocks like everyone, and perhaps more often, and on a higher plateau.  and Being on the cusp of becoming an old Fuck, lol.....This requires openness to new adventures, exploration, and experimentation, and a willing partner.  This where the Hobby loses its tendency to become boring.
I recently attended a seminar (at a local sex toy shop) on the male orgasm..... hhmmmmm interesting!!!!! learned a few new things about my anotomy.. lmao.  even attended w/ a provider friend, my treat of course, no free bees.  
So a hobbiest needs several provider friends w/ special talents, and a willingness to be open, as does He/She, a F*** wad of Cash, and have at... Now it not boring.

So, one might concede that even men who claim they can't live without sex, are not FULLY satisfied with just the "act" of sex? Very interesting indeed. I am writing a book so don't mind me lol. You can all pick up your checks when it's published.

Sometimes I binge and other times I cut back.  Right now I am binge-ing for my birthday in Vegas.  A couple of times I've had two-a-days.  Tomorrow I'm doing doubles with two French Canadian Model Mayhem girls.  I was walking with them through a casino the other day and guys were almost literally walking into walls.  I think I can review one of them but the other's completely UTR at the moment.
After tomorrow I'll probably need to recuperate for a while.  Perhaps I'll go to Cali for a penis transplant.

You are a bigger attention whore than moi lol. Happy Birthday!!!

But, as for being an attention whore, this is my first post here in a long time.  I will admit being a whore for the attention I got with those two smokin' babes, even though I don't think anyone was looking at my sorry, old ass.  My shit-eating grin was probably big enough to use as a runway landing light.

No, it hasn't gotten old (I know I'm a relative newbie).  I've always been able to get the mouse to take the bait, but got tired of the chase at the bars etc.  I know what I like and what I want.  In my limited experience, I've had nothing but fun and prefer this far more than the chase.  Also, the providers I've seen have been exceptional in that they exude passion and sexuality.  they aren't mechanical and cold.

As far as paying..honestly.. you pay for it one way or another

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Even though the women maybe different, it seems that everyone reads the same escort manual. Most times it feels scripted and regimented, and I get it because of the inherent emotional barriers that need to be set up. But once, just once more in my life would love to have the feeling of both people opening themselves to one another without worrying about performance, acceptance, etc.

If just getting our rocks off id the goal rosy hand is much cheaper and works well. Not very much fun to lick though.

Could you elaborate on what you mean by "scripted" and opening oneself up? How much can you possibly expect in an hour or two? Are you talking sexual openness or sharing intimate details about one's life?

I've only been "hobbying" for 6 months now and it is starting to get old. I'd be willing to bet the experience is different for those who have an SO at home but for me (single) it does get old waking up alone. Don't get me wrong, I've had sex with some of the most beautiful women I've ever met and wouldn't trade those experiences for anything in the world but I've been thinking (quite a bit actually) that this scene is seriously fucking up my view on "normal" women. Haven't even asked out a woman since I've started doing this and when I even consider it I end up comparing them to providers I've seen. Def not fair to civie women since I'm very selective of the ladies I see ( main rule is they must be unobtainable for me in the real world). Have one more date scheduled for this week and then gonna take a break for awhile to get my head right. Do agree with the previous poster that you pay for it one way or another so that aspect doesn't bother me at all, so long as its between two consenting adults. Pimped girls, druggies, women who work for agencies and are foreign, are all examples of what I consider non-consenting adults. I've read too many stories about sex trafficking and what not to support those types and a girl on drugs is at the mercy of her addiction. Just my opinion.

But a mutual passion for one another that tunes out all the negative crap in life. Both are so turned on by each other that you don't care about whether one will be too attached or worried that he will give a good review, etc. you just wanted to f@$& each other's brains out. That is hard to do in the business.

There are many different "acts of sex" and which one works for each person is subjective for lack of a better term, and you're correct, we can't live w/o sex...some need more than others, and some different sex acts than others.
acknowledging this is a primary goal to having a satisfied sex life. perhaps the question should be phrases differently.

It all depends on business, personal endeavors and family obligations. I enjoy the BP chase for a diamond in the rough.

After last weekend I shan't be using my pito ifin you need that transplant. "8in will travel" lol

Did you ever think that unobtainable gal was an escort?
my discussions w/ hooker friends is they go out all the time and get hit on all the time..... some go home that night, others just dance and hang out.  I went out with an unobtainable Babe, a dozen yrs ago, that I met in a club.....went to dinner and a movie, cocktails afterward, just a normal date.  TEscorting as speed dating w/o all the drama and pretentiousness...LOL, seems logical to me.

