Sometimes it's amazing how many men see women who aren't as attractive b'c they believe the hype. Do you realize how many models are out there who are real escorts, but they don't show their faces, but the moderate to somewhat attractive lady gets your biz b/c she show her face in her ads?
some ladies just want to be discreet.
I just think it's funny whn I see the ladies who show their faces (but really aren't attractive) getting praised as top # whatever, and there's a real model who should be in that same place but she was smart enough to be discreet for her and YOU.
ever think about that?

model was standing before you?

Some of them are, but you wouldn't know b/c they don't show their face.

Models are not included in my scale of how I judge a woman to be attractive. I don't actually find most models attractive with the exception of a few from Victoria's Secret. What I find most attractive is actually rather un model like. See my reply below listing my top 5 as an example in the other thread.

A beautiful girl next door looking woman with a nice smile who is beautiful inside and out blows away any model in my book and drives me crazy. I am all about the real woman. Not the artificial ideal.

have to compete w/ those who aren't really pretty. no offenses or anything, but let's be real.
They get 10's.
But if you're beautiful, how do you compete w/ avg. ladies? who score 10's? you can't.
It's a sad reality.
thx for participating. You helped me to understand why things are the way they are. take care.

Yes, we are aware there are model escorts..."true Models".  Of course they don't show their faces.  They don't want to show up Fashion week, to have some photographer say, hey didn't I see you on Eros?  A model isn't going to risk her multi million dollar contracts, cosmetic campaigns, 10+K per day runway fee to fuck a few guys on the side here and there.  You won't see them posting their specials on TER because they don't have to.  You aren't going to see a model on this site asking why John boy is bypassing her to fuck a bunch of "average looking women".  Again, because this isn't her target market.  She runs in a different circle.

The top model escort isn't defined by a TER top number, and doesn't care because her looks, and allure keep her in popular demand, in both her occupations.

The "average escort"  isn't rocking a 5'10' + stealthy frame or sought after by countless magazine covers, powerful men, paid endorsements so most show their faces because that's what gets John Boy through the door.   The "average"  well traveled escort is touring one city to another, servicing Johns, not flying globally to exotic photo shoot locales.  

Huge difference between model, and wannabe.  Some people here are legends in their own minds which can be unattractive regardless of your shell.


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Now, I don't know what you look like and can not comment on you as a result from my own personal perspective on external beauty.

But I can say that your ability to use a phrase to describe yourself such as one of the truly beautiful girls while at the same time referring to others as average ladies lowers the perception of your inner beauty and shows a lack of understanding of the fact that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder rather then in the pages of Cosmo.

I may be mistaken about you. I don't know you after all. Just trying to express how you come across with a statement like that. To answer your question, if the most beautiful of the Victoria's Secret models stood in front of me, and I thought she was gorgeous, and I heard her make a comment like that? I would no longer find her very attractive.

she was better looking as well, not based on skinny viccy's model but true facial beauty.
but b/c there ladies care about your discretion, you'd never know,
so you settle for what you think is a 10 in this world.
trying to get you to really think...

It also may be worth mentioning that a woman who thinks as highly of herself for her looks as all that would also make some guys (not all of course) who may be average or maybe even less then average on the attractive scale themselves, or overweight, or old, uncomfortable with being with her as if she thinks that, what must she be thinking about having to lower herself to be with us? Disgusted?

Keep in mind I don't "hobby" and am not on a crusade to meet as many women as I can. I have 1-3 regulars that I get along with very well who fill an unfortunate hole in my personal life and who I respect greatly. So I may not be a typical representation of the men here.

First, men and women look at women's beauty very differently, in my experience. No offense to you personally but if a guy told me a girl was hot and you told me she was average, I would be more apt to agree with the guy, in most cases.

Second, if a bunch of guys are giving a girl a "10" on looks, I dont think I'd consider that girl "average." Id proly think she was hot, or at least very attractive.

