Had a provider recently tell me that. I am sure it was true and I like honest girls, but it also turned me off. Is it a good idea to be this blunt?

"I'm getting fucked all weekend"
I think the first one sounds better.  


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Well hey it is good to hear how some clients feel. There is always a better way to say things to not ruffle any feathers

They actually sound exactly the same! Lol :

..even if it's a lie to avoid certain hobbyists. It leaves no ambiguity. She ain't available and that's clear.

This is the business of P4P.  You may hype yourself up to see a provider who advertises "low volume" but do you really believe that low volume only means she's seeing you for the day?  I appreciate honesty, and if she says she's booked up for the week then that's a better alternative than a no reply or sitting in a parking lot hoping someone cancels so you can jump in like a game of hopscotch.  

... that she wouldn't see a certain Dallas Hobbiest because he had several hundred reviews on another board and Okays on P411.  What?  This Provider probably bedded more guys than he did girls but he had Seen to many woman so he wasn't safe.  

come on you can tell us, I promise you we won't tell her anything you say here. lol

Honest question. I'll tell people I'm booked solid or something similar but that doesn't mean I'm booked solid seeing gentleman. It means I have social obligations and things to do. Without having to give someone a blow by blow of why I don't have time, what's a better way to answer the availability question?
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Eve

...what her job is.

The term low volume might differ between ladies. But let's say a Provider sees 3 clients per day and considers that to be low volume.  Maybe just a couple dudes if multi hour appts are scheduled. On Saturday & Sunday her quota is filled by 4 -6 bookings of various lengths.  In her mind she's having a successful weekend and thus considers herself to be " booked solid"!
So it doesn't necessarily mean a line is forming down the hallway of her hotel room.

Yes, I was 50 bucks short. Dang it! After I turn in all those empty beer bottles from my backyard, I will try again

Same thing has happened to me. Apparently I had seen too many providers, I have also been declined because the girls I have seen have been too "model type."  Whatever that means.  Women come in all shapes, types and physiques. If I choose to see a thick, slim/petite, short/tall lady, it really shouldn't matter to the lady I am inquiring to see. I've looked at your photos and thought enough to want a session. It's not "Love Connection," more like "Let's Make a Date."

see only one client a day! I realize that providers don't just sit around playing checkers with their girlfriends all day waiting for you to call. But in general, it's probably not a good idea to tell a man about other clients.

I think some of us like the fantasy that we are the only one. I try not to think of all the others. A good way to say is would be I am not available and possible add some embellishment.

This could mean different things than what you're likely imagining, given that it turned you off.  

You're failing to see the forest here, methinks. Guessing she told you she was booked because you had asked to see her, correct? While you did not get the answer you wanted, she gave you a couple goodies. You got an answer, and the answer does not close any doors at all. Your choice but if it was me, I would book right now for next weekend. And make it two hours...

Well what do you expect?Shes a working girl

It's equally as possible that, like STP said, she has a personal quota, i.e. one or two people a day and is booked.  

Obviously no one feels jealous, everyone understands the nature of the arrangement. But getting real time updates on when she is hooking up with other people is a bit too much. Her saying she is booked solid is not a biggie though, its definitely a tactful way to put it.

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I waited 2 months to meet a M&G/Soiree honey that's a knockout.
She only works Saturdays and I'm only off one Saturday every 4 weeks. I let it be known that I'd book my next Saturday off right now regardless of where she was. One hosting venue was 50 miles from home. Told agency I didn't care ... they penciled me in and when she confirmed she was working that day, I was set.

That would turn me on, I absolutely adore sluts.

A lady I used to see included her daily status on her website. Before sending an invitation, I could always look to see if she was available, saving us both the time of an unneeded 'booked solid' communication.  

he didn't say to you, "Please don't ever call me again", or "I am not taking new clients" or worse, "I don't fee we are compatible and do not wish to have you as a client".  

I don't think that anyone has ever lied to a stranger.

her two slots full so she is "booked solid".

Hi there such and such. Just read your reviews and would like to make an appointment. To which she replied: oh, I am booked solid through the weekend. How about Monday or Tuesday? In my opinion, the part about being booked solid was simply unnecessary and should have been skipped

theatre that was sold out, would you rather them tell you right off the bat so you can plan something else, or would you rather them make you wait around all weekend and keep trying to buy a ticket to a sold-out show?

see high-volume girls or you are going to make yourself crazy.  Its amazing the way many Newbies think its just them and their provider in a complete vacuum, with no other customers, ever.

