is most blackmail victims never come forward, most of the victims of blackmail where it comes to hooker/john type situations are running scared, and it they are TER members they close their accounts and are rarely ever heard from again.

I do recall a couple of victims posting here who were being blackmailed by BSC hookers who were threatening to out them to their wives/boss etc, The few that I recall ever posting about it were scared shitless and remarked that they would not be posting, hobbying or anything of the kind for a very long time.

That's the beauty about living ones life in the open, it makes you blackmail proof. I would love for someone to attempt to blackmail me, I can't think of a thing that anyone could threaten me with.