Third, you have to remember, when you see a score and look at her pics, you are only seeing a two dimensional view of the girl. The guy who reviewed her got to see her in 3-D, if you will. He got to see her laugh, smile, throw her hair back, tell a story, sit on his lap, look in her eyes, smell her scent,  etc. All of that affects our view of her physically, to a degree. It might be subconsciously, but its there. So many things go into attraction. You just cant boil it down to pics. Its WAY more complex than that.

I'm not trying to cut hairs, but I've seen some ladies who show face, video or what not, scored as 10's but in real life, people would say they are nothing close to a 10 (sometimes w/ acne, bad weave, bad teeth, or what not), they show face so they get a step up the score board. Then you have a lady who truly stops traffic, always has her entire life with and without makeup, as a 10 year old to 30 year old, among whites, black, middle east, Europeans and many others, but then she doesn't show her face, so it's different/
It's like once a lady shows her face and gets scored high, everyone how follows does the same just b/c.

I'm just saying b'c some of us have to compete w'ith someone who only gets a high score b'c she's somewhat attractive, but she shows face w/ caked on makeup. and then you're a lady who had never done the sort, how do you compete when you want to be discreet, but you know you look better?

It's fk-ed that I ever have to ask this, really,

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Very well said. I saw a woman today who based on her pictures I thought I wouldn't find super attractive but I saw her based on the recommendation of a friend. The woman I met was the same girl and the pictures were not old. But once I saw her in person, spoke with her, saw her laugh and smile, heard her accent, and experienced how she made me feel just sitting next to me on the couch and talking to me as we got to know each other..... By the time I was there 10 minutes she was one of the most attractive women I had ever met in person. And she was still fully clothed. That is something that women who look in the mirror maybe a bit to much just don't seem to get about guys.

I like your confidence .

 The  truly out of the ordinary beautiful  ladies I have met {tens from my eyes only}  seemed to put themselves down too much , especially  in front of the mirror . The tiniest thing about their nose or eyes  they didn't think was right ,or her ear lobe is too long or thick . I dropped her to a seven  after I listened to that .
  I'm not looking for the perfect button nose.
   Got photos ?  
 

ladies w/ caked on make-up who get 10's, but the other ladies are former models (face wise - never wore makeup).

good night or morning when all of my posts show.
well be well everyone. being happy is what matters. xoxo

You are right, they probably take a better picture and on the site we would think them more attractive. the point we are trying to make to you is that in person that may not hold true.

Really attractive women aspire to be attractive women, not attractive photos.

I think your missing that point. Its not based on who shows face or who doesnt in website/ad pics. You make it sound like the reviews are based off of pics.

If you are as drop-dead gorgeous as I assume you think you are, the back channels will be your friend.  All it takes is one fella here to confirm.

Post a blurred photo.  We can take it from there

She wasnt ugly, just, eh. Ok. Average. Her pics looked better than she did in person. Jump forward three years to today. She still looks the same. Whats the difference? She's my ATF. She grew on me. BIG time. It was her warmth, her charm, the way she greets me, the way she kisses me hello, the times she brings ME a gift on my b-day, all the times we showered together, had dinner, went to the theatre, shared wine in the park, etc. I look at her now and think she's beautiful. Just goes to show you how fickle pics, initial thoughts, etc can be re: attraction. And to think I almost didnt contact her after that first time...I would have missed out on SO much fun!

religiously when walking down the street. They are truly beautiful, not just escort pretty (that gets you a 10 score), but beautiful. stopped by civvies all day everyday, not just pretty in this world b'c they'r willing to suck dick, but b'c they are truly beautiful.

Again, remove me from the mix, I'm just asking in general about this phenomena b/c I'm intrigued, but not worried for myself, b'c I keep regulars who've already met me.

a good friend like that. She was amazing, but her insecurity took away from her beauty.
I like your approach.

Obviously I'm talking about ladies who look like models but aren't working as models.
There are many, escorts or not, in this world who aren't actively working on the runway. If you haven't met them, then you haven't met them. But there are beautiful women everywhere.

rain on my parade? lol.

you see the top ten and she had caked on make up, so yes it's something to consider.
it makes some ladies wonder, that;s all. especially if they don't have to wear caked on makeup, or any at all, but it makes the ladies wonder, so I posted to start discussion for some of them.

i could take it or leave it, i clearly don't advertise, so it's not about me....but the point I was trying to make but was missed.
thx tho.
night

1. attractiveness is not just about what is on the surface.

