One of my FAVS, I've seen her a few time in during my business travels in different cities, Vegas, Philly, DC this time she happens to tour my city BA, arranged to take her out for dinner and club dancing..Dinner was outstanding plenty of life stories, dancing was great, and been consuming wine like water, just played along with caution. I'm the driver. It went through past midnight, club had to close. Time to play, then this is were everything went downhill. Soon as we got out of the club, she said lets go back to my place and play. I'll fuck the shit out of you and I want you to fuck my brains out, got so excited drove like a maniac, got back quickly, but I have to assist her in and out the car seatbelts and all and her shoes and stuffs, she's completely liquored out. Got to the room staggering, straight to the shower rinse all that sweat, I have to undress her as well, and made a coffee, I thought it might help, after I dried her out, she jump in bed, while I showered, got out into the bedroom, she's out cold drunk and deep sleep and snoring...My initial move was OK, I'll catch her when she wakes up, I grab one of the room key and I left her to sober up and head back home and be with her for a morning breakfast..Twenty minutes later my mind starts to play with me, WTF what if, she nevers wake up and had an alcohol poisoning or vomits and gets suffocated, the hotel receptionist, surveilances cameras lobby and hallways. I was the last one with her, shit!, quickly made a u-turn and went back and stayed with her till morning and barely had any zzz and when she gain conciousness and use the bathroom, hangover and all she's fine. I lost all my interests. And left for work...Didn't hear anything from her all day, the only thing that irks me a bit was, she twitted  she had a blast that evening, but never mentioned anything about being with me...Her tour in BA ended and back to the Eastcoast..Took me weeks to get over it, because "she aint that cheap" and the kicker is, I handed her the envelope for her time before we went out. Is this one of those things, that shit happens and all part of the game? lick my wounds, or what?..Just sharing...

And you paid her for this disaster. LOL

The details might be a bit fuzzy so you should let her know you were disappointed and why. Throwing in the fact that you spent the night as an escort sitter wouldn't hurt. Then the ball is in her court. Based on her response you either repeat or not. That's how I would handle something like that, though opinions may vary.  

...that you had engaged in physical activities.  Did you tell her in the morning that nothing happened the night before?  If you didn't, you should and see if she offers to make it up to you.

I try to make a habit of keeping liquor scarce during dates now.

We really don't have any room for the spring semester but anything you can do to help me haggle Courts rate down a few pegs and a certain dick poster would look very favorably on that. LOL

wine flowing at dinner and then a dance club with more drinking. Even though you were driving and didn't drink that much you SAW this starting to happen and did nothing and did nothing. Is it her responsibility to keep her shit together, YEP. That being said, did it ever occur to you to cut out of the club early? Drinks were flowing freely at the club, I'm going to assume you kept buying them?

Aside from the OP that is.

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We really don't have any room for the spring semester but anything you can do to help me haggle Courts rate down a few pegs and a certain dick poster would look very favorably on that. LOL  
   
 You know out motto at Jack Dunphy University:  
   
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That sucks, really does. Good luck for next time, with her or whomever.

I really hope you didn't dislocate your shoulder, whilst patting yourself on the back.
*Yawn*

I think that's all the evidence I need as to the downward spiral of the American John, Dr. Drivel.  

Titled "How to always get a 10/10 without ever taking your clothes off"

Where is his other hand?

"Nice guys finish last".

Very well played, sir.  

I agree with a LOT of what you said here. However, I doubt she'd react to being "cut off" in the same manner you might. You say you are a professional who would never get wasted on a date, and if you did, you'd make up for it in spades. I believe that. This woman went on a paid overnight, got shitfaced, never had any play, and left town without a thank you, an apology, or an offer to make it better next time. If he'd "cut her off" he'd be here telling about a whole different, much worse train wreck.  

That if you want her to pay her debts to you- then you should not share it here - more likely as she is reading that as well and understood that you paid for just as sex worker and not appreciated here time  and company as gentlemen would.

...in 12 hours?  Jack is right, You ARE old!

If so, you have achieved the nearly impossible, and are in FatVern's league.  Can a SPOTY be next for you?

Gotta say a lot of this is on you.  You were sober and in control of the situation.  When you saw she was over-indulging AND that the night was slipping away, it was up to you to blow the whistle, call time-out, and head back to get what you really paid for.  I'd say chalk it up to experience and an expensive lesson (even though I'm sure you had a great time while you were out partying, so you did get her company for the evening).

Shit happens, I've gotten a lot of women too drunk to fuck over the years. It's a risk you take if you let (or encourage) your date to drink too much.