Your's are invariably "on topic" and although they might bore me to tears after the first three or four hundred words, lol Your posts are fine.

My post refers to those posters who add nothing of value to the board and continually try to "get into the psyche" of both hobbyists and providers, I can only guess to see "what makes us tick?"

There are a couple of repeat offenders that up until now I have given the BOD that their posts were close enough to "on topic" and allowed their posts, that benefit of the doubt has now been used up, and if the aforementioned abusers of my patience don't stay completely "on topic" their posts will never see the light of day, except on days that I am "under the influence" on which I might allow the posts, but I will encourage Blagoo, Jack_Schitt and the rest of the "asshole contingent" to throw rotten vegetables at the poster until he/she cries for mercy. lol

A Nietzschean perspective

Would be simply that my desire to bed a lady was an expression of my Will to Power. As I am a believer in manifesting the SuperMan through a process of continuous Self-Overcoming, it might be seen that in the process of sex with a provider I am becoming greater than I was before.

That's so much more preferable than believing that Freudian crap about how we're trying to crawl back into our mother's womb after killing dad. LOL

That great pessimistic philosopher, Schopenhauer, had an interesting perspective on the fairer sex, however that might lead one to see engaging a woman for pleasure as far from uplifting and rather an invitation to trouble given his view of the perspectives of women as being contrary to justice.

a simple comment is just that..
no need to get anyone panties in a wad
Peace

-- Modified on 11/3/2010 1:26:43 PM

While I don't believe it affects all demographics of hobbyists equally, I think that when providers "bitch and whine" -- particularly over matters well within their control -- I believe this decreases the amount that at least some demographics of hobbyists are willing to pay for their services overall because it severely compromises the capacity of some hobbyists to suspend disbelief.

If you knew 100% that a provider hated your guts just for existing -- how much would you pay her? Zero if you have any self respect. What if you saw the odds as 80%? 60%? 40%? 10%? The greater you believe the odds that she is an actress who secretly views you with contempt, the lower the ceiling on what you are willing to pay -- particularly someone you don't already know.

Certainly, there are guys that are just so addicted they'll bankrupt themselves on anyone who will have them. And then there are those who are so self-centric that they can't imagine anyone not loving them. But in between lies a demographic of hobbyists whose buying patterns WILL be affected by bitching and whining; and that affect will be to reduce the amount of money they are willing to pay a not-before-seen woman on speculation that she isn't one of those who is secretly contemptuous.

And this puts a downward pressure on prices.

Thus, I think bitching and whining, especially regarding things over which providers ultimately have control, should be widely encouraged.