2. girls are not receiving 10's in appearance JUST because of posted photos

The guys have been really nice in their responses and have done a great job of explaining things to you.  However, you will not seem to let shit end until you have an entire board of men bending over to kiss your "beautiful" ass.  Guess what? Even if you are a 10 in real life, your attitude drops you to a 6.  You know, humility is attractive as well.  

You wouldn’t recognize most of them on the streets. Try walking down the streets in NY and LA. So the real hype not to believe is the hype you are promoting.

I know some providers who are better looking than the models in real life.

Thanks for promotion the myth!

I tried to follow along with the thread to get a sense of clarification but no, its just as terrible as I originally read it to be.

We are not in a direct competition with others.  
We really aren't (unless you're working for an agency or in a house).
If you're reading ad boards and reviews and judging yourself against the providers who are highly celebrated and saying to yourself

"I am more beautiful than she, she is undeserving of her scores but she is highly rated because she shows her face on the internet.  I deserve the praise she receives because I am truly beautiful without makeup and I am truly model quality"

...That is an incredibly corrosive, toxic, thought process.

When you get to feeling too sexy for your pants please go take a vacation where the pretty people actually live.  You may be above average where you're from - so much so that you feel compelled to complain that truly beautiful women like yourself get shafted in favor of those who wear good makeup and show their face.
But if you go hang out in some of the world's trendiest and most beautiful places you'd be quickly taken back down to size.

Word gets around very fast when a provider is truly an above average, model quality beauty.
If that information hasn't been circulated about you or you're not running in the league of 10s that you wish to be...maybe your perception of yourself is different than others, I don't know.

What I do know is that your personality reads very ugly in this thread and men are very attune to that sort of thing in real life.

im not meeting anyone here, so could care less about the rating
im asking in general.
thx

on something that's real & some ladies experience.
how can you say the ladies aren't competing when the men making it that way?
So and so is #1 or the best, you see that all the time.
sometimes there are ladies who  look better but can't show their face. they have to compete.
sorry if you think i'm ugly for that, bringing up a question that some wonder.

I live in NYC, where lots of this activity goes on.  There are many girls who are high-profile in their jobs that do this on the side.  And, yes, there are many that simply do not advertise, and where it is truly word-of-mouth.

TER is the Consumer Reports of escorting.  You can read great reviews and get great information on the escorts that are readily available and who are mainstream and advertise.  But there is a whole market of the very top-end girls that are UTR and that will never be reviewed on here and never spoken about in a public board.  For that market, it all happens through referral, and the rates are astronomically high (think $10k for a session, which is typically an overnight).

But while this occurs, let's not start stereotyping about how we all just settle for average-looking girls here and how we rave about how they look.  Of course there is a lot of grade inflation, and many TER 9s are truly not deserving of a 9 in my book, but everyone is different.

Let's not go stereotyping an entire bunch of providers this way.

You are not in a competition.

There are a variety of reasons for why some providers score very highly and why some providers become board and rating darlings.

If you need the validation of being recognized as the best because you clearly feel that you and others like you look better than those who are celebrated the most for being beautiful you can show your body without showing your face.

I don't think a single girl on the Top 10 of TER nationally shows her face.  They are universally described as being model beautiful.  So this makes me think that this thread is specific to your market and specific to one provider who you've possibly met who is called "#1" and it bothers you because you think she's average and you are truly gorgeous and should be recognized as the best.
Sound about right?

All things considered, if you advertised just like her, had the same offerings and rates as her, were located in he same place as her, kept the same schedule as her...then it would be a competition.  But I'm going to guess that she and girls like her ("average" in your opinion but highly thought of) isn't exactly like you.

She's not taking any business from you that you would have otherwise had....therefore it isn't a competition.

