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vinman108 4 Reviews 1988 reads
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I was told by a agency I used 2005 and twice in the last 10 days that I was on a blacklist.  What is this list and if I am on it why did the agency send 2 girls in the last 10 days and will continue to do business with me.  Please pm me with any info about this list and if someone can confirm if there is such a list.  Thanks

dickus1110 reads

There may be a "blacklist" and you may be on it, if there is one, but is it possible that this agency is merely trying to channel all your business to it?

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BoneWolf2169 reads

Or that indeed there is a blacklist, and they do not observe it?

Hobby McCarthyism?  My guess would be sometime in the past an agency provider reported a very unfavorable [to her] experience with you, and this information spread by one means or another, into an "informal" blacklist?

It would be very interesting to learn of others being told something similar.

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Bostonguy57777 reads

There are blacklists of all kinds in the hobby. Some are as simple as a list of no-show cell phone numbers. Agencies and indies don't like to talk about them as they don't want you to know that records are being kept. The agency may have seen you in spite of your listing simply because they don't feel that whomever else blacklisted you has any credibility.

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DFWSophie1746 reads

That could very well be.  And as posted, some girls will put you on the list for NC/NS, rude email, etc.  Hell Ive seen people listed for writing an unfavorable review..which, is nothing but petty if you ask me.

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buckeye-kev1399 reads

But I've been told by a high profile provider that there is a local blacklist of sorts.  There are a few boards for area providers where they post on problem clients or appts.  So that makes up an informal blacklist.

She was telling me that another provider posted a very bad report on one of her regulars.  In it the provider lied about numerous things that she knew for a fact were not true.  Some physical things and acts that she knew just didn't jibe with her numerous appts and dealings with the guy.  So she demanded the girl take it all back and retract - which she did.  I'm not sure why the lying provider was trying to blackball the guy ( maybe he inadvertently insulted her or she just didn't like him for some reason - she told me he was into a few fetishes so maybe one of them struck a nerve or something ).

Point being that in the story she told me it was clear many locals pay attention to this blacklist.

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zorbaelgreeko434 reads

HE wrote an untrue review of her so this is her way of getting back. If that is the case then I wouldnt blame her. I have heard that there are quite a few blacklists (including the national blacklist) and chances are if you are on one then you are probably on others that you don't know about. Seems like providers are definitely trying to protect each other, Maybe not so good for us guys, but I still think they are wise to report on ALL the blacklists the problem guys. Like Buckeye-kev I have heard of local as well as the national blacklist,ones that we will  never have access to or know we are on them.

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Mary O Malley732 reads

of any formal blacklist.  When asking for references, we ladies do let others know if a gent has gotten rough or left bruises or such.  If it gets around to the indpendents in your area, I guess they could call it a blacklist.  

However, I agree with dickus.  It sounds more like they want you to think they have the only providers in town who will see you.  Sounds like its working, too since you keep calling them back.

Just my .02.

Related Link: http://www.ohhmary.com

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followme1013 reads

A site that has or is a black list site. I just do not remember the url, you know that does happen to us 30+ folks. (ok ok in my case it is 30 + + + + +)
If a guy leaves bursies or is rough in any way, or disrespectful,  the ladies need to know to keep awat from him.

I however would never worry about being put on a ny list of that sort I'm just a gentle cuddly snuggly guy, however one gal once said she did feel a little prick........

Thank You
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Forrest G. Hump1005 reads

http://www.nationalblacklist.com

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zinaval522 reads


There are many ways ladies have of back-channeling.  They are of limited effectiveness, of course, because it's your word against hers, but it is the same idea as a review board, turned around.  

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MacyMadison698 reads

Another well known provider and myself both WHITE listed this gent in the past on this very site. Seems to me like this agency is playing dirty. They aren't "doing you a favor" by taking you in dear! -Macy :)

Related Link: http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=64677

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