There is a woman I saw advertising who claims to be an adult actress.  She only uses the first name of the actress in her name and she has no reviews under either the short or full name.  I am tempted to set up an appointment anyway.  Does anyone have tips for meeting with a provider that may not turn out to be what you expected?  I guess one is don't put the envelop down until you are sure.

END OF MESSAGE

END OF MESSAGE

They all turn out to be wonderful angels in this industry. Have Fun Sir

TOFTT is like playing roulette..you spin the wheel and hope your balls fall in the right hole..

i'm not doing it right.

here you go, sonny boy:

Print out the picture in the ad. When she opens the door, hold it up next to her face. If they match,
you can move forward.

Next, ask her straight up "How come you don't have any reviews? You're not a cop, are you?"

Everybody knows that if she is a cop, she has to say so. Now, if she is legit, at this point she might be worried that YOU are a cop. Reach out and grab her cooch - give it a squeeze like Crocodile Dundee.
Two birds with one stone, you make sure she's not one a them she-males, and at the same time reassure
her that you are not of the le persuasion.

There's still the matter of upsell, so hold out the cash but keep a firm grip on it when she tries to grab it.
"Not so fast, sister. I'm expecting DFK, DATY, BBBJ, CIM, FS, MSOG, CG and RCG for this, so don't try to  
pull any fast ones". This lets her know that you are a savvy customer and not gonna be ripped off. You know, like kicking the tires.

Follow these rules, young padawan, and you will soon be a Jedi Hobbyist just like uncle nick.

"Jedi hobbyist," lol!  You flatter me, clarence.  But, truth be told, you'd never find me in a position to use your sage advice.  I'm lucky enough to be in an area where it's never necessary to TOFTT, plus I have lots of friends who can vouch for a lady

and fifty providers.

You need to have developed a sixth sense about a gal in order to know if they are on the level.

There's no real way to describe the vast array of circumstances needed to know when a TOFTT experience will be a good one.

It would be like telling someone how to play the violin like Pincas Zuckerman, or parallel park a Hummer.

There is no substitute for the experience.

Your mission, should you choose to accept it (hum "Mission Impossible" theme here):

Scan backpage in your area. Pick an ad that does NOT look TGTBT. Proceed with email or
phone call according to her instructions. USE THE FORCE: pick out and jot down clues
that your experience tell you are both good and bad. Proceed with, or cancel the date based
on your findings. If you don't get arrested or beaten to death, write an honest review to help
out the next guy.

As always, the secretary of sex will disavow all knowledge of your actions.

Good luck, Agent Nicky. This message will not self-destruct as TER security seems to be stronger than our systems. Go figure..

I try to do dinner dates than back to the hotel. I've also paid after the date. Some ladies are ok with that and some aren't but if you pay after I'd guarantee shes not LE.  
         

I've never been scammed or stung in 45-50 visits, but some have been less than what was advertised. Some I TOFTT, some didn't live up to previous reviews. Bottom line you, nor she knows whats on the other side of the door when it's fnally opened.