In my personal life, I have always preferred much older men.  I'm talking the 50-60 range.  My first boyfriend was 49 to my 18.  I tend to actively pursue older men.  Sadly, I made the mistake of falling in love with a couple of young'uns this time around, and 2 boyfriends is enough for me.  (Although, I do have a tertiary playmate who is 41, and actually used to work as a provider as well back in the day... but I am lucky if I see him twice a year.)

As far as clients go, I do not discriminate.  Despite what I've heard some folks say, I have found that the younger fellows I have met are just as sweet and respectful as older gentlemen.  I do enjoy much older clients, though, because it helps to play out my ever-present latent Lolita fantasies...

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Re: WHAT AGE DO PROVIDERS PREFER AND WHY?

I hope they prefer Geezers 50+ .

well i only like significantly older men (12 yrs or more) in my personal or hobby life. as far as the hobby goes, i will only see men 40 and up. i know most providers who set age limits have them from 35 and up, but a 35 yr old man would only be 9 years my senior...wayyyy too close in age for my comfort. so i set mine at 40.

as for my personal preference at the upper limit, that would probably be early 50s (tho i will see clients up to 60). super ideal age...mid to late 40s. why? well i love older men, have always felt more comfortable and natural with them. also i'm very submissive natured, so tend to be attracted to men i can view in a paternal/teacherly way. someone i can learn from and who i can look up to, and who makes me feel small, innocent and somewhat helpless in his presence. but he must also be very passionate, confident, and when necessary, aggressive. very energetic and demanding sexually...after the late 40s, most men tend to lose that edge. before 40, most haven't become fully comfortable in their own skin and aware of their own needs and desires.

Interesting replies. Though small sample. Hope we get more replies.

Some considerations that I wondered about were functional. Example....

Are younger men more demanding with more stamina which equates to "wear and tear" so to speak.? Hard handed? Less appreciative? Want greater variety?

Are older men easier to please and grateful for having your youthful body? Are older men more attentive to you? As was posted, are oldermen with E.D. more difficult for you? Are more older men regulars?

I would think older men value "oral skills" while younger men value "vaginal skills or feeling" True or not?

I am an equal opportunity provider

I love all men at least 21 and I have no maximum age limit.

The younger guys that I see love a mature woman and give me so many compliments...They are fun and exciting to watch as they experience things that they never imagined doing. Oh yes, young guys love older women especially in a garter belt , black stockings and a pair of sexy shoes. Don't you older gentlemen remember looking at those type of pictures when you were young

Now older gentlemen enjoy the romance and intimacy much the same as I do. A hot makeout session with an older man can last for hours.  They have learned to savor the moment and not rush unlike the younger guy who gets excited real quick and needs to release his energy.

I have only one requirement. Every gentleman I see must love to kiss and enjoy affection.

Kisses Haley

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Re: WHAT AGE DO PROVIDERS PREFER AND WHY?

I prefer over 25 (just less drama/haggling) but I am more about that you need to be a gentleman and LOVE FUN!

Cheers, Bella

I don't discriminate against the young or mature....

I enjoy a variety of ages. My youngest ones are 20 yr old college students. They look so damn young, I've had to I.D. their asses! However, I can count on seeing each of them at least once a month, when the parents send them money.   Although I have a wonderful time with these young men, I find that they haven't developed that "pleasing one another" characteristic yet and I find it difficult to carry on an intelligent conversation with them.

However, the majority of the gentlemen that I visit with is between 30-75, which I really enjoy. They seem to appreciate me more, we can carry on an intelligent conversation and the majority loves to please me...as much as I love to please THEM!