Would love to get advice to control the momentum....come to soon and the fun is over

Sorry I have no serious advice, but thicker condoms, uglier women and old age have always worked for me.

DO some lap doggie where you grab her breasts and take your time. Make sure that you are not in one of those pile driver positions. If you are good you can switch back and forth between pile driver where your  hands are on the bed while she lays flat to holding her breasts. It is fun to do the pile driver on the 2nd or 3rd pop. That way you can really take your time. She will get into a orgasimic frenzy and buck you back with snapper pussy in such a way that you will have big load.

The other position to try is the sideways sissor position. You can also sit in a chair and have her sit in your lap and bouce her up and down with your calf muscles.

The key to extended the fun is to have the stamina, energy, and musclar control.

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. . morningwoods so that I could pee, I think about nuns.

they make it hard to Cum.  I took paxil for over a year and had to complain to my doc that it was more depressing andfrustrating not to be able to release. He told me it was also used to treat permaturs ejackulation.I'm off the meds now and doing fine.I would suggest you talk to your DOC and see if taking a dose ocasionally would be right for you.

The first is practice at home.  Yes I'm talking about good old masturbation.  You need to get used to all the reactions in your body as you begin to approach the point of no return.  While masturbating stop in the middle as you begin to approach this limit and sense how you feel, wait until you begin to calm a bit, then slowly build up again.  This will take some weeks or months to do correctly but in time you may find that you can go on for up to an hour or more doing this and the practice can then be transfered to the field, so to speak.

The second is foreplay and plenty of it.  This gets you relaxed and prolongs the whole journey, as well as increases her enjoyment.

Somewhere along the line the question becomes not "how many?" but "how good?"

If I masterbate it takes me 30-60 minutes before I can cum. Even if I do it with a provider during a video chat session. The poor provider pussy got sore before I was able to release.

I don't recommend that you masterbate before having a session. You need to let the body charge up, maybe 5-6 days. Women in general want you to expend the energy on them and they always want to look a the bag to see how full it is. Nice to be able to fill up the tip of the rubber and them some. That turns them on because they know they satisfied their man.

...remember, he was offering his advice to someone struggling with (or bordering on) premature ejaculation.  While women do want to know that they satisfied their man, but they don't "always want to look a(t) the bag to see how full it is".  If you really believe that, then I've got some ocean front property in Colorado that I'll sell you at a good price.  LOL

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I space out my masturbatory activites from the hobbying by about 4 to 5 days.

Believe it or not, some women are very much facinated by semen.

I had a girl friend once who was very disappointed if I came anywhere but in her mouth.  Once I insisted that I cum during intercourse, however, once done she took off the condom and sucked the jiz down, not only from the condom but whatever she could still get out of me.

I must say that it made me feel very appreciated.

kegel exercises

But that will make you limp!

Slows things down a bit.. Both are available at adult book stores.. although the condoms may be available at your supermarket.


Trojan makes a condom for sustained pleasure to prevent to fast an ending:




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That was my answer to a similar question on the newbie board recently.  At 62 I no longer have that problem.

But after reading some of the other responses, I am beginning to wonder.  I often see two providers in the same week, and I masturbate almost daily.  I wonder if that is slowing me down.

Yeah, it could be really annoying…particularly when it is a premium lady. Here are some tips that worked for me…I don’t advise medicines unless its absolutely must.

1) If you are not a single pop per hour person, use ur hand a couple of hours before seeing a lady.

2) don’t head straight into action…talk a little bit, have an extended foreplay session. Gets her hot for you too.

3) Go easy on BJ for the first round if that brings you to edge even before starting. Let the lady do the fucking to begin with. Insist on lube, not necessarily de-sensitizing. Stay away from mish, it can get too sexy for many guys. Doggy works.

4) Follow a rhythm…for example 3 shallow strokes, 1 deep. Jenna jameson style never works. Take it slow. Change positions when you sense ur close too soon.

5) Get laid more often 

Actually, the ladies are the ones supposed to give you advice. They are the experts after all. How do u give pleasure to such guys, ladies?

I'm sorry, Jorge, but ewwwww!

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just kidding. sure is great for blueballs tho

I've had this problem for most of my life.  It still happens occasionally.  What seem to work for me is to just learn to accept it.  Be happy and enjoy whether its too soon, too slow or sometimes maybe not at all.  Actually not at all is the worst.  I pretty sure the not caring mind set is the answer.

and hour or more with no release...but it was frustrating. THe ladies were trying really really hard too... I was with ladies that go for more than one and i could barely manage one.