I am a provider and I am frequently asked if I like girls. I guess there is just something about my look which gives it away, because boy do I EVER.
I have also heard that a great many providers are actually bi, or lesbian.  Yet it seems very few providers feel comfortable admitting this.  So I guess my questions are: Is this lesbian/bi provider story a mythology about the biz? Do providers feel that liking girls would be bad for bizniss? Is it just too personal to discuss?  Are there clients who would dig getting it from a bona-fide lesbian? What are your thoughts y'all?

Do you run into a lot of providers who deny being bi/lez? I've never heard of this, but I'm a client.

In my experience, providers have no reason to hide their preferences.  The providers I see aren't going to be coerced into doing anything they don't want to do.  In fact, being bi, and suggesting a 2-girl session if possible should be great for business. I've seen providers who do 2-girl sessions who are not bi - you can tell because they never touch each other the whole time.

If there are lesbian providers pretending to be straight, I can't even imagine how that must feel.  There must be a market for lez providers/clients, no?

Would I would love be with a lesbian?  Would the service be any different? I guess so, but only if she wants to, not just because she needs the money.  There is nothing more uncomfortable than being with someone who finds you repulsive.

Oh Kay~ So I have never marketed myself as "bi" because I would invariably get the question...do you know or have any friends who do this??? The question is yes and no...yes I have friends in other cities who are providers but NO I do not have a girl here whom I work with. I wish I did because that would be HOTTTTT. I am totally bi...Love men but my SO is a woman...and god is she fine. Yes I would love to have a girl who I was attracted to that I could "work" with but no I have never hidden the fact that I am bi and love the taste of P****.

My one and only threesome with providers was with two that were hugely bi, which is what I wanted. One of the girls I knew and had seen several times, the other I only knew of. I witnessed my 'regular' cum harder at the hands of the other girl than I had ever seen her do, or any other provider before or since, for that matter. It was a real moment, one that I'll never forget. They were so into each other during my time with them, I actually took a breather and they kept right on rollin as if I had never left. DATY, double dongs, strap ons, the whole enchilada. I would never consider doing a threesome with two providers who were not bi and genuinely into each other, but that is just my preference.

Interestingly, last week I was with another provider who mentioned in passing that the only way to get her to eat pussy was to write her a HUGE check for it. This is a girl with almost no other restrictions, she's horny as hell and into everything. I thought it was interesting how turned off she was by the thought of oral sex with another woman...

NSF

If your comment about doing 2 women who were not bi was directed at me, perhaps I should explain.  I did not know they weren't bi until the session itself.  They advertised as a duo so why would I think any different?   Non-bi, 2-girl providers are more prevalent than I thought they would be.

Trust me, I'm not one of those clients who insist on trying to make women do things they don't want to.  I get no pleasure out of making women uncomfortable.

well how many straight men would have oral sex with another man?? it's always amazed me how many men seem to be surprised that a straight woman is revolted at the thought of sex with another woman. if that's not how we're wired, the mere thought is going to gross us out.

personally i'm 100% hetero, and there is no amount of money that could make me engage in sexual activity with another woman.

Part of it can be blamed on porn.  How many women porn stars don't do other women?  From this, men unfairly extrapolate that every woman who is sexually open MUST want to be with other women.

We men need to re-examine our assumptions.

Here is a girl who would let me fuck her up the ass in a thousand different positions then pull out, rip the condom off, cum all over her face, then let me draw pictures in it (not that I did that), but was completely revolted by the mere thought of eating another womans pussy. Interesting and surprising to me, that's all.

As for the statement that no amount of money could make you have sex with another woman...Well, you are either very rich, very short sighted or posses a moral compass that far exceeds your peers.

NSF

NSF, i'm still not understanding why her disgust caught you off guard. as the previous poster pointed out, sexually open does not = bisexual. there are all manner of nasty and perverse things i'd happily do with and for a MAN. throw another woman into the equation, and you're talking about an altogether different beast.

i would like to say that the sole reason no amount of money could make me do something so completely against all i am had to do with personal morals...and although that's certainly a big chunk of it, an even bigger chunk is the simple, plain fact that it would just be too disgusting for me to even fathom going through with it.

let me ask you this, is there a dollar amount which would tempt you to have sex with another man (assuming you are hetero)?

dragonfly. mainstream porn has created so many ridiculous stereotypes about women in general, the "all chicks must be bi" thing being the biggest and most infuriating.

I am constantly facinated by the range of sexual tastes.

Some women will do almost anything but kiss; others will suck your tongue down if they could, but can't stand the thought of an uncovered cock touching their body.

To each their own, it's what keeps this hobby so interesting.

"is there a dollar amount which would tempt you to have sex with another man (assuming you are hetero)?"

Absolutely, and yes, I am hetero. It's also interesting that you find these assumptions that all of you are Bi, "infuriating". What is the big deal? You are a HOOKER, why would that question be so infuriating? Say you are not interested, for any amount of money, and move on. The nature of your profession invites questions of this nature and it is your right to turn it down. I, on the other hand am probably never going to have my morals tested in such a way, but I applaud you for holding your ground.

NSF

many of those don't really get into it.  In other words, they say they are to get more dates and get their friend envolved, but when it comes right down to it...they are not too enthusiastic.  Fortunately, I have found some exceptions to that rule.  It is really disappointing to have that kinda letdown because it is a major fantasy for a lot of guys to have a threesome with two really bisexual women. Before TER it was a real problem. Especially with the fees involved for that kind of fantasy you want someone to really deliver what they promised.  I did do a threesome with a girlfriend and a lesbian provider because my gf wanted to experience that and it was hot..the lesbian did pay a little attention to me while my gf was doing her....interesting evening.

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