TER General Board
Booking Etiquette + Explicit Requests
How do you deal with a client with presence in the community yet who continues to ask for explicit services such as PSE or GFE without meeting. Personally, I’ll block you and you’ll never have the opportunity to experience me if you attempt to imply anything other than my time being paid for… advice for first time visitors, keep your mouth shut and trust the reviews.
I refuse to sext with first time clients.
Now just pin that statement to all of your ads.
Says the woman hating hobbyist
Wow. So clever and well thought out. Perfect response to my post. You must be an attorney.
On one hand you want to protect yourself from entrapment by LE, so you don't want to discuss explicit activities with a new client. On the other hand, you have a TER profile that lists a number of explicit activities that you offer. The only question I would ask you before meeting is, "Are there any changes in your TER profile that I should be aware of in the appearance or services offered sections?" How can you not respond to that with a yes or no? Since PSE and GFE are not listed, and if they are not in your web ad, I agree you don't have to answer, but if your profile says that BBBJ, DFK and CFS are on your menu, then I know you are GFE without asking anything except the question about changes. If you refused to answer, then I would have to consider this may be a scam or an upsell, so I hope you would answer.
I don't think TER reviews can be used as self-incrimination, since they are written by third parties and my be complete fiction.
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However if the provider verbally confirms the TER reviews, then that is a form of self-incrimination.
In her own defense, she could argue that acknowledging the accuracy of her Profile / Reviews was NOT self incrimination but, rather, false advertising.
ElizabethRose,
You definitely covered it. Some guys want something for nothing. Meaning they don't want to pay to fuck a female.
Even if they are LE, I don't think there is any harm in explaining why you shouldn't discuss explicit services until after meeting the first time.
ElizaRose,
First of all, When you create your AD on this site. You need to list all of your services & stand your grounds by stating that you will not do what is not on your list of services. Us "The Providers" do have to take control (Because if it wasn't for us (Women---"The Providers") then the guys would be home doing all the work (Sexual Work) for themselves (Which is boring & Less Satisfying).
I had a guy once ask what GFE entails. I was like, read my website it says what I like in there. I can't discuss specifics. He was really adament so I said either book me and we'll have an amazing time or don't but I can't explain in detail what's going to happen. It ruins the fun and I don't feel comfortable doing so. He booked me and ofcourse we had an amazing time. I guess he was just really new to hobbying and wanted to make sure it would be worth his time.
Another guy told me exactly how he wanted his BJ and I was so disgusted I decided not to see him. I was just grossed out. Don't ask for explicit things, just book and we'll talk about that when we're in the room together. The fact that he really thought he needed to explain a sloppy BJ to me is both insulting and gross. I know how to please and I don't need explicit basic things mansplained to me over email lol. I guess he had some bad experiences. At a certain point you just need to trust the good reviews and ratings and see the provider to find out for yourself.
Where a lady is explicit in her ads. There's a lady on the LA Ad Board whose ad headline reads "My Lustful Cocksucking Fantasy". In her ad she is quite explicit about what you can expect from her in the boudoir. She may be a bit over the top, but she's not alone in being explicit in her ads about what she will do; I've seen several that are quite explicit about what they offer. Gotta love the free market--there's something for everyone.
But sounds like she called it a fantasy.
I feel like gents here and other sites that have been around for a long time no better.Every now and then I get one who mentions TER and then proceeds to list every acronym in his email and needs to confirm my rates as well.
I decline these guys who do this.
I have reviews and a well explained website if that is not enough he is not the person I want to spend time with.
Jaydalee and other ladies on here, Just curious,
Would you be okay with this simple question or is over the line as well.
" Is your TER profile accurate?"
as such read my reviews look at my profile when guys start being explicit.
Majority of guys know better than to ask that anyways
that I ask, so what is your response if the customer asks if your TER profile is accurate, or have there been any recent changes?
The only question worth asking is BBBj or Covered ? Or am I off course here ? So many providers say and advertise BBBJ but then don't deliver according to thousands of reviews. I feel like a expert as a bj is my main thing and I spend a lot of time reading reviews to see if things match up.
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