....and I kinda deserved it, and kinda not. It was a ways back, and no matter how you cut it, I pulled a NCNS so she was right to put me there and the reasons ultimately don't matter. This is a black and white business.
It has never cost me a single date, and it just doesn't (anymore) bother me in the least. I ultimately fucked up one morning and got what I deserved, had always handled my business like the perfect gentleman before that day and have done so every day since. It has never cost me a date, I have never reached out to a lady and been rejected. Could it still happen? Of course, and the reason for the NCNS was so personal, and you people know I have no problem being open and sharing shit here, but it was so personal that I would rather have a lady say no and pass judgement than share something that personal with a women I don't know and trust. I just very recently shared that story with a provider for the first time not because she asked about it, but because it tied into an emotional matter that I had always wanted to resolve and I knew she would be helpful and keep it to herself.
So, my point would be that if it has happened to you and you deserved it then continue to handle your business as a professional as you presumably did before that day, and if you are on that list and don't deserve it then reach out to her and try to resolve the matter. It might work and it may not. Some guys are dicks. Some ladies are bitches. It is always better to know who they are anyway.
Just be the same good person that you have presumably always been and it all works out just fine.
This has been your Stuart Smalley "positive affirmation" moment for Thursday, April 4th, 2013