Gosh, I'm not sure what that makes me, because I like em slutty. The slutier, nastier the better.

Booked solid could have been a lot of things..weekend plans with family, a civie date, or just wanted some down time.  We're not blow up dolls with a pulse. We have real life friends, family, hobby's,  and some of us have jobs....it's much easier to just say I'm booked.  

...I know she will be seeing others. How many? None of my business. As long as we don't pass one another in the doorway I don't care. Like I said, I don't care if she tells me or not. Why try to tell me it's not a good idea for her to tell a man about other clients. Besides the OP didn't say she told him about other clients he said she told him she was booked for the whole weekend. That doesn't tell anyone a thing about the clients.

She could have just one client per day. She could have two and then social events. She could just not wanted to see you. You are reading WAY too much into this and about you not wanting to hear about other guys lol. Good luck with that. Enjoy your day

...a nun's habit!

personally women usually tell me they are "busy" all next week or whatever, but usually they offer an alternative date beyond that.  nobody has told me they were booked, but i wouldn't get "turned off."  it's not like i don't know they are seeing other clients, in fact many of the ladies i see are quite open about the other clients they see; not to the point of revealing info, pls don't misunderstand me.  just things like "i have one guy who likes to..." or "one guy did this so i stopped seeing him" etc etc.

as i said above, many ladies tell me when i ask for a specific date "sorry i'm busy that week/weekend/day/whatever."

the doctor said the rash won't subside for another week...

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seriously dude, she offered you an alternative, and you're still bent out of shape?

She told you which days she was available, and you now have the option to see her if those days work for you. If her reply turned you off in some way, all we can suggest is move on

I don't think you even read my comments. Everyone knows providers see as many clients as possible, but most will be descreet and not mention them. And most guys prefer it that way. (maybe you are the exception)

You see that's exactly my point. If I asked for a specific time or date like you do, then it would be understandable, but I didn't. I think that sometimes new and young providers say things that a more experienced one wouldn't. This is one of them.

So, a provider you've never met before found time to see you within 3 days, and was conversational about it. You, sir, got great customer service & are standing your ground bitching up a storm about it.

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Hope not as this isn't the place to find that.  

No, but from a man's (at least mine) point of view it's a matter of preference. There are always other girls for a guy to see. If I asked two providers this same question and one of them said "I am booked solid for the next 3 days, how about Monday?" and the other just said : "Monday will work" I would see the latter. Which is exactly what happened by the way.

How would you know that? Take this site. Most people here are here for the review that are extremely graphic about these ladies. It doesn't turn most guys away, in fact my provider friends tell me a fresh review increases there business more so then an add. It doesn't seem to turn most men off. Most people get what this is and accept it. I am glad to hear a lady is getting the business she desires.  

I could just mean she see's two clients a day and both days are "booked"... I does not necessarily mean she is booked back to back 24x7 through the weekend

but baby steps, maybe there is hope for you after all.

guess what. even then her SO probably fucked her BB Sunday night.

So I see you've graduated from the San Diego board, this should be interesting. I may have to dust off the Mark Twain quote.  

Maybe your right about the male ego. I just don't see it. I am genuinely happy to hear a lady is doing well in the business department. Then again I am a freak that is fine sharing his wife in a MFM session with his wife. I am well aware that most guys would not be OK with that. It is a weird concept to me to be turned off by a sex worker have sex with others after reading reviews of her doing just that, and even wanting sex with any sex worker. It literally makes no sense to me. None of these ladies are remotely exclusive.  

Maybe all you girls should start saying "I more than enough money just now so check back later after I spend some"

thing over and over...

I myself like graphic reviews as much as anyone and have no problem with providers having as many clients as they want. In fact, I often introduce my friends to providers that I like. It is only during my own conversations and sessions with the girls that I prefer not to hear about their other clients.

Please don't assume "we all do this!"

....may also mean she had personal plans, family plans, maybe an overnight or weekend getaway planned. Don't assume anything. Maybe one or two appointments is her limit. Respect her reply and ask for another possible time frame later.  

You are a hooker, I am a john. The truth only hurts if you are ashamed of what you do.  

That pretty much sums it all up. It seems some like to put the Madonna mask on Women who blatantly care not for such a thing.  

You don't mind reading her graphic reviews of other guys fucking her but if she has no availability, that turns you off???
Personally,  I book up a a few weeks to a month in advance sometime but it doesn't mean I'm fucking 10 guys a week day in and day out lol!!
If her lack of availability turns you off, you'll probably be turned off more often than not in this little world we have here.