Personally doesn't affect me as I am single, and the whole TER knows that..
I am sure there are some people who think about cheating on their wives every time they go to a hooker and feel guilty, while others who have just gotten numb to it. To each is own. One who feel guilty may feel so w/o the ring being present, and the ones who don't may not feel it even with the ring..
Why was the appointment uncomfortable..Lets hear about that !!!
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If you know what I mean o.O
Was his ring on the right finger?
Good point None of escorts business.Paid No strings attached business.Thank you!
You asked him to remove the ring and he refused?
I wouldn't either.
I expect married men visiting hookers don't remove their rings because there's nothing to hide (you ladies know and shouldn't care about his marital status).
Which begs the question about what your problem is
Being she used the phrase "plowed in" I would assume he tried to jam his ring finger in something lol. Of course, she may have just had an uncomfortable appt. in other ways, beyond the physical but his ring played a part... just guessing here.
If I was cheating on my husband, no way in hell I would wear my ring whilst doing it because it would be a constant reminder of the vows I made, but most men I have seen in the hobby don't seem to care about that, because most wear a ring. I would guess it is because they don't want to lose it or forget it, which would be worse.
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First, where do we leave the ring?
We don't have purses.
Our office, our car, our house? All of those have different risks of loss.
Second, as you pointed out before, women, ESP you, don't need to pay.
It makes a difference whether you're at your friend-that-touches house or an incall, even if you've seen the person before.
I'm not taking the risk of taking it off last minute, if I haven't yet, and leaving it in my pocket to lose.
And if my wife is cheating, she had better take her very expensive engagement ring off and put it in the safe, before ahe sucks some loser's cock.
Btw, who finger fukks with a ring finger? A hand then? In which case if the shoe or hand fits, wear it. Lol.
Just getting warmed up, and I did say I was only guessing lol. I can't picture the ring finger fk either, but hey... some guys use their damn toes for ass assualt during a bj, so nothing surprises me.
Was with my entire right foot. Lol.
confused with hokey pokey.
You put your right foot in,
You put your right foot out,
You put your right foot in,
And you shake it all about,
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What happens when girls split hairs about staying a "virgin" before marriage.
Wonder how that confession went. Lol.
Where finger fucking was done with the middle and ring finger, leaving the index and pinky out. Haven't done that method myself but you know if it's in porn some guys in the hobby will try it. And then of course there is 4 fingers and full fisting which would involve the ring finger. 
Are class rings or lodge rings uncomfortable?
I mean, I could see an aversion to a 4 or 5 caret stone (unintended) scraping around.
On the same subject, do you give clients points for getting a manicure before showing up? I sometimes wonder if my provider even notices. And no, I skip the polish and seldom get buffed (intended).
Or when you get a bit too cute with the bartender hoping she asks you what do you do? I didn't think so. It's the same. Just that in this society sex is overvalued as a metric for love.
So morally I don't see an issue. Feeling better about it because of taking the ring off is highly hypocritical and speaks of someone who may be quite troubled. Someone who keeps the ring has most likely gone through the process of measuring risk, possible emotional damage, overall worth and has come to the conclusion that this is something they choose to do
You are a bit naive to assume that the guy who leaves his ring on did so because of measured risks and the one who removes it is a hypocrite... neither of those scenarios make a cheater NOT a cheater, so it really does not matter. It's akin to removing the photo of your wife by the bedside when you're pathetic enough to fk a hooker in your own bed... some feel better during the act if they are not constantly looking at something that reminds them of the promises they made, and to whom. That does not make them hypocrites... it just makes them deluded, but that's the point I would guess. The man who has no problem wearing his ring is probably numb from doing it so many times, not because of 'measured risks' lol. Get real.
So, if you want to remove it, remove it. And if you don't, you don't.
Yeesh, let's not get so sappy about this. It's a symbol, that's all.
In my case, when I was married, I never wore my ring. I work in a trade with lots of machinery at times and wearing a ring can be dangerous.
Yet, one provider asked me to wear my ring when I came to see her. It got her hot. So, I decided what the heck
You should wear your cock ring?
Just sayin.
LOL
Like Mr Fisher there are legitimate reasons at work where it's best to leave it off. Been like that for years so I just put it in my wallet. If Miss Case notices it missing I just pull out of my wallet and say I had to work on a high voltage piece of machinery and didn't want to get killed.
