Hobbyists feel free to add your opinions as well.
How much influence can the guy have on the quality of the session/service he recieves? Like will DATY get you better service? Or does the appearance, body type, age, or penis size of the guy matter? In other words if you are attracted to the guy who shows up at your door or he goes the extra mile for you will you go the extra mile for him? Or will a good provider go the extra mile in for everyone to get repeat business and good reviews?

cleanliness, courtesy and cash.

I am not a provider; but as a hobbyist who has NEVER had a below-par session, and has ALWAYS been invited back; I may have something to contribute that you may find surprising.

Treat her with kindness and respect. Treat her like a cherished girlfriend.

That's it. The whole story. That's all it takes.

You can be shitty in the sack, hung like a mouse, etc. And if you treat her with kindness and respect, everything will go great. She's providing a service, not looking for a lover. SO your qualifications as a lover are not the major factor. (Though I am sure it won't hurt if you are handsome, rich, single and the most skilled lover in the world.)

Show up clean enough to eat or take a shower when you first arrive. Pay the correct amount plus maybe a little extra. In all respects, show kindness, gentleness and respect.

If you treat a woman like she's a "piece of ass for pay" then that's exactly what you'll get. GiGo. Treat her like a cherished girlfriend, and you get something altogether more.

If you are looking for a "girl friend experience" then it makes sense to treat her as you would a girlfriend during that paid time. Yes?

Well said!

Great service....however when I am having Fun...just imagine how much More Fun You Will have...afterall it is All about You

i agree.. very well said

I agree...I'm new at the hobby but sure like the way it was put.

Aileysalley...you sound delightful.  I always want to treat every person nicely.  That way we both enjoy the time.

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what she enjoys to give as well as receive for pleasure.  I find that, when a total stranger comes to visit for an hour, if the homework is done ahead of time, a lot of headway can be made, and more of it (less time guessing, more time doing).

My sessions are always best for both parties if the client has done homework, and I have read reviews that the clients write to get a feel for them, as well...that's why we have this board.  

It works!

then it makes sense to treat her as you would a girlfriend during that paid time. Yes?"


I agree with everything you say---with one, perhaps, subtle difference…..


First, to the OP: this is not about you getting better service if you provide DATY. It’s not about your body type, age, penis size (please. Guys… with the penis size already….).

Not to kill anyone’s dreams…..but… the first time I treat a provider like a GF, I’m probably gonna run into trouble.

What happens when I show up to meet a provider, 30 minutes late despite my best efforts, still on a business call, holding her dry cleaning and a bag of groceries (which I didn’t forget---this time), but no envelope, tired, stressed out, and expecting to lounge around for a few hrs having a glass of wine and cooking dinner before heading off to the boudoir---or, maybe I just fall asleep on the couch halfway through the movie, and figure I'll pick this up in the morning?

Of course, absolutely, unequivocally, you should be kind and respectful. And treating a provider like a "piece of ass for pay" is sure to backfire (not to mention rude, disrespectful, ugly, and plain unnecessary………)

Enjoy a provider taking good care of you. Treat her well. Have fun. She is your lover for that moment. No expectations. That is the point.  

And when you get home, your cherished GF will still expect you to take out the trash, and pick-up your underwear

I thnk the most important thing in this business is respect.  I know for me I won't even consider a new client when he is disrespectful.  You can tell in any conversation with a potential client if he has respect or not.  So as far as the quality of session my client recieves when in my presence, I do the best I can to make sure my client is happy.  If he is a respectful gentleman he will definitley get what he came for xoxo

I agree about treating the provider like she is a human being!!! and a cherished human being!!!!   they are providing a service and need a little repect as well as kindness.   A GFE experience should be something to have fun with, have a warm feeling and something fulfilling for both parties.    

It's large enough that I can grab it when I need to pee, and short enough that it never drags on the ground.

I Will have the Pleasure of Pleasuring You

Nothing is more of a turn off than bad manners or lack of respect. Hygiene is next. I'm not really into looks. A guy who looks like Jabba the Hutt who's nice is going to get to stay while an arrogant handsome guy gets the boot.

I treat everyone the same... I just ask you be clean, smell good and be respectful

I don't care about penis size or looks.... I treat every man as if he were my love for the time I am with them... a lover who needs a great massage lol!

I think actually the better looking guys I tend to get more nervous with lol so I would prefer not as good looking sometimes hahaha