It happened again. I know things can happen but probably 5 NCNS's this year alone so I am really pissed off. These ladies are so unprofessional. They usually ignore my calls but they picked it up when I use a different cell. Can I ask for cancellation fees?

dipuc

You can ask but good luck on it doing any good.  If you have already tried to give the lady time to explain herself your waisting your time here ranting.  Post it on your reginiol board or these ladies have no detterent from doing agiain.
Doc

This is what the regional boards are for.  Once they see it, they will either correct the behavior or lose business.

ask...what was going on...Your getting a NCNS once a month...that's Not Fun...and I am sorry to read it...I don't know what to tell You...except don't let it get You down...just keep it Up and read the reviews and do the research

Since you used an alias I can't tell anything about your experience level. I'm not saying that you are to blame but if I had received 5 in 5 months I'd be looking at the contact approach I was using. It could be something you are saying, or the way you are say it, that seems totally innocent to you.

NCNS's do happen, but with that frequency?  You might want to review how you are selecting ladies and what you are saying to them to see if you can find the why.

Of course, this ignores the possibility that you are just trolling for a response and having fun based on the NCNS post below.

Yes, you can ask for a cancellation fee.  In fact, I have a "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" statement on my etiquette page making clear what I will offer to you should I need to last minute cancel.  That said, you'll have about as much luck as a lady in collecting.

If this is a real situation, do a no show report on your local board so the records are there.  If you have unreliable providers in town no one will know unless you speak up.

"Of course, this ignores the possibility that you are just trolling for a response and having fun based on the NCNS post below."

At least that was my first thought, since I was predicting, to myself of course, that such a post would soon appear, based on observing such patterns in the past.

choosing well reviewed ladies who make appointments via email and only require a call on arrival for the final instructions.

If you are dealing with girls who work by phone only, you need to understand how this works -

she answers the phone only when not fucking someone.

She will invite anyone and everyone who calls her to drop on by

the first guy to call when she is actually available will get the invite to "come on down". Any succsssive arrivals will get no answer, til she's done fucking the latest to arrive.

Total waste of time.

Additionally, if you call a number of times while she's fucking someone else expecting her to answer, she will notice your multiple calls and block your number more times than not.

Again - see ladies who have their own websites, who arrange appts via email and who use the phone only for the call on arrival.

If you have had an average of 1 NCNS a month, one of two things is happening.  1.  You have gotten a bad rep with the ladies for whatever reason.  2.  You are not doing a very good job of choosing your providers.

This may be a pretty cold reply, but I suspect one or the other is true.  Especially, if using a new phone, your calls are being ignored unless you use a new number.  

You need to take a closer look at how you are dealing with the ladies, my friend.

Swim

You set an appointment 3 hours later.
Girl says "Yeah, call me 30 minutes before".

Another guy calls and says I'm on my way, she books that guy, and leave you hangin.

You call and call ... and you don't get an answer.  She already got money from that guy, and don't need yours for now.

One bitch did that to me - called me later and said "I lost my phone."  Yeah, right !

but in 2 years of doing this and roughly 80 appointments i have never NEVER experienced a NCNS.

rescheduling or cancellation by me or my companion TOTAL about 5 times.

your "ask for cancellation fees" is an interesting concept. i would never have thought of it. but then my imagination is limited in ways that i find beneficial.

you need to make changes. it sounds like the problem is yours.

Had I gotten to this sooner, I'd have moved it to Atlanta, which is where it would do you more good.

I leave the house for one fuckin day, and the place goes to shit, lol.

It happens, but I have to agree that when something keeps happening to you - well, it's time to consider what you're doing wrong.

unless he names the NCNS which is not in the OP

A lively board can ferret out some pretty good info, even without him naming.  Besides, if he named her here, I'd have to move it.

Craig's List Spring Catalog to do your shopping!

mirror. one ncns can happen to anyone. if it is happening to you multiple times, the only common denominator is YOU. are you a good client? clean, good oral hygiene? a considerate lover, considerate of the particular lady's boundaries? do you look like a combination of atilla the hun and fat bastard? you have to view getting an appointment with a particular lady as a privilege a NOT a right. good luck! sail

well, where are you finding their info in the first place? that might have something to do with the quality?  do they have reviews? if so, does it mention anything about ncns in them?
My suggestion:
Do your research. Look for those providers with reputable reviews that meet your criteria (appearance/activities you'd want to do in session, etc).

best of luck to you and know that not all providers act so.