Been hobbying off and on for 15 years and it has yet to get old. I have gone through stages where I go long periods without seeing anyone though. It was more because of changes in my personal life than being sick of the hobby. I've been much more active the past few years and not even close to getting bored.

I tend to 'binge hobby' a few times a year. At the end of a binge, 3-4 girls in a week, I am bored.
After 2-3 months I am excited to meet some new girls again.
If I hobbied a few times a month, I'd get bored. I think if I were single, I'd hobby only on rare occasion, because I would enjoy LR's proverbial challenge to get a mouse much more than paid for mice.

That's actually part of the problem. Every beautiful woman I see I'm wondering (hoping?) if they are an escort.

I have to answer that yes, sometimes it does get old - but only for a moment.  Sure, there's no chase involved, but I think a lot of us entered this game not for the chase but for the victory lap (so to speak).  I entered this game for variety.  I've been able to learn so much and be with so many different type of women.  We all develop favorites over time, but I honestly believe if you stick to always trying someone new, this will never stop being fun.  it becomes dull when you do - when you see the same lady in the same place every time you're there. But add something different and it's a whole new ball game.

Impossible, I say.  For me, anyway, that type of intense feeling only happens when I'm in an emotional relationship with someone.   It's fantasy land for the most part.  That's just the reality of it.  LOL.

Yes, I would imagine it would be hard for a woman to have that passion for someone she is not even attracted to. Not saying, you in that case, but it is no news flash that most of us cater to men that are far from what we would date. Then again many of them are hot as hell!

Interesting Mr. Fisher. Oh, and Jason Statham is bald and a hottie!!!

Hmm, see waking up alone is something I just don't mind at all lol. I mean I would not mind waking up with a man if he just fked me and left without wanting breakfast, but that would also get old for me. I am not cut out for relationships, though I would love to have one some day again.

When I used to tour, I loved the travel, site seeing, and meeting the new people but after a week, I could not wait to get home and NOT have to fk anyone lol. I cannot even begin to understand how some women can fk 10 guys a week in the hobby and still have a BF or Hubby to take care of...that shit would drive me nuts!

I guess I was wondering if even too much of a good thing (sex) can in fact get old for even men...it certainly does for me, if I work too much.

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That's why it's the oldest profession.  

It never gets old if you see the right people, unfortunately, you don't always connect with the right person on every 'date', so it can seem to get old.  

I've gone through spells where I've seen several highly reviewed ladies in short period of time, yet I was bored out of my mind.  Great sex, but no anticipation, no enthusiasm.  I've also gone through spells where I've seen just as many lovely ladies and been totally enthralled with each one and couldn't get the evening(s) out of my head for a week.  

What's funny is the sexual activity was pretty much about the same, but there was a certain intangible that was a combination of what she brought the table and where I was mentally and emotionally that made all the difference.  When you are going through the motions at $800 per hour, it makes you wonder why you are bothering, but then one day things click and the entire game changes.  

Best date ever was an overnight with no sex (believe it or not).  We never got around to it.  We made up for it later, but that set the stage for several amazing experiences.  I wouldn't necessarily recommend it as a cure for boredom, but since that night I've yet to be bored.

Thanks for your input babe.

I thought it was more of general comment on provider performance and you hoping for more.

I would have stopped, and saved my $$$.

Swim

The anticipation alone made it worth it for me, and by pacing myself, it seems that each successive experience will get better. I can expand on the menu, so to speak, and really enjoy the company without any of the initial uncertainty.
Pacing makes the hardon grow fonder.

and especially in bed.

8o)

LOL, good point swim. Still, we spend money on tons of shit every day that does not really satisfy us fully. I can imagine it is the same way here for some guys.

Ha fkin Ha Julie! Well played though...well played.

Whether they are perceived "hot" by the provider or not. Your job is to convince all men they are special. WOhereas, providers kinda get the hint from repeat customers.

The hobby gets old, and I've taken some breaks of up to a year at times. Not sure if it's money or you just don't get the rush like I used to. Usually it's a new lady who is getting great reviews that I come back off the bench to see

Variety is the spice of life, but variety is defined as the quality or state of being different or diverse; the absence of uniformity, sameness, or monotony.  

Variety does not have to mean different partners every week or every month or year. It can simply mean taking it out of the bedroom, doing it in the shower, or in the woods. Don't do the same routine, sometimes a quick fuck in the kitchen is all you need for variety.

I agree there are times when the person you are with can aggravate the shit out of you, but you still want to fuck their brains out. Which is where I agree with you, time apart makes it better.

As for as being a man for the day, if that ever happens, I hope you get your dick sucked and get to slide into a tight, wet pussy like your's.