If you want to be recognized as the best you and anyone like you doesn't have to show their faces.  Thats not a pre-requisite for getting a body of 10s.    You have to play the game.  Don't make this website a beauty pagent or a casting call for Vogue because it isn't.  You're not going to be recognized for being "truly beautiful" here but if you are an exceptional escort you will be.  Its really that simple.

focused on appearance, so how can this thought not come up?
& then you have an ugly personality for bringing it up.

affect everyone, when the guys compare. how would that not be or feel like competition?
& I meant top 100.
national
Some of the ladies do show their faces.
don't get the harm in asking the question.
If a lady shows her face but she's not really attractive but she's on that list. & the focus by so many guys is on the list.

She becomes infinitely hotter.
And for me. Yes. A girl can be too good looking.
I'm in it for the pleasure, not the trophy, or high fives.

I find you to be very judgemental, and this is very unattractive to me regardless of what you look like.  I am not shallow, so looks are not everything.  Why post with an alias?  Scared...

. they just want to discuss. If they say they like escorting, it's to say they do as part of discussion, not to drum up bizness or receive PMs to see someone. they just want to say they like escorting.

it was a simple discussion, which some people have wondered, b/c they "liked" my post.

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I read complaints about ladies who don't show their faces in ads and it's often the same person who says they would never give up their real name or employment info in screening and refuses to fill out the contact form on several lady's websites.

in an appearance focused industry where everyone is judged by the outside.
don't act like it's anything less.

From my vantage point I see way too much grade inflation on looks here.  There is a well-known provider in Miami that people give mostly 9s and 10s to but she has a really jacked-up grille (teeth) and her face is almost tranny-esque (very masculine).  She has a ridiculous body, so maybe everyone is grading her body.

But she is a perfect example of what you are talking about.  And then there are plenty of girls who do this very UTR that are off-the-charts gorgeous.

Just be careful not to broad-stroke the whole thing, because you bring down your own argument by making it too easy to point out exceptions.  And when there are as many exceptions as there are examples of your argument, it's a weak statement.  Tighten up your statement.

But I do agree you have some merit.

You are SO hung up on looks. Sad, really.

Personality affects how we look at the "whole" women, not just her BJ or FS skills. Arent many women more attracted to average looking guys that play in bands? That DJ? They have no idea about their "performance" yet. Ever see Playboy girls with average/below average rock stars?

... who posts with an alias are indeed scared.

Sure, they'll give you some rationalization that they are protecting their identity? Really??

If they had established a TER ID that is an alias, like mine, Serpius, why bother getting another alias to protect your TER ID? Their flawed logic never made sense to me.

Oh... because they are hiding behind a double alias, that gives them the right to be judgmental.

Go figure...

Serpius

And how hot you think you are. Beautifuk women dont feel the need to tell us every other post nor do they have to nock other ladies. You are severely insecure and jealous of REAL girls, who have things to offer other than model looks. Get over it. Get over yourself.

You have a point. But I can't see things so black and white.
I guess I live in a grey area.
All I know is what looks good, and feels good are seldom the same.


People you like become more attractive to you.
Not what the TV or magazines say you should like.
I'm still a little new. Maybe I am missing something?

Why do you care who you or anyone else has to compete with? As you say, "Truly beautiful girls have to compete with average looking girls, because they can't show their faces," but would that not be a good thing for those "truly beautiful people?" If a woman is constantly getting 9s and 10s, it makes zero difference if she is a model or not....she is not going to a casting call, but seeing old men who pay for sex. Just because you don't think they deserve a 9 or 10, does not mean the guys seeing them do not, and THEY are the ones writing reviews.

I would never refer to myself "as truly beautiful" because those who are, don't have to reiterate it. That's about as presumptive as saying, "I'm classy."

Also, just because some women were models at 20, does not mean they are still model material at 40, and how many escorts use that model shit as marketing? The guy is not banging your 20 year old magazine cover, he is banging the girl you look like today...which to him, might be a 7.

