What are some of the current blacklists that providers use and how do you find out if you have been blacklisted?  The only one I am aware of is Mr. Number. Not fearful, only curious.

the point of black/block lists are to allow providers to share information to keep the community as safe as possible. Publicly discussing the means, methods, modes, and platforms that we use to report client information whether good, bad, or ugly isn't something we are really do or should be doing at all.

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A lot of names that get added on to the Blacklists, are for childish reasons like the provider not liking what the monger posted, or she geting into argument with  him over the discussion board, or because he wrote a harsh review..  

If you didn't know, lots of clients already have access to the majority of Blacklists.
It's not like it's some DoD, classified, top secret list.

that a plethora of clients know about some of the BLs and it's not DoD level type things. However, there are some lists that clients know nothing about and/or don't have the credentials to get into. FYI...

it can be hacked by SOMEONE.  You should not speak in absolutes.  There are always exceptions.  

I assume that blacklists are for physically abusive, unclean, or cheating clients. Because I don't fall into these categories, I have never given it much thought.  

Lol...you seem very nieve to the world.
EVERYTHING is obtainable.
Pay a desperate hooker with an online presents a few hundred, she will make you a login for very service you want ... because they truly only care about the money.

“so far as (you) know.” That’s just it—you DON’T know. And blacklists aren’t just for “physically abusive, unclean, or cheating clients”. They’re for whatever reason the provider chooses. Those reported have no recourse.  

I've heard of them and it's true it's not difficult to get access to them. I have enough trusted connections that have shared what information is out there pertaining to me. Enough said.

True…I’ve seen people make the lists for things I wouldn’t BL someone for. I’ve also read reviews that aren’t true or are rated harshly for silly reasons, and we all know about clients messaging each other about providers behind the scenes. So I guess, at the end of the day we all proceed with caution and common sense (hopefully)

Instead of asking for access to the blacklist shouldn’t you be asking for tips to avoiding the blacklist. You only have to worry about being on the blacklist if you treat providers like an Assclown (Just Curious… my ass) True some providers might arbitrarily list, but I’m certain that is the minority, and just like us, when viewing reports the ladies know to eliminate BSC reviews and instead create a clear picture by diligently trusting multiple bad reviews, which I’m certain you probably have plenty. Stay well and stay off the black list…why don’t ya?

If you always get a positive response every time you reach out to a provider for a session, then it’s unlikely you’re on a blacklist. But that’s not what the post to which I replied was about.

It was easy to access and it was interesting to see who was blacklisted and the reason why. I was on that Blacklisted. I saw my name there and got a kick out of who submitted it and why....psycho bitch.

I'm sure that is true and I am also fairly confident that not all providers are given access to some blacklist sites for those very reasons. Which then kind of begs the question: Are those providers ones I really want to see -- even if just to get a logon to sites?

Anybody could go on it and BL anybody else. For a while there was a war going on here with some of us posting BLs of other guys. Even TER got involved, though I forget the details. It finally got so bad NBL had to shut down. What a cluster-fuck.

I have enough current and former providers who are also friends that I am reasonably sure I would know if someone put me on a blacklist unless a provider friend cleared it up on her own (however one does that).  I assume that any credible blacklist would result in problems booking appointments which has never been an issue for me.

Hello,

Very true. Well alot of providers lie and blacklist good clients for and then make up absurd stories so it's a he said she said. The blacklists are not always true. Not saying all providers are doing that kind of schemes but some providers do make up lies on the blacklist not stating everything or leaving things out.

I agree.
I've seen names blacklisted because "he inquired about an appointment and I never heard back.  He's a time waster "  stupid shit like that.  That's not blacklisting, that's just being g petty

Some women have them confused with Do Not See lists and when they say they'll BL you they actually mean put you on their DNS list.

Exactly some of these providers are Karen. Again not saying all are a Karen but those few that are rotten and entitled make the good one's look bad and it's so sad. Blacklist aren't have no 100 percent integrity now because the providers who are shady lie so much making the Blacklist lose it's integrity then they want to play victim like she didn't do anything wrong not stating everything the whole story. What about fake pictures? What about stealing deposits?

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I do not condone giving out free information about my clientele to any site it’s supposed to be private & then they have the audacity to charge us to view the list it’s ridiculous. I do not care about a blacklist. I do my own safety & screen checks. People lie.

Huh? You don't like informing other providers about terrible clients you have come in contact with?
Wtf!!

Yes, some guyse are listed on a blacklist  (flakes, timewaster, abusive guys, and so on) It is getting more strange/ dangerous  out there - so we have to be safe -  what kind of guy we open the door ...  but it should be not your concern if you are a good guy, a nice guy, and treat a provider with respect and so on... and yes - some guys are pissed at some provider - if she places a guy on a blacklist - some guys are writing bad reviews as punishment to blacklist a guy! don't be fearful - enjoy the companion ship of a female provider and treat her nice

It’s subjective. Many providers may have a grudge against a customer. If you as a provider do your due diligence and provide your own research and feel comfortable what the hell is wrong with that ?

...because I think this has definitely happened to me. Over the last several weeks I have gotten legitimate declines from providers, outright, with no explanation, even though I've asked politely. I have absolutely no idea why I would be blacklisted, I am always prompt, showered, fresh breath, trimmed nails, the works. Is there any way to know why this might be for me? It's frustrating me beyond belief because as I posted in another thread I have seen some seriously reputable providers in the last 1-2 months including Ramona Ryder (who even whitelisted me here) and Katherine Taylor and Grace Harlowe: so why would they see me and not others? I'm just looking for guidance or advice.

In reality, a lot of time its not really a "blacklist". It's a "I didn't like this guy list"