Why do some clients ask for bareback sex?Aren't you worried about disease?I'm not saying all providers have a disease,but These women go through hundreds of men in a month so why would you want to risk your health for something that will only last a few minutes...
Any thoughts to this?

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revile the practice of Bare Back and out the practitioners of it. I think the vast majority of clients want to be safe and do NOT seek out BB.

... and from the male perspective... Why would I want to fuck with a condom on?

Not everyone posts or even lurks here on a daily basis, so I don't expect you to know that this topic gets brought up one way or another pretty frequently.  
But it does.  
Your questions read as though you're looking for clients' responses, but I'll go ahead and respond anyway, based upon my own experience.  

phone sex date ... you are one funny mama. Let's say around, oh .... noonish? Very refreshing. Some filter. lol

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Not everyone posts or even lurks here on a daily basis, so I don't expect you to know that this topic gets brought up one way or another pretty frequently.    
 But it does.    
 Your questions read as though you're looking for clients' responses, but I'll go ahead and respond anyway, based upon my own experience.    
   

Posted By: LondonBay

Why do some clients ask for bareback sex?

   
 The simple answer here is that they're just plain foolish lol.  But some guys have difficulty staying hard, let alone finishing, with a condom.  It might be a real physical thing, but it can be a mental thing too.    
   

Posted By: LondonBay

Aren't you worried about disease?

   
 P4P is a risk versus reward thing no matter how many safety precautions one uses.  To these guys, it is worth it.    
 Or they're just not thinking with the "big head".    
   

Posted By: LondonBay

I'm not saying all providers have a disease,but These women go through hundreds of men in a month so why would you want to risk your health for something that will only last a few minutes...  
 

   
 Are you speaking for yourself?  Because I personally don't know any providers who "go through hundreds of men in a month" lol.   Hell, even if I were working 5-6 days a week, seeing my personal maximum every day with no repeat visitors, I still wouldn't have gone through even one hundred men in a month lol.    
 Sure, some ladies do get enough business, and have both the physical & emotional stamina to reach into the hundreds and great for them!! I just don't think it's most ladies.  
   
   

Posted By: LondonBay

 
  Any thoughts to this?  
 

   
 There will always be men who ask, demand, and even beg for BBFS.  Guys who will show up with their paperwork to "prove" how clean they are, and/or offer big bucks for it. Then there are the predators who will either try to sneak the condom off without you noticing, or deliberately attempt to break it mid-stroke with the thought that you won't notice.  
   
 Don't ask why, you'll only make yourself crazy.  Trust me on that one.    
   
 xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxo  
 

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I've had some ask if they can rub the tip hahaha!  

I'll bring the brie and grapes....

follow their immediate urges for gratification regardless of consequences. And don't underestimate the level of ignorance and stupidity in this world; people who think they can "see" if someone else is "clean" or who think you can only catch HIV under a full moon.

show some folks with extremely skewed visions of the world...they, of course, want bareback because "it" will never happen to them...

What I'm saying is guys bring these without us ladies asking for them.  

BBBJ, DATY, DATO, FIV, FIA....could all result in the transmission of STIs. Heck, even DFK could do you in. Basically, the whole GFE is wrought with risk. Sure, BBFS is *riskier* but it feels like we're all in a bit of denial about being safe.  

Lol Ok so I'm guessing you had that happen to you before Debbie since you're implying it.You should pay attention next time so it doesn't happen again.Don't ever let a guy take the condom off without you noticing.Unless you like that?That's never happened to me before.shit if you're behind me I'm keeping my hand back there right along with you lol.Also,I may be new to the game but I was taught how to play it the right way

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Not everyone posts or even lurks here on a daily basis, so I don't expect you to know that this topic gets brought up one way or another pretty frequently.    
 But it does.    
 Your questions read as though you're looking for clients' responses, but I'll go ahead and respond anyway, based upon my own experience.    
   

Posted By: LondonBay

Why do some clients ask for bareback sex?

   
 The simple answer here is that they're just plain foolish lol.  But some guys have difficulty staying hard, let alone finishing, with a condom.  It might be a real physical thing, but it can be a mental thing too.    
   

Posted By: LondonBay

Aren't you worried about disease?

   
 P4P is a risk versus reward thing no matter how many safety precautions one uses.  To these guys, it is worth it.    
 Or they're just not thinking with the "big head".    
   

Posted By: LondonBay

I'm not saying all providers have a disease,but These women go through hundreds of men in a month so why would you want to risk your health for something that will only last a few minutes...  
 

   
 Are you speaking for yourself?  Because I personally don't know any providers who "go through hundreds of men in a month" lol.   Hell, even if I were working 5-6 days a week, seeing my personal maximum every day with no repeat visitors, I still wouldn't have gone through even one hundred men in a month lol.    
 Sure, some ladies do get enough business, and have both the physical & emotional stamina to reach into the hundreds and great for them!! I just don't think it's most ladies.  
   
   

Posted By: LondonBay

 
  Any thoughts to this?  
 

   
 There will always be men who ask, demand, and even beg for BBFS.  Guys who will show up with their paperwork to "prove" how clean they are, and/or offer big bucks for it. Then there are the predators who will either try to sneak the condom off without you noticing, or deliberately attempt to break it mid-stroke with the thought that you won't notice.  
   
 Don't ask why, you'll only make yourself crazy.  Trust me on that one.    
   
 xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxo  
 

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Not really true - with the exception of HIV. But carry on believing what you wish.

....."What do men prefer most, shaved, trimmed, or full bush".  It has been a while since that one has been out there. Wait for it and it will cum.  Oh, I mean come.  Damn I which I knew how to use spell chi

What you're ignoring is that oral gonorrhea, chlamydia, & syphilis are uncommon, and oral gonorrhea & chlamydia don't care for the location and sometimes will clear on their own, so from a severity standpoint, it's not the same as in the genital region.  That's why many will consider bare oral but not bare FS.  Plus, why would you not care about HIV? Yes, you can treat nowadays but who wants to be on a drug regimen for the rest of their life?

Same for the women that offer it........there is an ad on one of the boards that offers cream pies,and says she prefers no barrier......i was like WTf????  Why ANYONE would want to take their life in their hands is beyond me.....no thanks!!!!  

Seriously?!  

What's the sentence for first-degree attempted humor?

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I don't offer bareback AT ALL but I hate female condoms I don't feel a thing. So yup there's not much moaning in that session. It is what it is I guess, after all if I have an itch I'm sure they'll be many suitors that will scratch it. One female condom session won't kill me.

I'm sure I will at some time but I'm enthralled by the feminine form .... every detail, every fold, everything visual so I question how I'd feel looking down when I'm sliding in or pulling out only to see ... the bag and rim? I think!  

maybe the providers the op sees all see hundreds of men a month.  

I like female condoms as an option for threesomes, men who can't maintain erection with a condom no matter how thin, vag/anal back and forth play, and just something different.  You need to out in extra lube...if used properly most of the men have loved them.  There is that visual thing about seeing the rim sticking out but that is your bull's eye.   I do not like it with overweight men as they have difficulty seeing the mark making it dodgy and clumsy making sure he hit the proverbially bull's eye.  It does take some practice and getting used to but very worth the journey from my perspective.  Men describe to me that they feel as if they had bareback...as for my sensation, I probably feel a little more with a thin condom, but it is not significant enough more for me not to share just how great this can be for the man.