Boredom is simply complacency, get out with the person you like to spend time with and just do something different. Take a quick 2 day vacation at the beach, you get the sex in a new place, plus most of the time you get to leave all the bullshit behind and can focus on what you like in that person.

MM

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I treasure my ATFs and it helps that I don't get to see them very much because I really do appreciate the rare time with them. Variety can be exciting but it comes with the price of being screened yet again, the occasionally awkward first meetings, and worrying about how visible they are on LE's radar. Meeting someone new today is more challenging than when I started and I'm not particularly fond of jumping through hoops for a new lay.

Can't tell you how it feels to enter a new vagina for the first time since the cover takes pretty much all of the sensation away. I can vaguely recall way back when I first got married, lol. I think it was great but my memory is fading But I do love female globes and take full advantage of them.

While I don't always want sex 24/7 like I used to, there are times after a lot of sex or seeing many ladies that I need to take a break. I always come back to one or the other.  I also get tired of the process and searching. I'm on a break from the hobby now.

I do crave variety though and I think that's what brings some or most of us here. I like meeting new ladies and getting to know them. The beginning of a hobby relationship is almost as exciting as the beginning of a civie relationship. Sometimes it's better because you have sex at every meeting.

Now doing the same thing with the same lady over and over could get old but that is the case if it is in the hobby or not.  Providers are a little more open and easier to suggest new experiences to than most guys find civie ladies to be.  If I got tired of sex with beautiful women that I picked my first step would be my doctor to have my head checked.

As far as your question of how it feels to get your dick sucked and enter a vagina that's an easy answer.  Its fucking awesome.  If it wasn't ladies wouldn't be able to charge for it.  Its probably like chocolate or shoe shopping for a lady.  lol

You want your independence and to be your own boss. Wait a decade or so and your opinion might change.

Every guy remembers the first d*ck suck and first f*ck.  I experienced both on the same date.   The suck felt really good warm wet hot pleasure but when it came time to f*ck, it was like spinning out of control.  It felt like I was being completely ingulfed, the hotness became strong hot tingles, I felt like we melted together and as her pussy muscles contracted, I lost it completely.

For years, I could get sucked forever.   I never came from a blow job until I was well into my thirties but now it is just the opposite.   I can f*ck forever but a good bj will get me off in less than 5 minutes.   Don't know why the change.  It just happened over time.

It's easy to remember London but hard to describe.   HTH.

I am not all that young fool lol.  Oh, and my feelings have changed. I was married TWICE remember? I used to be a sucker for love and having someone up my ass, but now I can't even fathom doing it again unless he worked offshore two weeks out of the month lol. I am all for marriage and monogamy, but don't make me live with that fool!!

Ugh, I am talking about the hobby, not real life. I don't care how many places I go or fk one person, but it is still the SAME person. I am not made that way, and I think you know that lol. I don't need a "different" person, but I also don't need any one person either. If I am annoyed, the sex is going to suffer. There is just no motivation after you've been with someone for too damn long. I don't hate any of the men I once dated, but I also don't want to fk them after I am done with them either.

You are just the marrying type...I am not. Most all of your relationships lasted over 10 years..mine averaged a year except for the last one, and that was ONLY because we saw each other but twice a month. Had he been up my ass, would have ended a lot quicker.

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ROTFLMFAO

I knew it was more than just the sex lol. I swear...men are full of shit bwahahaha.

I like smoking actually, but must say there is one other thing I like more and it's not sex bwahahaha. Not telling either!!

After this one I ain't gettin married for a long time.

Hobby or Civie same thing. If a guy goes to his ATF and they always do the same thing in the same order, it will get boring. Dats all I'm sayin. Keep it interesting and it can be good for a ling time. I never said anything about forever, I don't believe in forever.

MM

Well I hope your happy.  I'm going to be wondering what it is all night now.  Can I offer a bribe?

But I don't really care too much about the chase.

This is about sex, not really a relationship.

On the other hand, once I'm in a relationship, I get out of the hobbying thing.

Damn Scott...now I need a cigarette! That's a very good description, and not one I could relate to so now I REALLY want a d*ck!!! They say you will always remember your first and the last, and I have found at least that to be true.

would you settle for a loaner?

I guess I go through phases of hornyness. I mean sometimes I want to fuck fuck fuck.
It's bad. An open toe shoe will get me hard.
Others, I can take it or leave it. I'll walk right past a hot woman checking me out, and not even notice.
So I wouldn't call it bored really. It's my dick telling me what to do again.
Speaking of dick....
What is it with a woman's fascination with trying out our equipment?
You are not the first girl I have heard that from.
A girl I dated for years loved to hold my dick when I took a piss.
She said she liked to aim it?!? That she always wanted a dick for a day so she could pee like me.