Clients, do you trust your favorite providers? Providers, do you trust your favorite clients?

What does it really mean?  People put their "trust" in a stranger, say "I do" and then 60% of the say head on over to Splitsville.  

“Trust, but verify”?  That may seem like a good answer to your question. But maybe it’s not.  I found the linked article on this subject interesting. One of the most applicable points to this topic is this, I think:

Trust is along a continuum, but actions are binary. Either we engage with the escort or we pass. There is some threshold of trust in any interaction. There is risk in every association.

Providers and clients are people and as such  there will be ones you trust and ones you dont. And w time, usually, trust builds. But just like any group of people , there will be good and bad. If anything, sharing intimacy should build trust.

Providers and clients are people and as such  there will be ones you trust and ones you dont. And w time, usually, trust builds. But just like any group of people , there will be good and bad. If anything, sharing intimacy should build trust.

But trust doesnt mean bbfs. Because i can trust you or you can trust me but if we are going bare you have to trust everyone i am with and i would have to trust everyone you are with. Not wearing a condom creates a higher level of intimacy than casual relationships are. That is why you go bare not w casual encounters or paid encounters but when you have a one on one relationship.

I trust my ATF friends.

I trust my ATF. She is a great woman and we have a good relationship with solid boundaries. We've shared more intimate secrets with each other, that could cause problems if repeated, than I have with anyone else.

TRUST  
*    Mean exactly what you say. If you say that you'll be at the Provider's location at a certain time then be there at that  
      time.

I really wasn't heading down the path of specific sexual acts. I can appreciate your sentiments and tend to agree with you, though.

T - the
R - right to
U - use
S - sex
T - toys

Most of lies/deception comes from lying/deception being favorable to the respective party. If you care about short term profits, lying/deception is excellent if dishonest/immoral tool. So for example, I'll always trust mongers over providers simply because the former don't have much incentive to lie besides maybe instances of big ego and revenge.

in a provider's future can get really expensive really fast.  Lol

I didn't mean financially. Although I did once in the past gave a provider a little start up capital when she wanted to start a salon. It worked out and I recouped 80% of my money thus far. It'll be a nice little passive income stream for me.

Don't like 9 out of 10 business startups fail?  I would assume any financial outlay like that is an act of charity rather than an investment, just based on the likely success rate.

That's because 9 out of 10 are started by idiots. Knock on wood but I've only had three failures out of 22. I was an idiot too once, and made mistakes but I worked my way through them. Now I can spot risk a mile away. The risk I took on with her (because she did a good job)  was no different than with anyone else who I start companies with. She was preparing to get a small business loan so she actually had a formal business plan, already negotiated a lease etc ect. She was better prepared than some "real" business people. I've also had other girls ask me to invest and just laughed because I knew they never truly want to get away from the "easy" money lifestyle.  

to look at it.  I'm the same with friends who ask for a loan.  In my mind, I consider it a gift.  If they pay me back, good for them keeping their word, if not, I'll write it off as helping a friend.  I helped several providers with rent during the first few months of Covid in 2020, when a lot of customers thought they would die if they saw a provider.  All but two have paid me back (no interest, but a few gave me freebies for helping them out), but I really didn't expect to see ANY of that money again at the time I decided to help them.  

I've definitely given some quick bridge loans to regular providers. None have failed to repay. My ATF is an authorized user on my amex, she only uses it for large purchases that her cards can't cover. She always asks permission first even though I've told her she doesn't need to. And she always has the cash ready to pay me same week.

Lol, I'll trust a provider who I know over a monger any day of the week. Pretty much every provider I know (and I'm sure on this board they'd agree) would prefer 20 long term regular clients over new guys all day long. Providers are more incentivized to build a relationship with you than some dude from an online forum.  

I more or less agree with your last three sentences.  

Do I trust every client I meet right off the get-go? most likely not.. but do I build trust with clients I’ve met many times and have gotten to actually know- yes.

NO!  That's why I pay her.  

I whole heartedly agree with the fake pics comment. I'd never trust a provider like that from the start. I'm just saying it's easier to trust a provider I've met than anyone from an online community.  

LOL

Even though I miss my 20s where I'd bang every chick without a condom, and somehow I managed to avoid everything. But these days idgaf if it's a provider or a chick from a nightclub. Everything gets wrapped. Even a civvie, if I think she's a super slut, I'll put a rubber on for BJ and they look at me weird lol.

So you trusted the hundreds of Asian and non-Asian girls you've seen?

I wrote as a rule number 6 on my Etiquette section:

no trust in this game

I trust I won’t wake up in a bath tub missing a kidney. It’s business

over time and experiences. If you don't trust someone physically weaker than you, naked, on their knees for you, what does it say about you?

“Trust” feels like an insufficient framework for this lifestyle. I trust people to do or not do all kinds of things, though sometimes it feels a bit more like faith than trust. It’s why I screen the way I do and am careful about maintaining professional boundaries and being clear about expectations even as relationships deepen and evolve.

Naked on their knees for me, says about me, that that scenario really turns me on.