These type guys need to be dealt with in the harshest manner possible
I'm a bit conflicted on what to do with a situation that happened this morning. I received an email requesting to meet today. He had no references as this was his first time with a provider. He sent me his linkdin profile. He then Continued to send me explicit emails and I told him I was not the right companion for him and not comfortable meeting him. He then Went on to email me several harsh emails to the point of threatening with LE.
Is this something I would report to the blacklist?
Do I warn his local board about him?
Any advice would help!
Thanks
Xox
Most of them belong to another board ..They will continue until you retire
Part of the biz
but there is not much you can say on your regional board. I hope you keep his emails for future reference, but don't answer any more of them.... ignoring is the best revenge.
He's just pissed that you turned him down. Wanker.
(BTW- I'm sure you know that a Linkedin profile can be total bullshit. Never use that as a verification.)
No references and only a linkedin profile. I never saw him but then I found out he also contacted another girl and tried to use me as a reference. Luckily the girl checked and found out I never saw him.
Best thing to do is just ignore those guys if they become defensive or belligerent in your emails if you decline meeting them. Not worth the hassle.
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Being that he was sending you explicit messages kindly remind him that he is also guilty of soliciting prostitution and ignore the rest of his communication.
Its assholes like this that make is hard for hobbyist like me who act like a gentleman with providers.
Good luck honey and be safe!
What I do when they get nasty about it is filter their messages to spam and ignore them.
It's a good idea to warn others too.
I don't believe any gentleman should threaten any lady in any manner. Be it physical, mental, coercive, or with repercussions of any kind. Profiles on any social media are no proof of who you are or if you are safe. Don't fear his reporting you to Leo, what will he say, " I tried hiring this lady for sex and she refused me."? It may just get him in handcuffs. Stay safe, Taylor..
I've called ladies up, not offered references (although I had them at the time) and just scheduled. Once I asked why, and the lady offered that I gave off good vibes, seemed no hastle, and sounded good..... well, on other occasions I've also been asked for references, but they were not accepted (they were too long ago, although the reference remembers me, but the current lady didn't even call because she said it was too loong ago). At that point I drop it because there is no way I will enjoy the session - the lady will be anxious, and uncomfortable. why some guys insist at that point is beyond me. On the other hand I would offer:
Some guys get fixated on a quest - not even about sex, it is about checking it off the list.
Some guys feel that you, and only you will satisfy their urge (kinda spooky that one
Might be LE! but I doubt they would work that way.
Might be more sinister - careful if he brings plastic ground cloth and a couple of heavy duty garbage bags...
As to the linked in profile, anyone can fake that. I usually give my work url, picture and background are all there as well as my co-workers.
Yea, warn the local board.
I'm a newbie too and have explained my situation like a gentleman to several providers that I was interested in. I accepted their decisions not to see me like a gentleman as well. It is very difficult but I have managed to make two arrangements and accept that this takes patience. You obviously came across someone who has a problem and as such others should be warned. As far as his threats are concerned I will quote the old adage " empty barrels make the most noise". He will most likely go away and harass another provider while he arranges dates with Rosey Palmer and her five friends.
he's been know to send photos like that. lol
Got a new review after 2 years , and a 10/ 10 after the 7s and poor little you has a guy who write porn emails ? Sorry but i call BULLSHIT ! And what girl OR GUY HASNT ! Should guys whine and blacklist when a girl calls or text for lack of business ? Nice threads all the girls should self promote !
Rod u fell 4 it ! Shame on u .
And hun some new pics ? Saw those 4 years !!!!!!! L8r
I'm not sure where your getting 4 years. It's been 2 and I had my ter and ads pulled due to safety issues and a stalker I had. I had new pictures on my eros and just had new pictures done this week as well,waiting for them.Not sure why that matters or has anything to do with my issue of a guy being hostile towards me in an email. Alias is cute though.
Xoxo
Attract morons ? Not me but , and "4" = for ? Yup u dont even read ter or u would know thats how i write ! Then the "alias" gibberish , blah blah blah , no im BIB ! Nice try , ohhhhhhhh and the pics were yesterday , okay csnt wait , who took them ?????????????? Aldo ? Church ???????? Ur a trip !
Xoxo
What classy girls do .
Okay get todays paper take some new pics and post them tomorrow , then we'll vote in that 10/10 issue . Girks you gitra love them .
Now id see u but devin would get jealous , yeah she likes me . Yup i can tell tgese things . Wtf is it wuth jesesey and the name taylor, the fucking pigmey cousin of nyc !
What? You make absolutely 0 sense
Lets see what the next 6 guys give u , even if it takes another 2 years to get them !
U want me dont U xoxo , yeah i have that affect on women , ur not a fugly r u ? Oh and im not doing that daty crap , use your vibrator ! Boy u sure got alot of reads so your welcome ! And i want to see those pics within a week , l8r.
When I make that first contact with a lady I'd like to meet, I point them at ways to find out about me on the net that are not self-generated content. I have just enough of a "footprint" on the 'net that I can be "found" (compete with photo) on "third party" sites.
Don't sweat it Taylor, you did the right thing.
Spotm us U ! Or ter or 411 to check , u serious ?
Don't sweat it Taylor, you did the right thing.
I don't "give them my photos". I tell them where a couple of totally G-rated photos of me can be found.
And I only see frequently-reviewed TER indies. It's the "wisdom of crowds" thing: If the girl is active and has a rep she'd like to maintain, she's not gonna screw me over.
Not quite sure what is SPOTM about this--been actively hobbying for like four years now, never had a problem of any kind. What am I missing?
If he didn't pass your screening there is no need to reply, especially after you were cordial enough to
tell him no .
Thanks to caller ID ,when someone calls me I don't care to talk to , I don't answer my phone .
Sooner or later they go away .
There is nothing gained trying to reason with a looney tune .
Is this something I would report to the blacklist?
Do I warn his local board about him?
Any advice would help!
Thanks
Xoxo
These type guys need to be dealt with in the harshest manner possible
Anyone dumb enough to give you his real info (so called) and then make threats of LE, is a fkin moron. He proved why we require screening.
Is this something I would report to the blacklist?
Do I warn his local board about him?
Any advice would help!
Thanks
Xoxo
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