Seems like we have a lot of true models as escorts, but what I find funny is they don't have the money to back it up. Many so called models and porn stars can't even command 500 an hour, where the average escort getting high scores certainly can. That says it all for me. Models make a shit load of money, so why would they be stuck slumming it here if they were truly successful? Maybe, because many of them are full of shit lol.

I agree that pro models, athletes, etc. should not be going around showing their faces on hooker boards, and I must laugh when I see someone boast about being a pro cheerleader, who is doing just that ha ha. She would lose her job in a month. Still, I don't worry too much about what the next girl is doing...I worry about my money, my reviews, and my client's happiness.

FYI, yes, personality does in fact impact looks scores and not performance ones. Many girls who rate higher in looks have a witty, outgoing, fun, and HUMBLE personality, and to guys, that is attractive. The better you make HIM feel about himself, the prettier you become. Food for thought.


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I know. I didn't say you did. I was pointing out the perception some may have based on the point of view expressed.

I am at a loss. I don't know how you take what I said constitutes beauty and translate it into a statement like the one you made above that we think them pretty because they are willing to suck dick... I don't think you get it at all.

In addition you are not looking at them through the eyes of a man. You see competition. We see a woman.

Photo beauty is really ALL you have talked about. You have even made statements here about the review scores being off base based on the difference in pictures without considering in person perception at all. Your comment about a girl walking down the street is also just really a picture. No getting to know her.

None of your points have been made with the consideration of an actually meeting. Only the most superficial of comparisons.

Its catty bullshit.

If you're sitting around saying to yourself 'how come models have to compete with average girls' or 'how come truly beautiful "gals" like "us" even have to be compared to women who just aren't that pretty but are praised"

...You're a sad bitch.  Period.

Attitudes like this piss me off.
Its the sort of high school-ish mean girl undercurrent that really repels girls who work hard and would make excellent friends away from befriending other providers on any real level.
The business is tough enough without other girls digging their claws into our backs.

If you see an average girl with high praise on the top of a list - be happy for that bitch because she's getting hers while you look on in silent judgement and create a thread about it.
Stop hating.  If any girl isn't getting the scores she thinks she deserves...mabye she should dial down the narcissism and get realistic.  Maybe she's not as beautiful as she thinks she is.

She ia rated against some gals who arent as attractive. Whats so wrong w/ discussing the obvios when we're talking about an obsessed about appreance industty? As if the problem doesnt exist.
I won't call u names tho. It's only discussion.

Thx for the food for thought.
I just think it's funny no one wants to admit to the elephant in the room. Like if a lady doesnt have her teeth but is scored a ten and a lady with teeth scores 8, how does she compete. She has her teeth but the toothless lady has a good personality. How do u compete w/ that when you're already better looking with teeth, well it appears u would hae to step up in the personality dept b/c men arent just looking at looks. They use personality when scoring looks instead of performance.

Bringing what some others have thought or they wouldn't have liked the post.
The top rankings suck and shouldnt exist or it wouldnt create this reality.
Womem throwing up tueir food to get higher in the ranks, constant pressure,,,how can they imprve anymore of they are already their best? . but u have these rankings rankings rankings.
Maybe a boob job, don't know
No need to he hostile tho, it's just a harmless discussion.
Im just average and ok with it.
I know some hot girls tho

I just spent 20-30 minutes reading this entire thread, and maybe I'm just being thick, but I just don't get it.  

1) Are you saying that women who show faces in their ads have an unfair advantage over women who don't?  That's total bull!  Doesn't have anything to do with it, AT ALL!  Yes, a woman's ad is many times what attracts a guy's attention in the first place, but whether her face is blurred or turned away is NOT the deciding factor.  Trust me on that

2) If the men who have seen her consistently say she is attractive, fun to be with, and good at what she does, how is that "hype".  That is reality!  That is why other guys go see her.  What she, or you might say in ads or in posts, now that is hype!

3) I know you have continually said this is not about you, but there is very obviously something very personal going on.  It seems to me that maybe you or someone close (your alter ego) is being ranked lower than some you perceive as not as beautiful.  

