It's a little different each time with my ATF.  In the summer when she is wearing sun dress I love it when she crawls up on my lap and I start feeling her up under the dress.  When it's jeans and a top they usually wind up in as pile on the floor before she hops into the bed. I go to work on the bra and panties as she unbuttons my shirt and asks "can I rip this off of you?"

I always start things off with an orally induced orgasm or two before she goes to town on me...

Re: Who wants to start the festivities?

I like to start with the controlling sex organs, our brains and interesting conversation.  Physical start up is not scripted for me.  However, I was always taught that nice guys finish last.

is one long smoldering kiss with little titilating distractions in between.

I know I always greet everyone with a soft sensual kiss and most men are surprised at how affectionate I truly am.

Do I have to have control ? No,  But it does help with the initial meeting so things move along comfortably without any awkwardness. Most men will not put them out in such a way so taking charge and freeing them to move on to the goodies gives you that much more time to play and enjoy each other. Isn't that what it's all about!

Kisses Haley

I like to start a "date" with a cheerful smile, eye contact, a hug, a compliment, a whisper in the ear, a kiss that lingers until the right moment. I like the clothes to come off slowly. I like to explore her body everywhere but there, with my hands, my lips, my tongue. The building of anticipation is delicious. I never tire of good honest kissing, and enjoy this throughout, like a fine aged spice or sips of an excellent wine with a meal. The rest of the things we do are delicious as well, but setting the stage, allowing the tension to build, makes the rest more piquant.