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..is not on par with different hair colors.   ;-)

I’ve always been fascinated by how personal taste shapes our encounters. Some clients swear by the classic elegance of a sultry brunette, others can’t resist the radiant allure of a blonde. Then there are those who crave the fiery edge of a redhead, or the magnetic beauty of ebony goddesses.

From your own experience, do you find one type naturally gives you better chemistry, or does it all depend on the individual? Do certain hair colours spark different moods for you — playful, sensual, wild, intimate?

Personally, I’ve noticed that our blonde London escorts often attract clients looking for that glamorous, movie-star vibe, while brunettes tend to be seen as mysterious and seductive. Redheads? Usually booked by those who love a bit of spice. Ebony beauties? They’re unforgettable for their natural confidence and sensuality.

So, in your world of experiences — is it blonde, brunette, ebony, redhead, or simply whoever makes your pulse race the most?

When I created my stage name back in 2005 I was Patricia4smiles. I was originally a blonde. 👱‍♀️ I wore a Blonde wig for years. In my personal opinion blondes make more money. I wear wigs to role-play it’s fun! 🤩  

Yesterday I created content wearing a ginger wig. Fantasy is fun. Part of being a companion is the ability to attract & seduce. I love to play kinky!  

I embrace my natural hair color as a brunette, but I love blondes and have blond highlights. I love the way blonde hair looks on my all natural sun kissed tanned skin. My lovers & friends prefer me as I am.

...that darker-hued people cannot produce natural blondes. lol

The Latinas with natural blue eyes who die their hair blonde look really hot with their olive or brown complexions....I saw one in Mexico City one time (she had dirty blond hair and an olive complexion) and I was scratching my head as to why she was selling overpriced souvenirs and not modeling.

..is not on par with different hair colors.   ;-)

Not in the slightest. An open ended "what features of a companion entices you the most?" might have produced more fruitful responses.

ebony isn’t a hair colour, but I couldn’t leave out the allure of that stunning, confident beauty! I guess my list became a little mix of hair shades and irresistible vibes.

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Hair/skin color is a small detail I don't really care that much about. TBH, if her body is working for me, idc if she's bald black, white, brown, or whatever skin color you want to assign her.

Fun question... but I did pause when I saw "ebony" mixed in with blonde, brunette, and redhead.  

 
"Ebony" isn't a hair color, it's a racialized descriptor, so lumping it in alongside hair shades feels clumsy and a bit... fetishizing. It's a whole different world of allure so it deserves its own conversation entirely.  

The way it's framed conflates skin tone with hair color, which means we're really not talking about hair at all. It's like comparing champagne to chocolate... both divine, but not the same category.  

 
Chemistry, in my experience, has so much more to do with individual than ticking a box for hair color or skin tone. It's the spark in the eyes, the cadence of a laugh, the way conversation lingers in the air... that's where the real magic happens.

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First, I want to say you're not wrong for feeling that way. What you say rings true. Yet, guys do this. Porn sites do this as well. Though, their list is a lot longer. It seems it's assumed when we are talking hair color, it's white ladies. But when we are talking not white ladies, it becomes skin color or ethnicity. These also are not the same! But on that list with Blonde, Brunette, and Redhead, are Asian, Black/Ebony, Indian and Latina. The laundry list of fetish/preference categories goes much deeper, but when you see a question about hair color randomly throw in one skin color, it's not just one person thinking this way. It's the way a lot of people think.

 
Way before the internet, there were known stripper agencies you could look up in the yellow pages to call a stripper that was really an escort. If you wanted a white lady of a paticular hair color, you said it. If you wanted a non white lady, you said it too, and usually hair color was not also said. This behavior has been around for A LONG time.

Thanks for sharing this   you’re right, there’s definitely a long history of how the industry, media, and even everyday conversations separate “hair colour” for white women from “skin tone/ethnicity” for women of colour. I didn’t intend to lean into that pattern, but I can see how my phrasing fits into it. My aim was to celebrate different kinds of allure clients talk about, but I agree the way it was framed could be more thoughtful. Your context about how this has been presented over time is really valuable, and I’ll keep it in mind when writing future posts so the comparisons feel more consistent and intentional.

I really appreciate you pointing that out   you’re absolutely right that “ebony” isn’t a hair colour and it sits in a different category altogether. My intent was to highlight the different kinds of allure clients mention most, but I can see how mixing descriptors could feel clumsy or fetishizing. You’ve made a great point that it deserves its own conversation, and I like how you framed the real magic being in the individual connection. That’s definitely something I want to explore more in future posts.

I always found it funny that WW could be brunettes, blondes, or redheads but "Hispanic" or "Black" or "Asian" was just one monolithic group unless you had a body type preference.

So can a Hispanic woman with light hair be a brunette? How about an Asian girl that dyes her hair blonde as a trademark look?

It's one of the inherent biases in the adult and sex industry.

brunettes and disagree with the "blondes have more fun" general belief.  Redheads can be hot or not depending on their personalities, but if things get boring, you can grab a felt marker and play connect the dots with their freckles.    

Im more of a fan of Latinas with big bootys. Hair color doesnt matter, as long as it compliments the woman.

Probably just me me but I always give Blondes a second look. By far my favorite. On the other hand  my regulars are semi blonde and the other black headed . End of the day service , location and just general enjoyment of seeing them is the deciding factor    

99% of all women I would describe as "Drop Dead Gorgeous" are brunettes.
Love them all but , good looking brunettes are special.

If I had to choose, I'd say my type is blonde hair/blue eyes.  But where I am, the bulk of the talent is Latin American with dark brown hair and eyes. It's not as common but a brunette with blue eyes can be pretty stunning as well.   Don't think I've ever been with a ginger.

It's an attraction preference but I don't find performance differences that correlate.  

It's amazing how hair color can change a person's overall appearance. Take a natural blonde and give her brown or black hair coloring and her desirability tier completely changes for me.

Brunettes > every other hair color.

But in my experience, I have to say that a beautiful natural redhead floats my boat like no other.

They are also friskier.

 
Might have to do with their Viking DNA.

Perfect description. Their pleasure receptors just seem to be in different places and a bit more intense compared to the rest. Good on you finding the one to settle down with.

... preferably atop a gorgeous Asian face 🥰

It is hard to precisely describe what I like. Generally, my preference is for Asian women, but from time to time I can be attracted to any race or hair style. I just feel the spark of attraction when I see some women.

This is so true!  In general I am attracted to curvy, natural and tall brunettes, petite women and skinny girls aren’t my “type”. However my favorite duo partner over the years was a super slender blonde with enhanced breasts. There was just something about the chemistry between us, we were positively magical together.   I sure miss her!

1. Don't rush the date by  make sure your fees are reasonable high.
2. Be professional ,and show me a good time as long  as am clean,respectful and not cheap.Not on drugs ,drunk ,etc
3. She must have at least size C boobs, clean,drug free,and don't show up drunk creating a  high  
possibility of drama or needing  the paramedics be called.  
4. It would be nice ,but she don't have to be the best PR person,nor do we have to have any chemistry. Service is everthing.  

So there you have it. Does not matter  the shade of her skin ,color of hair,eyes or wherever else people who have too much time on their hands can cone up with.

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