Looking at a thread below on clientele issues between the ladies, I am seeing a lot of blackmail and extortion mentioned.  

So many great ladies and hobbyists thank god those types arent the majority..
TER people seem to be very respectful..  
just my 2 cents

If you do your homework right you have nothing to fear.  And why would you ever give her your real personal information?
I understand some women require it and, most of the time, they are legit and would never misuse it.  But if she insists on it despite knowing my handle, my P411 and Date-Check profiles and everything else, I'll just move on.  Lots of other Land Tuna.

...land shark.

encounted a lot of harassment when I worked on the outside.

Do you mean the same people who are quoted on the talking head shows ("people are saying they love pina coladas and getting caught in the rain") or the people who we don't know but think we know ("people are strange when you're a stranger") or are you just hyper extrapolating from one post to make overwrought and scary assumptions ("people on this board are having rampant BBFS")?

There are a lot to choose from in all categories. I probably read the wrong part of TER when just starting out. It's unnerving but probably the minority. At least I hope.

I tell them "dont get to comfortable" I have a nice home (So Calif). This is all pay for fucking, period. Had a girl come to my home, while the SO was out of town and she liked what she saw.  To bad , she was there to provide, not fall in love. My home, my truck, my freedom,wont even marry the SO but I will tap that ass of yours, pay you, end f conversation. NO NESTERS

Do your homework as is advised by many guys here!!!

but I'm hoping you're naïve enough to think they don't happen-EVER.

Even the women. I would be surprised after the detail put into that discussion that the people are pulling a leg.  

There are some guys who have been P4P for 40+ years and have never run into that crap.

There's fire. Imagine how much is going on that we don't know about because they are being held *accountable so to speak.

There's bad apples in all walks of life.  Recognizing them is fairly easy for many people...those that can't recognize them become easy marks.

being cool.



Steph

Even being on Tardwell's list isn't enough to make you uncool.  Just watch your step. LOL

But I know I'm good with being on this list.

shame shame shame on me!

We are particular...so these gals will be replaced each week with equally hot ones.

Simply deplorable! But, fortunately, I know a guy who, for a small price, will see to it that such atrocities will never befall you. Do you want me to send him around?

Bring a gal to a home you share with SO? Genius.  

Ohhhh no I didn't make the cut-LMAO!

How about a special "old broad" cheerleading squad?



Steph

The chicken little fable? Not sure how else to classify this. Lol.

I enjoy the ladies I have seen.  I have always had a good time and felt like I got more than my money's worth.  I have experienced fantasies that I would not have been able to outside of P4P.

not sure which thread you are talking about, but when something (hobby or job) is not being fun anymore, maybe it's time to move onto something else.

Bozo T. Clown mis-spelled your name and didn't capitalize the S.  So now you're even.

Me too and obviously you get the phrase and hear Patti say it all the time!

That makes it all more the reason why blacklist sites are stupid. Add on... blacklists depresses people like the Rifleman.

and my home I understand but doesn't "My truck" sound a bit redneck? I know California has no shortage of "goat ropers" but most of them are in the Central Valley, not in "So Cal" lol

They've got a great dentist!

After all, you really like older women. :

who falls over heels for a provider. Making providers their ATF’s and spewing all your personal shit. There is wonderful book called “Managing your Mouth”. It is good read for 99% of folks here

I love the new gay guy!
The cute straight guy, not so much! I agree he has no personality!