Except for the ladies who have grandfathered me ... I rarely see anyone new unless the lady is offering a special (discounted session).

I have set a limit which is on the low end of the provider fee market in my area and simply refuse to see anyone at a higher rate.

I should do the same thing when I go to the grocery store or clothes store I would probably save more money so I could take advantage of more Hobby specials.

Well form my experiences (rather limited compared to some)Some providers whose rates are on the lower end of the rate spectrum can be a VERY good time. However looking at reviewers of some of the providers that are bit more pricey there seems to be a better record of good service.

Not

Not for me though.  I like consistent 9's in performance and am willing to pay for it- not a bad experience yet, in fact- all great experiences!




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I've tried that approach with groceries and found little that appeals to me, and healthy for me. Same goes with clothes; even at higher-end retailers, what is leftover for the sale is not my size, not my color, is not in season, or totally out of style. You can find bargins, but they're few and far between, requiring allot of time and effort to find, and often you are fighting a crowd wanting the same thing.

I suspect it's much the same when it comes to "Hobby specials."

as I started to say..I learned a long time ago that a quality bamboo fly rod would cost me some bucks.  I also learned that it was/is well worth my money for my second favorite hobby.  I learned not so long ago that the same applies here, at least in my experience.

(You have a number of posts here but no reviews.  Either you do not post reviews or are using an alias so the ladies you see are not somehow insulted by being described as "low end" priced.)

The ladies I have patronized because their fee  is within my limited budget but nevertheless have good reviews have the following characteristics:

1)  A full-time job;
2)  A husband who is gainfully employed;
3)  Are of a mature age and presumably charge less because they feel their bodies cannot compete with the young gals;
4)  Are asking less than the price they would like because it is slow season or they have an immediate need for money (the "specials").

After four years of hobbying, in the past two months I had two blow-my-socks-off sessions, which I rated as 10 performances.  Both ladies are older than 40 and their rates are 200 and under.

I am grateful to ladies who ask a fee in the range I can afford.  At my age, the chance of having a "civilian" sex life is minimal.

Being a VIP here maximizes my finding such providers.  The money I have paid TER is a hobbying-cost that has more than paid for itself by enabling me to find high performance-lower cost ladies.

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I have to agree with wymen provider.  I have had guys from this site try to bargain me down to a ridiculous low figure and I find it insulting.  It has really turned me off from seeking other ter hobbyist to be honest.  

Add to the reasons some ladies are budget are the fact that a lot have drug problems or are desperate.

With regard to KS's reply, I have never asked a lady to reduce her fee. I simply watch for their specials.

A few years ago I saw ladies three and four times a week. I paid high dollars or low dollars depending on the lady's set fee. I did my homework, read the reviews and kept a large "To See" list. However, I got bored with that much activity.

I then decided to reduce my activity to once a week (occasionally twice but rarely). However, while I was still in the midst of my 3 & 4 days a week time frame, I realized that except for the incalls there was little difference in the performance I received from the higher priced ladies and the lower priced ladies. So let's be honest, who is really there for the incalls.

I will admit some of the providers don't set the atmosphere as well. Some arrive and simply say "Let's F". But when the clothes come off ... there was little difference in their performance. If the above things don't matter, you can have a great time.

To the person who said something to affect about bottom feeding I would say most ladies started out with lower fees and then raised them. There are some that I have seen for years that for whatever reason choose not to raise their fees. I believe your statement is demeaning. In addition, there are excellent providers who simply charge lower fees yet still provide a quality service. If one is willing to do their homework and find them it is to their benefit.

All of this said, if a lady raises her fees and is successful, great. I have no qualms with that because it is free enterprise at its best.

If it matters, I have written over three times  as many reviews as you currently show but I quit writing reviews a year or so ago.

With regard to aliases, the arguments are age old I simply enjoy using them and as long as TER allows them, I will continue to do so. In fact, I am better known by one of my other aliases than my regular user name.

With regard to your other comments, I am in total agreement.