I too, think it is interesting when ladies who not that attractive show their faces in ads, in fact I am surprised sometimes at how many ladies show their faces at all, but to their credit, they are just being honest.  Putting it out there so to speak.  Everyone has their own idea of what is beautiful and sexy.  Some guys like tall and thin "model" types to use your word, some like BBW, some like girl next door, some just like any woman that doesn't intimidate them.  Sounds to me like you might be the intimidating type for many guys.  If you really want us to tell you how beautiful you are, post a picture!  You don't even have to show your face

In my "main stream" business I compete with other companies in same field.  We both sell same items and there are only two ways to distinguish myself.  Price and customer service.

Price gets me a customer.  Service retains him/her.

In this business we do NOT serve commodity.  Each woman is individual and has unique combination of personality, attitude, skill, appearance.  I have met drop dead gorgeous women who barely make the ends meet and i have met homely women who are at the top of their game.

My personal advise to any girl in this biz - pay more attention to your own biz and less to what others do/get/say.

Just some food for thought. Some ladies are VERY beautiful, & they know it.... & it reflects badly on them. Why? Because they believe that just due to the fact that they are "so beautiful" & "guys should feel lucky to be with them", that looks alone should carry them through life. Their personalty may be crap. If a lady is really, truly deserving of a "10" in appearance, then the guys who see her, will reflect that in their reviews... it has nothing to do with who decides to show their faces & who decides to blur their faces.

As others have stated, a 10 in appearance, can quickly be demoted to a 6, due to her personality... or lack there of. I don't know much about the "Top 10" or 'Top 100", but am assuming that for a lady to be listed in that category, it is based on both appearance & performance. So again, a lady can be beautiful, but if she has that attitude of "I'm better than everyone else", it WILL reflect on how she is perceived, & therefore, rated.

Tough Shit. Men are visual creations. Deal with it. I understand why you do what you do but you limit yourselves.

Caveat Emptor is no way to contract

Your whining, bitching, complaining, moaning, telling us how hot you, and now your friend is, so upset you have to compete...My goodness...if its that bad honey, I got two words for ya: GET OUT! And to quote Jack Nicholson: YOU CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH! Do you see anybody agreeing with you here? You are callous, shallow and you look down your nose at people based on your defintion of beauty. You are a disgrace and this entire thread has shown to me you have serious issues you need to deal with and you may want too consider therapy to understand why you think your shit doesnt stink like the rest of us! Of course I guess you would expect one of the "less pretty" girls to catch your dump before it hits the water so it doesnt splash back up on your pompous ass!

And of course in your case, serpius is not an alias since it ties to all your real info

Beautiful, but maybe she needs more personality.

On the boards, so to act as if ladies arent forced to deal w/ competing makes no sense. Its good to pretens we arent compared, but we are. And the rankings don't help, im just saying it outloud.

I knew I liked something about you, crazyshit.
I was just wondering how this happens. I guess it was a sore subject for some, but it sounds like the girl with the jackd grill has a great personality.
Makes u wonder
Grade inflation, it would nice to get rid of rankings

I really like your post. It was helpful.

Yes, this is a review board.  Yes, we have rankins.  Yes we are compared.  But I am personally not in competition with anyone in this business.

I do my thing and mind my own business.  When someone will manage to create ABSOLUTE EXACT replica of me .. when I will become a COMMODITY then yes, it will become competition.

Untill that hapopens, every provider here is unique woman with whatever attributes she posesses.

You started this train wreck, and now you're back peddling against the current.

When you started this thread, it was about YOU.  Now that you re coherent enough to read the results of your egotistical vomit on the boards, you are putting it out there you are a 5, and your friend is an 11?  WTF???  Now typing "your friend" says this/that, in subject line?  LMAO, Do we read as STUPID?

I will assume your post was the result of a bad combination of the "pills" you claim you took, a hard look in the mirror, and the silence of your phone.

Next!

If anyone has followed the BS that this hooker babbles...clearly a combination of "pills"..booze...old age and going broke.

We've had too many of these broken old hags babbling here...but they are a fun read.

