What a pleasant surprise. This Board has Harmony which can't necessarily be found on local Boards.
The biggest surprise which should come as no surprise is that most of us are genuine, enjoy the confort, joy and caring of another person or persons. The fact that we develop and actually look for a spark or a connection with providers and clients and that these attachments occur should only serve to strengthen and brighten our days. While this is a business, it is personal. And the best experiences are those that result in connections and frinedships and by all means a hot time.
And as one of you said - jealousy - a twinge is OK - But, please keep it only as a twinge - the Big Red Monster of Jealousy is one of the least controllable and scary emotions. I won't even get into what may cause it - but I remember it clearly as a teenager it fucked me up then. That is now a long time ago and BTW - I remember the 70's. What a wonderful world. Peace and Love to all.