What do you recommend for lubing up the vagina?

I enjoy masturbating a woman's pussy lips and clit with my hands and have used KY jelly in the past, but I find that the taste of the lube is awful when it is time to DATY.

Anyone tried the product "Peter Licker"?  Or do you have any personal recommendation for an all-around non-greasy, water-based, solube, non-staining product that can be used for lube and flavoring?

Why would you want or need to use any artificial lubes?  Ladies lubricate naturally when they are excited sexually...

but if you still feel the need for something, I would suggest a natural good tasting oil such as almond massage oil, or perhaps even olive oil.

They have a pleasant taste and are good for the sking.

and the stimulation that works for each lady is unique. Communicate!

Please men, understand that many hormonal changes can affect a ladies lubrication.  Even soaking in my jacuzzi pre-play is guaranteed to suck the moisture right out of me.

Your insistance that a lady will be wet when she is stimulated is as much pressure as if a lady insisted that you would be hard when you were excited.  It is not always the case.

LUBE IS YOUR FRIEND.

For oral, saliva should suffice.  However, if the gent is a smoker or has a dry mouth for any of a  number of reasons... I agree with the suggestion for sweet almond oil or anything that is neutral and tastes good.

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having to do with hormones and age

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In my personal experience I have never had anyone use a lube during ....  If done properly her squirting on your tongue should suffice

check out something like organic coconut oil found in many health and vitamin stores. Very little is needed. Tastes great, and doesn't go bad nearly as fast as other oils like almond. it also has the added benefit of being anti-viral, anti-bacterial, and anti-fungal. Makes for a great lube for the guy as well if the protection being used is the female condom. Then you can alternate between say getting a BJ and sex, back and forth, without her having to taste some gosh-aweful artifical lube.

I was so upset by post after post insisting it shouldn't come up if the lady is turned on that I wasn't really addressing the actual suggestions for lube.

As you mentioned, the main problem with almost any of the natural oils like coconut or almond is that they are not latex friendly, so poly covers such as the female condom are great.  Most flavored lubes (sounds like a good idea!) are very high sugar content and not friendly to the vagina.  Really, your best bet if you are using latex is something very neutral like KY or Astroglide.

If there is a BabeLand near you, they often have lube testing stations.  It's nice to be able to feel the texture and try a little taste before buying.
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Ok, I'm getting answers that aren't really appropriate for my question -- and that is my fault because I incorrectly phrased the topic title.

What I really want to know is:

What lube can I use to masturbate a woman with AND which is safe to perform cunnilingus with?  

With saliva, it tends to dry very quickly, and I prefer not to lick my own saliva (it's a personal preference)

(that is a different question than the title on the post)

vaginal dryness, which would make cunnilingus less that pleasurable, no matter how much saliva is used.

-Progesterone domination,
-deficiency of estrogen,
-poor vaginal blood circulation (possibly from a lack of androgen hormones, oxytocin, prostaglandins,  or/and nitric oxide and cGMP release in the vaginal/arterial parasympathetic erectile nervous endings)  
-peri-menopause
-certain birth control pills
-child birth
-excess stress

Now, if a lady has that dryness, spit may not be a good substitute.  Think back to when you might have had dry/chapped facial lips. Licking them wasn't the best solution. Often made it worse. But putting other compounds found in lip balm on instead worked wonders.

Most cunnilingus involves sensitive tissue which is naturally more moist than the skin found on our hands. If the 'moisturizing' process affected, a lube could be needed while the underlying cause is worked out.

I find the sensation of a dry rough tongue the equivalent to sandpaper.