Here's my answer..
You don't have to write anything if you are uncomfortable...
But if you are going to write it, the request is that you give a "fair" review... Positive points and Negative points... Because that's the kind of review that helps other guys, and helps the gals to improve their services..
Herculean love stories don't help NOBODY....
And we don't really care how big your dick is
Get it?
Now be a big boy...
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I'm torn, was recently in SD and in a moment of weakness saw a provider (that is well reviewed on here) but she was not my first choice, I deviated from my plan to see two other ladies i had been lusting after based on reviews & websites.
I had an ok time. However, it was far from the best, there were a few things that bothered me. She had a body odor, not overpowering but certainly not sexy and her pics on her websites were heavily airbrushed.. the problem is she was an extremely nice lady so i don't want to give a bad review...has anyone had this type of dilemma>??
why because I am asking others opinions? or because I only have a few discussion board posts?
Here's my answer..
You don't have to write anything if you are uncomfortable...
But if you are going to write it, the request is that you give a "fair" review... Positive points and Negative points... Because that's the kind of review that helps other guys, and helps the gals to improve their services..
Herculean love stories don't help NOBODY....
And we don't really care how big your dick is
Get it?
Now be a big boy...
-- Modified on 3/10/2013 10:33:56 AM
No one wants to write a bad review..
If she has a smelly hoo haa, it can be said in a nice way! ![]()
-- Modified on 3/10/2013 11:57:11 AM
If shit has to be said, it has to be said...
You don't have to write anything if you are uncomfortable...
But if you are going to write it, the request is that you give a "fair" review... Positive points and Negative points... Because that's the kind of review that helps other guys, and helps the gals to improve their services..
Herculean love stories don't help NOBODY....
And we don't really care how big your dick is
Get it?
Now be a big boy...
Gals have gotten low reviews before. If they are fair, maybe she can learn & improve. You mentioned BO, not pussy odor... she should learn to not shortcut a shower before appointments. That's a fair observation.
so she was not really your cup of tea and you kinda knew this going in...
its a dilemma for certain but the combination of her not really being your type and all i think it was a bad choice on your part.
i have recieved a few bad reviews over the yrs and all led to bad choice by the client.
I simply was not their type.
I would not write the review just let it go.
she was nice as you said just not what you prefer.
the bad choice is on you.
many who see her love her type thus her good reviews.
this is why you cant see everyone everyone will not be your type.
live and learn i say.
Disagree : B O and airbrushed photos should be reported.
its a dilemma for certain but the combination of her not really being your type and all i think it was a bad choice on your part.
i have recieved a few bad reviews over the yrs and all led to bad choice by the client.
I simply was not their type.
I would not write the review just let it go.
she was nice as you said just not what you prefer.
the bad choice is on you.
many who see her love her type thus her good reviews.
this is why you cant see everyone everyone will not be your type.
live and learn i say.
First of all, you don't owe anybody anything, and you don't have to write a review if you don't want to. As far as THIS review goes, you just have to ask yourself a few questions. Why do you write reviews in the first place? If you feel that it is your "job" to report things to your fellow hobbyists, and if you feel that this woman is doing something deceptive and "cheating" people, then you should write the review. If you write the reviews just to get the VIP days, then of course you should write it. On the other hand, if it's more important to you to be a good human being - to treat an "extremely nice lady" with the same kindness she extended to you, then you should write her a decent review, honest - mention the negatives, but don't knock her down to the ground for them. If you can't do that, then don't write anything at all.
How you review a girl is yours, and yours alone to decide.
This is the age old debate of inflated reviews.
Many accuse each other of lieing in the review.
It is retarded to think that your experience with someone will be anything like what you read.
Not saying reviews are lies. They are just different views from different people.
I actually don't like to read them.
If you read too many, you notice a repeat performance..
Then if you see her, you are reminded that she is going through her bag of motions, and tricks.
Fucking ruins it for me. I don't want to know everything about her moves in bed.
I want to find out for myself.
That being said.. If I encountered a girl who I thought was sweaty.
I would lick the sweat off her. And it would not make me give her a low score.
It might raise it.
But that's me. I like to lick sweat from boobs, and legs.
If I was grossed out, and the girl was cool.
I would say. "Can we clean up a little first?"
If she didn't get the hint. That would go into the review.
I have yet to meet a girl through here that had any problems in that department.
So basically I mean. If you thought she was dirty, and you didn't ask for a shower together.
That's on you. Because a dirty dog like me might want that.
It all depends on how you feel. So if you are honest in your post.
Even if it is negative. It should be respected.
And if it is inflated? YMMV...
Guys are pussy when it comes to the truth about providers.
I'm not calling you out. I've had this dilemma myself in my early hobby days. Lady with descent reviews, but a session that was horrible, she stunk, treated me bad, and basically told me to jack off. She was not cheap either. But, I didn't want to be odd-man out. Didn't want to hurt her reputation, blah, blah blah. I felt EXACTLY like you did.
Then on a smaller regional board I wrote the bad review. I was honest, respectful, and fair. I said in the review I was torn. I told exactly what happened. Guess what? I got dozens of PMs. Mostly from providers who told me that no one should ever experience what I did, and they were glad to see the truth come out.
I was dumbfounded. Then I felt something heavy hanging between my legs, right under my dick.
So, I went off and wrote the review on major boards and was glad I did.
By the way, years later, after I met people who knew the hooker (she was no lady) personally I found out that at least half of her reviews were fakes and shills anyway.
Here's some advice:
WRITE THE REVIEW!
Don't be an ass. Don't downgrade her looks for the bad session. (I see pussy ass guys do that all the time. What bullshit.) Don't disparage her, or call her names. Try to be "journalistic" in your approach, but tell the WHOLE TRUTH.
Quality providers want to see the ripoffs, cheats, and hack hookers exposed. Quality clients want to know what really happens so they can make informed choices. The only people who don't want the truth out there are people who have something to hide.
Good luck. And enjoy your newly found cahones!