They honestly believe their own drivel..at least publicly  LOL

Who get ahead while someone else may not. Two reasons come to mind:

1) likeability - THE single most important component in this business. You can look hot and such a mean dick, BUT: your attitude doesn't seem that great to me. Men will pick up on that and it WILL turn you from a 10 into a 7. Vice versa for girls who smile at everyone and are just TOO nice. Looks only get you in the door; it's personality that keeps people there and determines how they feel about the experience. So looks and service being objectively equal, a more likeable person will SEEM *more * attractive and a less likeable person will SEEM *less* attractive.

2) Self-promotion. I don't necessarily mean that in a bad sense, but people who put themselves out there will get more attention. Think about it. That computer geek in high school, always talking about programming and whatnot and telling everyone how he can hack any account. So when the teacher's computer breaks, who is she gonna think of to ask? That geek, or the quiet one who doesn't promote himself at all? Even if he's only average in skills, he'll get the job just for making it known that he is able and willing to do something. And, while this last part really isn't fair, people probably will believe that the self-promoter is better than the non-self-promoter unless something drastic happens. It's not fair, but neither is life!!

I don't really see any correlation between face pics and scores at all and not sure why you do.

Then there's weirdos like me that don't care about the other people nor a stupid looks score.

Hey no need to be so mean, it's a valid discussion IMHO.

I will admit I was disappointed in her looks, but she never misrepresented herself.  But I could not write a review and not be truthful about her looks.

So I didn't write one at all

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=571190&boardID=12&page=1#571190

I just wanted to start discussion on a slow night, so thx for not being mean.

you don't show photos, but I bet you're a beauty in your own right. xoxo

  And it's true, it's what a man sees. Some men think a woman s stunning while others would take a pass. It's just true. Then if her attitude and performance are top notch, she can actually hold a conversation, she becomes more sexier.

Many models, fashion models without all the makeup on are not even really all that attractive. There's a difference between being a model or being Cindy Crawford.  So I agree with this message.

If you are truely such a sight to behold and you have a great attitude, are happy, and you treat the men above average then you would have nothing to complain about. So since you are complaining, might mean you are doing something wrong. Not being harsh, just honest.

From a Non-Model

don't get that at all.

Blurring your face for privacy isnt limiting yourself. If one doesnt like it, another one will. Too much dick out here to be crying over trivial things.. I personally dont want my face shown in a place where ANYONE can see it. This isnt a place to make "girlfriends", it isnt a game, it's your life. Providers shouldn't have many other provider friends, it leads to drama. We should concentrate on having a smoothly running life & business.


We get too wrapped up in numbers on an escort review site on the internet, Jesus. Life and the real world will go on. Remember what business this is and the nature of the people that partice in it.



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And if you read down a few posts, you will see that she calls herself a 10 and doesn't really see anyone but a few long-time regulars because of her corporate job.  Appears that someone needs to keep track of her posts.

I did search her posts before responding

She has a strange obsession with "model good looks".  

Maybe this is another case of the film Catfish, or perhaps she's the real Lennay Kekua.

Well if she is who I think she is and as me being one of the so-called " ugly girls " (in case you looked at my reviews.) I didn't take it that way at all. Gah I am weird lol.

Exactly and this reminds me of when I worked with other ladies way back then.
They had it stuck in their heads that looks were the utmost important in retaining clients & higher earnings.
When reality is that it's only part of the game.

They would talk all kinds of shit after I earned more than them any given day such as saying "How can she make more tips than we do? How can she stay so busy because She's ugly blah blah blah..." well I over heard it & was already set to go start my own thing so I stormed in & said because I'm actually fucking nice!  Being genuinely nice outshines fake any day! Left & took all my clients with me.
I noticed those Chicks would often attack another lady's looks first before anything & not just at work but in their personal lives, I'm a ginger, I'm used to bullying & discrimination my thoughts are always  " PFFT how original, yawn...got anything else? " go upward & onward.  Not my problem & I'm definitely not absorbing some other persons insecurities.That is why I refuse to give anymore fucks about a looks score.

It's true we are harsher. However when I need to check someone  I tend to pay attention to their talents and other aspects before looks.

Xo V.


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