Posted By: Case321
Like Mr Fisher there are legitimate reasons at work where it's best to leave it off. Been like that for years so I just put it in my wallet. If Miss Case notices it missing I just pull out of my wallet and say I had to work on a high voltage piece of machinery and didn't want to get killed.
Yep GOLD is an Excellent conductor for electrical current. And a ring also acts as a trap of sorts when one has to use his hands to work in very confined spaces.
And rings also get women other than the wife, hot and bothered, to the point that they want to take away what the other woman has. LOL " said with tongue in cheek of course "
Thereby, back in the day when I was married, I refused to wear the ring at work, or play, and would only agree to wear it to social functions, if the BSC wife nagged enough.
she wears one so that nobody hits on her while waiting, or checking into a room, saying her husband is delayed. Last time she had me wait a few minutes because maintenance man was taking his sweet time replacing a refrigerator, and she told the guy "better get out because my 6'2" husband is on his way up and he'd better not catch you here!" He magically got the refrigerator replaced in seconds, and the look on his face when I passed him in the hall moments later (giving him the 6'2" 245# jealous husband look) was priceless! Once together, all jewelry comes off for safety reasons.
Gay and wanting 6'2" 245 lbs of loving in his ass ! This is ridiculous , most of the posts lately are ridiculous ! And taking the ring off for "safety reasons" ? Yeah wait till you can't find it , then you'll need a bullet proof vest and a good lawyer !
Oh the response ? Back at ya for my 28 to 35 answer ! And yes 28 to 35 is my ball field , old ladies can be had at those buffet places and I don't eat there !
Posted By: Dave76015
she wears one so that nobody hits on her while waiting, or checking into a room, saying her husband is delayed. Last time she had me wait a few minutes because maintenance man was taking his sweet time replacing a refrigerator, and she told the guy "better get out because my 6'2" husband is on his way up and he'd better not catch you here!" He magically got the refrigerator replaced in seconds, and the look on his face when I passed him in the hall moments later (giving him the 6'2" 245# jealous husband look) was priceless! Once together, all jewelry comes off for safety reasons.
rings go on the car key chain, figured that one out early on after a scare.
"safety" means no scratches, no getting hit upside the head with a hunk of metal.
Agree with you 100% on the BP Vest and lawyer in case of serious fuck up.
It's as arbitrary as giving someone a collar to commemorate a ritual.
Posted By: Cosette
It's as arbitrary as giving someone a collar to commemorate a ritual.
but during the sporadic, hit & miss hobbying prior to it and TER I would leave my ring ON simply because there was little chance of losing, misplacing, or forgetting to put it back on before arriving home. And YES; it did "give me pause" on more than one occasion. But I early concluded that the moral consternation felt watching my ring finger and wedding band disappear into another woman's vagina was far more agreeable than the easily foreseeable explanations needed for it not being on my finger or lost altogether with the subsequent replacement cost pending.
Posted By: Sooo...YouWanna
Why do you leave yours on? And does it ever give you pause when you look down and see it plowing into a stranger?
Honest question after a very uncomfortable appointment...
but during the conversations, I would inadvertently say "We" instead of "I" and they would figure it out anyway. BTW, I used to use a fake name...and got caught the same way! I've never claimed to be the sharpest knife in the drawer. lol As for the "pause" or "guilt", that had long since past, for a variety of reasons, before I made the first call. The weird thing is, during a session, I never seen the ring. I have actually thought about that on occasion.
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You don't take off a wedding ring because those things get lost, fall down sink drains, or forgotten when it's time to put it back on.
You'll have a tan line anyway, lol. Not sure what the point is. So what happened to make you bring this up? Please do tell a good story, lol. 
Posted By: Sooo...YouWanna
Why do you leave yours on? And does it ever give you pause when you look down and see it plowing into a stranger?
Honest question after a very uncomfortable appointment...
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service. Take a look at my laminated TER menu.
xo
Did you ever get a gold ring lost in you?
It would come off easily and I didn't want to lose it. I don't like to have it or my watch on when having sex anyway.
I had someone take it off and put it in their pocket right in front of me, like actually care+
If it got left behind.
That is, jewelry, watch, wallet, actual cell phone. That's all locked in the trunk of my car.
I bring a gym bag with me, and everything I bring or have with me is either in the bag or on it or near it. Like the donation, wine, music, gifts, etc.
Not worried about getting ripped off--just don't want to leave something that would be hard to explain.
Just my 2c
